Saturday, July 31, 2010

Help i need advice about this problem i got?

I just turned 18, and i never had a gf due to because i was really fat but im now in shape for sum reason girls like me now. So anyways i met a girl who is 22 and she has a 2 year old girl, and is currenlty divorced but the babys dad still comes to visit the daughter...


(I don't want baby daddy problems).......





Anyways i lied to her i said i was 20, and now we are hitting off Should i stop seeing her, or just flow with it and have fun and enjoy my young life???Help i need advice about this problem i got?
you should tell her the truth number one and number two it doesnt matter that she has children or not see where the relationship goes first worry about the child later. you should find somebody your own age though and when you meet that special girl and tell her you never had a girlfriend before because you were bigger or whatever she is going to fall in love with you because i know i would because your like a brand new car with no millageHelp i need advice about this problem i got?
I think you need to tell her the truth before things get too serious. What if the roles were reversed and you were the one being lied to? I really don't think her having a two year old daughter should prevent you from wanting to see her, but if it really does bother you then maybe you should cut things off now before you lead her on too much. That is if she still wants to see you after she finds out she's being lied to about your age.
It's true that honesty is the best policy. Try to tell her the truth about how old you are. If you're really hitting it off you dont want to screw it up with a lie you told. If you can't tell her the truth end it. Unless you dont think it will get that serious and you may not talk to her for a while after, then just go with it. But try and put yourself in her shoes. what if she really ends up liking you and finds out your real age? it will probably crush her and make her pissed off. try and tell her.
you are not ready for her. a single mother doesn't look for flings or someone to just have fun with. (at least not the sensible ones)





if you stay in the relationship, eventually she will want you to be a man and be responsible for both her and her child. are you ready for that?





PLUS you started your relationship on a lie. end it. save her the heartache. go have fun with a girl who doesn't have a child to think about.
go with it if ouy love her age aint nothing but a thang in this time.


but im 13 never ad a gf(big surprise there '.' lol)so i would strongly suggest against my advice(though i've been told im very mature)but if you like the advice then follow it
tell her the truth- she obviously made a mistake in her life- lying to her is another mistake.
You should tell her the truth(honesty is key in any relationship)


then keep the relationship going :))
Tell her your age, of course. You won't get anywhere by lying to her...she'll find out eventually and it'll be horrid when she does.





Good luck to you :D
Just bone her and wrap up everytime, because you know she's good at having babies.
LoL.But tell her your age your kinga legal.I dont know why yu were afraid of telling her your age???

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