Friendship problems. PLEASE HELP! It's important, and I would REALLY, REALLY appreciate some advice.?

A few months ago, I was really badly bullied by a girl who used to be my best friend and she turned some of my closest friends against me. Now, I have a few close friends but am always worried that I will lose them too. The girl who bullied me is considered REALLY pretty by a lot of people and has lots of friends, plus she's really intimidating so I can't do anything about it. Her mother is even worse, so if I tried to stick up for myself, her mum would be at my house verbally abusing my parents. I'm not overexaggerating at all - she has done it before. It has come to the point where I am constantly afraid of going to school and feel suffocated because I don't know where to turn or what to do. Anyway, I have had this really good friend lately who gets into all sorts of trouble. She cheated on her longtime boyfriend twice recently and the girls in older years hate her because she cheated with their boyfriends too. She's a really nice girl and I love her but I don't know if I can be friends with her anymore. The problem is, I don't really have anyone else. What should I do? PLEASE HELP. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE ANY FEEDBACK.Friendship problems. PLEASE HELP! It's important, and I would REALLY, REALLY appreciate some advice.?
look first of all dont feel intimidated by no one ... no matter how popular they are, how pretty they are, or how their parents will react to you standing up for your self. The most important and real friends you ever going to have are your parents- trust me- no matter the problems you may have with them ... parents are always going to be there for you and are never going to give you a bad advice. so please dont say you dont have anyone. in the other hand, i understand you need to have someone your age to talk to and the only way that is going to happen is if you start talking to people to whom you normally wouldnt - in other words just meeting new people in school. about the girl you are hanging out with well ,if you dont feel you want to hang out with her anymore dont just ditch her ... just try to distance your self from her as much as possible (in a friendly way) . You know there is people that it's ok to say hi to but not to hang out with. just think any of the ';friends'; that turn on you they werent really your friends. i say this because friends dont just ';turn on you'; - based on someone elses opinion about you. real friends talk out every problem they dont make it worst.Friendship problems. PLEASE HELP! It's important, and I would REALLY, REALLY appreciate some advice.?
first off friends are always gonna turn on you stick with family but however dont fear her or anyone thats what make ppl walk over yu stay confident in yourself and about your new friend dont associate your self with troublelmakers because you think you have to this may seem crazy but your ya own best friend all you need is you forget anyone else


hope i helped .
I think you should talk to a counselor at school about what's going on. Maybe they can give you more advice then I can. About your new friend maybe you should let her know whats going on.
Forget about the bully. Stick to your real friends. Who cares what they do as long as it doesn't have an affect on you?
ok so. try getting to know some more people, like in class start a friendly conversation with your neighbor





oh and if u can, try making guy friends! they dont turn on you like girls do...
As far as bullying goes, you need to have your PARENTS go to the principal, because if you go most likely they are going to put you and her in the same room to ';talk abou it'; which will only make it worse, but if you have your parents do it and they tell the principal they do not want your name mentioned but they do want the bullying to stop, and if it dont they can go to the board of education and they will do something about it. As for the friends thing, I would definately start talking to more people because that is the only way to make friends, and if you make friends with boys they really do make better friends, and if you hang out with alot of boys then all the girls will want to hang out with you too. Last but not least the girl who is in a lot of trouble, will only get you in trouble, if she has many enemies in older grades because she is a sl*t then that will give you a bad name too, and all them older grade girls will dislike you as well. Girls have there way of hating each other, but pulling together if it comes to there boyfriends all sleeping with another girl.
the best part about friends , is the fact that they dont judge . They deal with you and put up with you in your worst moments , and always forgive you . Stay friends with the girl , she needs a friend , not a judge. She could be going through some stuff right now , and could really need you right now . Ask her why she is cheating , and after that just leave it alone. Its her and her boyfriends problem , it isnt affecting you or anyone besides them . So its not your place to worry . Let her make mistakes , and learn from them . In the end , after doing that , she will do the same for you . And stick up for you when you need her , if she is a true friend .





She and your other friends will stick by you if there worth it , and your good to them . Dont limit yourself to just them though . Keep them close , but socialize with all types of people . If you were to look at all of my friends , you would see they all belong to different ';cliques'; , because im nice to all of them . No matter what , and it actually makes people want to be my friend because i dont judge anyone and try to get along with everyone . So hangout with someone you normally wouldnt and you might find that you get along with other groups of people and stereo types . I'll admit , i dont get along with everyone , but im not perfect , and neither are you , so dont worry if you absolutely dont get along with some people .





Focus on yourself and dont worry about the ';pretty'; girl , and you wont have any problems . Just keep your friends close , and make lots of them , it will all add up . People will realize , your a good friend, and im not going to lie . There are some people who will never realize she isnt a good friend , thats life .
well i would go to the principal.


maybe you can try to get homeschooled.


or transfer to another school


or get home-bound.


I'm here if you need to talk about anything. I'm a really good listener.


I'm sorry about your situation and i hope it gets better.


I don't know what else to say.


+ if you think you can't be friends with her anymore, just start distancing yourself from her a little more and more each week.


work on your confidence, and self-esteem. maybe you can stand up for yourself.
I had the exact same problem! The bully was really pretty but mean. What ended up happening was that she noticed what she was doing and stopped, now she's my BEST FRIEND!!! I doubt that'll happen with u though, but she might stop :). wat u should do it make sure that the friends u still have understand the problem so that they can't change sides cuz they know the truth. As 4 the ppl that r no longer ur friends cuz of the bully, they could be pursuated 2 take ur side if u try. 4 the friend that cheats, do wat u have 2. If shes not mean 2 u then don't stop being her friend, u might be able 2 get her 2 stop cheating though, tell its 4 the best. Hope I helped!!