Major man problem: advice and or suggestions?

So, i have a reputation of a party girl and ';getting around.'; im not proud of it, but its just who I am. Recently I met a boy, Seth, who isnt the coolest of all guys, but for some reason i find myself attracted to him. Hes always had a crush on me, but until now i hardly even knew he existed.





The only thing is, im afraid of what other people will think about me if i get into a reliationship with this boy.





advice please?Major man problem: advice and or suggestions?
Find out how he feels about you, and be honest about your history if it comes up. The best thing you can do is make sure he knows that you aren't that kinda girl anymore, and will stay faithful. If he can't handle it then it wasn't meant to be.Major man problem: advice and or suggestions?
does it really matter who you are to other people. your friends are going to understand and will probably become good friends with the guy. if there is anyone who thinks that you don't belong with him then f*ck em. those people obviously aren't strong enough to do what they truly want in life just because they want other people to look at them in a certain way.





so my advice is to talk to him because you do like him and he likes you and this is an opportunity that could change your life in a very good way. and it will teach you to be strong and independent.
why do you care what other people think? it's your life to live not theirs. if you live your life trying to please other people you will never be happy let alone your own person. live your life on your own terms and be happy.





p.s. opinions are like a-- h-l-s, everybody has one.





good luck.
Ignore the other people, and if you think you will be happy with him, go for it. It's your opinion, if you care of what other people think about you about dating someone, then you, no offense, and other people, need to grow up a little bit :)
It sounds like a beautiful love story, The Nerd Gets The Easy Girl! Anyway, I say give it to him, screw what everybody else thinks, they're already talking behind your back, this will give them something else to talk about!
Please go ahead . There is no any wall in love. Love is pure. Nothing can win love.. dont worry , just enjoy life.....





or i am here.





and by the way, thanks for 2 points whatever your problem be.
This problem sounds familiar...





EDIT: The OC anyone?
Don't worry about other people if he makes you happy and you want to be with him then you should go for it!
Just go for it..


Who cares?


Live while your young.


I'll bet you if you don't go for it now 20 years from now you will regret it..


So who cares????
do what you feel like doing, it's your life and other people can deal with that