Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I am having some problems ever since i got pregnant i have started to act well not myself,advice?!?!?

Ok i am 16 and so is my bf i am pregnant, and i am due nov 25th :). My parents and my bf's parents have been so supportive. But here is the deal for the past week i have become so clingy to my bf(Ryan) and i have started to have a supper bad jealousy problem. Like today me and Ryan went to sams with his mom and well some girls from school came up and just gave him a friendly hug and i almost lost it on them. And i have become clingy, i want all his time 24/7,and i always want him holding me and cuddling on me. And i have been scared to take showers bye myself so like when my parents arent home or what not i make him take on with me. Ryan has been so great about it though. What is wrong with me? I feel like i am turning into Queen ***** here. My bf dose not deserve this,advice?I am having some problems ever since i got pregnant i have started to act well not myself,advice?!?!?
Congrats on the baby! You are 16 and pregnant...that is a scary situation to be in to begin with. I'm 29 and pregnant and scared as hell! But...as a therapist my thoughts are that it sounds like you are feeling insecure about what is going to happen in the future, or what is happening right now. School is going to be harder, your relationship is going to get harder, you are gaining weight, not to mention the negative social stigma of being young and pregnant! Among so many other concerns/worries that I bet are flashing through your head, it is going to give you some anxiety. That is a big heavy load on your emotions!





My advice would be to talk to your bf about all your fears/worries/concerns and also talk to a trusted friend or adult to help support you and let you know you are not alone and that you are strong enough to be great at this and have a wonderful life as well.





Your bf, if he is sympathetic in the least, should understand you need him now more than ever and should be happy to give you a little extra comfort to get you over this emotional bump.I am having some problems ever since i got pregnant i have started to act well not myself,advice?!?!?
you're young, scared, and hormonal





for all intents and purposes i was a single mother with my first and honestly, i needed my mother more than my boyfriend





don't focus so much on clinging to him if you can help it, learn all you can from your mother about the huge responsibilities you're about to take on ... even his mother can help ... personally i feel you need their love and attention more right now than his -





it's totally understandable, though - good luck with everything
it's normal being pregnant, it's you hormones. ha. it's normal for you to be angry with anyone, even over the smallest things. Maybe you should just apologize in advance and let him know that it's normal for you to act that way.
its all normal, ive gone through the same thing, its your hormones. Trust me they get worse. Im 23 and I want my bf to holding me and cuddling me all the time, i make him take showers with me too as well, i think its in my case that i feel as if i need him more now then i ever did, its hard to have your body and hormones change so much, you might even cry sometimes if he doesn't do certain things. It's like a self comfort thing. If you have any questions feel free to email me anytime..

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