Thursday, July 29, 2010

Need Advice!! Problem with my bf.?

Is it possible to have a relationship with someone that doesn't share your interests? My boyfriend of 3 years told me that he found out after we moved in together four months ago that we don't have much in common, but that he loves me and wants to be with me. He said he is worried that it might cause a conflict between us later. I don't know what to do?Need Advice!! Problem with my bf.?
its possible i've been in alot of relationships like that but wat hes saying is that he really like u and doesnt want the lack of intersted share to cause a big fight so try to do some stuff hes interrested in and have him do that same with uNeed Advice!! Problem with my bf.?
If you've been dating for three years and have JUST come across this problem--then don't worry about it.





Although moving in together is what really makes or breaks a relationship. If it is meant to be, it'll happen. If not, there's not much else you can do.





A lot of times, people that have things in common tend to work out great together because they have common interests which makes for things to do, things to talk about, etc.





But it's also just as likely for opposites to attract. You just need to find out which type of relationship you prefer.





Best of luck to you : ]
lots of couples dont share a lot in common- thats kinda like the old saying: opposites attract- you dont have to have everything in common, but try to find SOME common ground, and work with that- its ok to be involved in things the other person isnt into, but you should be supportive at least. Example, if he's into baseball and you arent, you can at least go to his games and cheer him on and stuff
The only thing that you guys can do to stay out of doubt is to do things together that you both enjoy.. Think about what it was that got you two together and take it from there. Go out and spend some quality time. Cook together a special dinner once a month or every 2wks... anything that involves both of you.


Also be playful. Have him chase you around the house and wrestle each other(dont beat each other up) and laugh...
It won't. Don't worry.





I didn't have much in common with my last bf and that didn't cause a problem (we broke up cause of something (or rather someone) else). We just tried to get into each others interests and that, he loved music so I listened to some of his favorite bands, and I was into films so we watched my favorites together...





It will work out :)
Me and my boyfriend don't have much in common either but we see that as a good thing. Normally, if you have alot in common, you can clash and we don't clash. We still have an amazing time together and we are very much in love. :)
I think you can make it work, if you both want it to. You've got to have something in common if you've lasted 3 years. You don't have to have everything in common to have a great relationship. A couple things in common will do.
to be totaly honest, no1 can really help you with this 1, you just have to stick it out and see what happens,





Best of Luck :]





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Opposites Do attract i had a girl friend we were nothing alike we wound up being together for 4 years
try to focus on the thing u guys got in common not on the things u dont n good luk

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