I need help. We're both 16 and have been going out for 5 months and 2 and a half weeks. I know I love him and I thought I knew that he loved me.. before summer started we were perfectly fine and now that its already a few weeks into it, he's acting so much different. We haven't gotten to sex and we don't really plan to until later. We don't see each other that much because his mother is lazy and when I try to talk to him about our problems, he always gets upset and trys to change the subject or just stops talking to me. We're always arguing about different things and he seems to be getting more jealous now. I really need advice, why do you think he's doing this? :/Boy problems, we've been dating for almost 6 months and we're distant since summer started. Any advice?
We can't know why he's doing this. We don't know him. We can't read his mind. Either find a way to talk to him about it, accept it and see where things go, or end it and move on. Right now you're upset and troubled and it's getting you nowhere. My advice is talk about it or end it. Just hanging in there waiting to see what he's going to do will make for a long, miserable Summer.Boy problems, we've been dating for almost 6 months and we're distant since summer started. Any advice?
It could be anything from cheating to stress. Give it time and see if it improves. But my advice to you is not to let an unhealthy relationship continue if it's only making you unhappy. Take serious stock of the good and bad in your relationship and ask yourself if it's good for the two of you. If he's not that into you, then find someone who is, that you can love and be loved by.
Try not to talk to him about emotional issues for a while. Let him think for himself for a while, its obvious that he loves you because he's getting more jealous, it might mean that he's upset that u might find a new guy over the summer.
just let him know that u love him and appreciate him, and that u trust him. then leave him alone. if he wants to spend time with u, he will, but he obviously loves u.
maybe he is haveing problems at home, or he't hinting he wants some space.
let him do his thing with the guys and you do your thing with the girls.
maybe you should try taking to him about it
if he seems to not care, id say try to have fun this summer and find a cute summer cutie.
I think because it is hard to have a long distance relationship and he either wants to break up or he just has alot on his mind...
Hope this helps!
It seems to me... that hes possibly cheating... Ive been though it soo many times... But the signs are there...so idk...think about it kiddo... wish ya the best!
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