Saturday, July 31, 2010

I need peoples advice about this problem?

Bacically the problem is this. I met a guy at schol who I really love and care about. I want to be wit him forever and i want to get married to him. Only problem is i live in a group home the group home sucks because it will not allow me to see my boyfriend unless i am on a home visit or discharged or at school. I want to be with my boyfriend what should i doI need peoples advice about this problem?
How old are you? Remember..someone has to support you and your boyfriend..running off will not do that. If it's truly love, you both can wait until your able to support yourself. Believe me, older people who have jobs have a hard time staying together...love does not conquer all nor pay the bills.


The reason the group home does not let you go off with him is because you can not be monitored that way. They are responsible for you at this time. Just make the best of it.I need peoples advice about this problem?
There is a way for the two of you to feel a bit better about having to be apart right now and that is to focus lots of energy into planning for the future. Work together to get through school, work together to get into college or technical programs. Open separate bank accounts and set goals for yourselves as to how much money each will put into their own account each week. make it a fun little contest. have a little contest with each other about grades, who can do the best and graduate with the most honors. Who can get their college degree first and get a professional job first. When you have accomplished all that together you will feel closer than ever and you will be able to be together on your own, your own money, your own home, your own plans. I know you really love him, and that love will last. He is worth working for so you can do this!





yep.
i had this friend that is a girl that had the same problem but it turn out differently i don't want to put you down. i just think that you should think about this married over again. 80% of highschool relationships fail the seinor year so dont give your hopes up on the wrong guy seents you do get to see him that much maybe reconsider on the right guy.
i agree with trouble wolf
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