(Relationship problems) Im a female who is 21 and in a four year relationship and i need some advice?

me and my boyfriend has so many problems but were are so great for each other. we have a four month old daughter and we are at well, i'm at a point of giving up. i do have a anger problem and it started because he cheated on me. and he had sex with this girl that he worked with. more than once and she slept over his house and they took a shower together. he said she took advantage of him and that he had nobody. i have strict parents who wouldn't let me out on week days yes i was 18 but i fear them. so i always hated him for that.like it did something to my soul. when i was 8 month pregnant he broke up with me but we still lived together and we still had sex. but he messed around and it hurt me cause he lied and said he was with his friend and i believe him. he slept with this girl three times and on valentine day and i was in the hospital with my daughter all night i didn't get home till 7am. he had the nerves to give me the flower and candy she gave to him. im trying to hang in here?(Relationship problems) Im a female who is 21 and in a four year relationship and i need some advice?
Break up. You're too young to be in a relationship.





Listen to Tom Leykis.(Relationship problems) Im a female who is 21 and in a four year relationship and i need some advice?
You're way to young to be in a relationship that bad. He doesn't treat you the way you deserved to be treated. You and your daughter need to get away and make a better life for yourselves.
Hang on to what? A piece of crap man who wants his cake and to eat it too? Come on...what will your daughter see? Mommy's daddys door mat?
Get your head in the game, Honey. Your marriage is over and the whole relationship is bizarre! My advice to you is make him pay pay pay!
You both sound very immature and not ready to be married, let alone parents!!
this guy obviously doesn't love you and sounds like he's very young also. Guys that are this young aren't ready for a family. Most of them are looking to see how big their score card can get with the girls. Take care of your child first and foremost and make sure he's taking care of his child as well. Don't put yourself through any more of this. I definitely wouldn't.
This doesn't sound particularly happy or healthy. Think of your daughter. This man is taking advantage of you at every turn, and has treated you badly when you were at your most vulnerable. You don't need this. Move on.
Ok, for one thing, your boyfriend does not respect you because he is too busy sleeping with another woman. He is not ready to be a father, he is not even husband material because if he was ready for that, he would have made it valid and you would have been his wife! Are you not afraid of catching some disease from him from sleeping around like that?





I really think that you need to either tell him to leave or you move in with your parents. Start taking care of your daughter and yourself too because this guy you are living with is not mature and is not responsible to be a father to your daughter. What is more important right now is your daughter. And at least you will have your parents who love her and help you take care of her until you are able to be on your own.
What is your question? Whether you should stay with him? Clearly the answer is no. Why would you want to be with someone who uses you this way? He's not changing his behavior, and you've told him with your actions that's okay with you. Break up, move out, and find someone mature enough to be in a relationship.
In my opinion you two are not so great for one another if this is going on. The situation that you described is not a healthy relationship. Even healthy relationships have bumps in the road. It sounds as if you and your boyfriend are trying to get through heavy construction. Get help! Good luck
This guy sounds like he's just not worth your time. Your child doesnt need to be brought up in a relationship where your afraid of being cheated on again and being hurt. And someone who breaks up with you when your 8 months pregnant is someone who definately is not worth anything in my books. You can find someone better than this man.
What the hell are you doing? Get away from this d*ckhead. Pour your heart and soul into your beautiful daughter. One day someone will come along that will love you both. Word of advice though... don't go looking for him, he'll find you.





Cheers





Bronco