Can anyone help me with my self assurance problem?? Advice greatly needed.?

O.K., well. Iam not exactly what you would call OBESE but Iam overweight.I can't talk to my mom about anything, and I don't have any older sisters, or even younger sisters for that matter. Lately, I have been teased in the hall about being fat and ugly, and even a few bad words that I would get in trouble for posting. Its gotten so bad that I don't ever want to go to school anymore, cause someone will say something. DOes any one have any advice for me?? Even people with the same problem?? iam not looking for diet plans or recipes or anything. Just some good advice from someone who understands.Can anyone help me with my self assurance problem?? Advice greatly needed.?
Sweety beauty is only skin deep, most teen age girls go thru a chunky stage, it is your body's way of preparing its self for child bearing years. If the kids you go to school with can't see past your outward appearence. then they are not worht your time. you are most likely a very beautiful girl both inside and out. don't let what they say get you down. most of the time teens pick at other teens to cover up their own insecurities. it is the same way with bullies. if you stand your ground, and are comfortable with your own self image then tell the kids that are teasing you ';to kiss off and to find some one else that they can torment!'; if they see that it bothers you it will only get worse!!Can anyone help me with my self assurance problem?? Advice greatly needed.?
Unfortunately this is a normal 'phase' in teenage years.. it makes THEM feel superior to pick on someone else. Or less inferior by picking on someone with the same problem.





Look at them and say ';Yeah, and proud of it'; Beam a smile. The worst thing you can do is show you are hurt, it eggs them on.





I'm sorry this is happening, it's a really rotten time psychologicially in a Teens life, but it's how it all goes. :( Please be safe, take care of you and remember, this too shall pass :)
Look to every body in THE EYE.





ALWAYS .. LOOK IN THE EYE. ... VICTORIUOSLY ...!





That will let them think again before hurting you .


and SMILE confidently while doing that to those around you...


It will let them find something else to play with.





EXCEL .. People get admiration for many things beside how they look ..





Don think negatively like that .. Why ... ?


Because you are diging your daily grave of inconvidence.





So don think so much .. save that thinking and brain energy to concentrate on other things that you like and could excel in..





After you excel ... you will start to turn the table and DEFY those around you if they can do the same.





Find Friends who realy not obsessed with how they look. Be in a group that you can contribute to their interest (good ones).





Write poetry .. Read jokes .. Carry a massive load of them .. about everything .. about beautiful and bad looking people .. about thin and fat people ... Smile confidently at all facts of life ...





Stupidity of those around you is a fact ..


Smile at it..!





And always look in the eye....


Victoriously .
Just ignore those people. They only say it because it makes them feel better. When they mature, they will regret it. If you are in highschool.....then REALLY..DONT worry about it. you will probably never see those people again and they don't matter to you. there's always gonna be mean people. just keep in your mind that youre a beautiful person in the inside, and thats what really counts. One day you might be a knockout, while they are all nasty. Things change, people change, and they will have regrets!!! Just think in your head how ignorant those people are. they really are. just thank god you are not like them, and you aren't IGNORANT like them. =) I hope i was somewhat of a help!