I need to know what to say to my son鈥檚 girlfriend.
He has no job, he dropped out of college, he has blue balls, he lives in our garage, and he got a woman who is not his longtime fianc茅e (his fiance of 10years. they have been engaged since he was twenty and she was 16) pregnant. The woman (who is carrying his child- not his fiance, his mistress) just turned 18 and plans on keeping the baby even though she didn't finish high school and her parents kicked her out. She is now sleeping on our front lawn because she got in a fight with my son and he won't let her back in to the garage. What should we do? Should we raise the kid as our own and get a restraining order against our son? Should we get third jobs so that we can support our son, the girl he got pregnant, and the new baby? Or should we move away?PREGNANCY: What advice would you give to a new mommy? I have a lot of problems sleeping on my front lawn...?
Why is your son that way? He needs to take responsibility for his own actions, you can't wipe his butt forever. What type of ';man'; would kick his pregnant ';mistress'; out of his parent's garage to sleep on the lawn? You should open the front door and let her sleep on the sofa for one. Then you should kick your horrible son out onto the lawn to see how he feels. Tell him he needs to grow up and take responsibility like a real man. You didn't raise a real winner at all. Cheats on his fiancee of 10 yrs! Being only engaged for 10 yrs, that's a red flag anyway...
If you move away you will miss out on a grand baby. If you keep wiping your son's *** he will never grow up. Take the girl in to your home, help her out and baby sit your grand kid. She can then finish high school and get a part-time job.PREGNANCY: What advice would you give to a new mommy? I have a lot of problems sleeping on my front lawn...?
will in a good world they would work it out yeah right that's not going to happened huh let her move in your house its to cold and she could loose the baby your son should step up and be a man but that's between her and him put your self in her shoes what would you wont and do that i thank you know the right thing to do
You are a total troll - your other question on here is how your 12 year old daughter is knocked up by her druggie 17 year old boyfriend.
This area is for women probably at least twice your age, some of whom have been trying for years to have children, most of whom (whatever their age) desperately need answers to their serious, real-life questions.
Do us all a favour and find another way to amuse yourself. Your stories are pathetic, as are you. I'm reporting you (i'm on the Yahoo committee for abuse) :-(
First, let the girl into the darn house....let her crash for the night
Secondly, they are adults and they need to deal with this issue as adults. You should stand up to your son and stop enabling this childish behavior. I have a six year old and I wouldn't put up with it from him!
That's funny, a few minutes ago, he WAS 16, lived in a flat in the city and threatened his girlfriend with a knife (which was why she ended up on the front lawn.
Get a life.
Shut the *** up already! I've seen two of your questions on here already and you've changed your story. Do me a favor and grow the hell up. Noone wants a 13 year old boy postiong bogus questions in the parenting section.
Stop trolling in the pregnancy section!
uh, wow...pack up now and move!!!!
your whole story changed grow up you idiot..
and to think i was going to give u a good answer to ur problems
Oh hun it sounds like you have a head full of problems. Take the baby and run for the hills. Seriously. He's not going to stop. And she's not going to stop. You'll end up raising the baby anyway, but having them over shoulder telling you what not to do and what to do, when they can't even take care of themselfs. You having that baby is the best thing for it. I know it will be tough, but if you think really really hard about it, do you want them having the baby? And possibly going somewhere with it? I don't want to scare you, I just think you should take the baby, and prove them unfit parents. Good luck, I hope everything works out.
call Jerry Springer. i am willing to bet he would absolutely love to hear ur story :) good luck tho. caz joking aside, it sounds like a hell of a situation. ur son is being selfish, childish, and ignorant. you need to get that girl to a pregnancy aid center. they are all over. they will help her with housing, food, clothes, baby needs, etc. no offense to her or ur son, but they are not ur problem and you should not have to be carrying the burden of all this. at the very least maybe you should open up ur couch to the poor girl (why dont u go with her to talk to her parents. any parents would find it in their heart to forgive their child a stupid error in the face of becoming grandparents) they may just need some time... i wish you the best
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