My new friends are having relationship problems, do I stand back and watch or offer some friendly advice?

I have just recently met a new couple that I am very fond of. I have only known them for a couple of months, but their issues are so obvious. The husband won't have anything to do with his wife because she has gained weight. (she's pregnant) This makes her needy and desperately wanting affection from him. Sources tell me he feels trapped and is thinking about cheating on her. He invites people over so he doesn't have to be alone with her. But she is too needy and desperate to walk away, and the only reason he doesn't is because he doesn't want to pay child support. Should I tell this wife what has been revealed to me or let her keep wondering whats going on with her husband? She cry's so much and I feel so bad for her.My new friends are having relationship problems, do I stand back and watch or offer some friendly advice?
Stay out of it, especially if they are new friends. If they want your advice, they'll ask for it when you become better friends. It's kinda interesting that you know the reasons they are having problems. At least you THINK you do. Unless you live with them, you only know what they show you.My new friends are having relationship problems, do I stand back and watch or offer some friendly advice?
do you have a life or do you just spend your time all day focusing on them? Seriously.... I suggest you focus on your own life and your own problems before evaluating and analyzing others, who are you to judge anyone elses relationship?





What gives you the right or the knowledge to evaluate anyones relationship?





Mind your business and get a life of your own!!!
You should stay out of it. Chances are she's very grouchy and bites his head off all the time.





Tell the wife to stop telling everyone what a mean jerk the husband is. I think she's not being honest or fair about any of this.
You need to stand back. Pregnancy is temporary and so are the hormones that go along with it. This may evolve into a different set of issues after the baby is here but, it's not your place to step in.
If they ask for advice, then give it, otherwise, I'd stay out of it.
It doesn't sound like you care for the wife, it sounds like you might be justifying your realtionship or feelings for the husband.


Of course she's needy, SHE'S PREGNANT! Don't ecourage her negativity by thinking like this, be her friend, and encourage her to stay positive. Pregnancy is a happy time, and if he's unhappy about the weight gain, that's his disgusting and egotistical issue to worry about.


If they are having problems, that's their business. Unless they both extend their arms to you seeking your oh so wise and gracious advice ( because your a psychic?), keep out of it.


You know for sure that the '; Sources'; know their information??


Don't believe anything unless you see it, and even then, it's their business.


To assume the husband is thinking of cheating on her is just rude and rotten, husbands dont just go walking around telling people they are thinking of doing it, they just do it. I wonder if you are interested in homewrecking?
If she were to ask me what to do, I would tell her to just talk to her husband, that way, you would not be getting in the middle. But think about this first before you get involved in anyway, she is pregnant, so she is very emotional right now, so that would account for her crying a lot. Maybe you don't know all of what is going on, on both sides. I would stay out of it, unless, like I said before, if she asks, just tell her to talk to him. Maybe it would help if you got more involved with her in ways to get her mind off of him. Then she wouldn't have time to feel sorry for herself and be sad all the time.
if you're not asked, don't answer. PERIOD.





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if you're asked, give some friendly advice, but dont pressure your friend if she doesnt do what you think she should do.





EDIT: i also think her husband sounds like a freaking jerk! of course, she's crying. she's freaking pregnant and wants love and attention from her husband...wow, that's unusual..(note my sacrasm). i dont even think you know what's going on because if you did, you would be as equally as appalled as i am that your friend's husband would talk about CHEATING ON HIS PREGNANT WIFE.