Okay everyone i am a girl having problems with my man,please answer this question an give me your advice.?

we have being dating for 2 years now,surely everyone can see a different in their relationship i did see some different in the coupler years that have past and it was so good. know for the past 2 weeks he is being acting different, i tried to call him on saturday night but he did not answer any of my calls,i even tried him the following morning still he did not answer. he called me on sunday afternoon and told me that he saw my missed calls,he also said that he will call me again but he did not. i did have a talk with his friend on sunday,telling his friend that he must try and talk to him,because if he does not change his attitude i am out of his life. the friend did talk to him on that some sunday,i called him again on the same day and he answered my call,but they was to much noisy he said he will call me back but he did not do that.he came on monday afternoon and i told him how i feel about the situation,but still yesterday i called he did not answer my call what must i do.


helpOkay everyone i am a girl having problems with my man,please answer this question an give me your advice.?
You should ask why he is not answering the calls. Discuss with him face-to-face.Okay everyone i am a girl having problems with my man,please answer this question an give me your advice.?
well to me he sounds like he is avoding u to wot purpose u have to ask u self that .could be afew reasons one he is up 2 something with some one else .2 he needs space .or other reasons?i would just not call him or tx him wait for him to contact u because maybe he is getting a kick out of u chaseing him up good luck
If you are sure you did not contribute to his changed behaviour then just quit. This man does not love you at all. If he does, then you hurt him so badly
Well, I'm not gonna say that he is cheating. But I will say that sometimes I just don't feel like answering the phone,even calls from my own kids, so give the poor guy the benefit of doubt, this time. Don't call him back though, wait on him to call you. If he doesn't, then leave well enough alone, and move on, it's a new year baby...Out with the old, and in with the New!!!!
listen first of all try to calm yourself....now dont give him a call for a day and if he calls dont pick up the phone...i know dat its tough bt u hv to do it n on d othr day dont call him untill he calls u up n if he doesnt call on d secnd day den on d 3 day call him n say dat u wanna meet him n if he tries to excuse d situation directly go to his place n solve ur probs
If I were you, here's what I would do:





1. Tell him what's on your mind. Since he doesn't want to talk to you, you can leave a message. Make a note beforehand so your message would be clear and brief.


- tell him that you need to talk that his unusual behavior is affecting you.


- tell him that you guys can sort things out if he would only tell you his problems.





2. Wait. He might have issues he's not ready to share with you -- it might be about your relationship or something else.





3. Set a deadline. You can't wait forever. You have to move on at some point but you have to tell him that too.





4. Make plans of your own, just in case.
Give him some space and get a hobby of your own that doesn't involve him. Just chill out a little.
Don't call him again and see what happens !!!!


Stop chasing him................. Let him come to you !!!


If he doesn't call again then you know the score.............. if he does call then lay down the law and tell him you won't put up with his behaviour.............if he doesn't change then dump him.
sounds like still sowing seeds in the back off your mind hes f**king some one else get rid off him his mate is covering for him
Sounds like he has made his choice already, but hasn't got the courage to tell you.


Or he's an ignorant bast*rd either way I'd move on to fresh ground. Life is too short.
DON'T CALL HIM, WAIT TILL HE CALLS YOU, IF HE'S INTERESTED, HE WILL, IF HE'S NOT, WELL, DUMP HIM.
i cant tell you what to do, but if you already talked to him, its obvious that hes not into you as much as your into him, hes not trying so is that what you want, do you think he likes another girl because if hes always busy with something it might be another girl, you told him how you felt maybe if you leave him and he tells you not to then he cares about you but if he acts like He doesn't care its because he doesn't.
Stop calling him and try to ignore him, see wut happened. If he try to call means he still wants u but if not he not longer interested in the relationship thus wuts the point you go out with someone doesnt appreciate your love. Its better to know it earlier rather than late. Definitely there must be someone for you out there. Just think wutever happened, its for ur own good and he is not lucky to get you.





Good luck!
Um..if he won't talk to you, then why do you wanna talk to him?Just move on to someone else, if he won't talk to you, that's pretty much all that you can do. So move on to someone else, that won't treat you like that, he's probably cheating on you or something.
No Offence!





But you can't see other people while you're with someone else.





It makes you 2-faced and I think he has different ideas from you in relationships.





Your relationship is meqant to be built on trust not other people.





Talk to him face-to-face
It's no good everyone speculating what it might be. The only thing to do is to ask him outright what the problem is. If you don't manage to sort things out with him then at least you will know where you are.
Find a good time to have a talk with him. He acts like that maybe he got problems that he doesn't want you to worry. So, the best way to know what you ought to do is talk to him and let him know how you feel, how much you care for him also let him know that the only way to keep your relationship long lasting is honesty. Wish you good luck.
Dump his *** but dont tell him, 2 can play that game, Either he's dumped you and hasn't had the balls to tell you so i wouldnt even show that you are bothered and he'll start to wonder why you havent been calling!!!
well...it is pretty obvious...he is hanging out at other places...


and it is a ';must'; for couples..to spend together .Saturdays nigthts....otherwise..there is soem fooling around...as it seems to be the case here.
You are going to have to face the fact that this relationship is in trouble or more likely, it's over. If he wants out, 'n wants to move on, let him go. Don't try to hold on to him; it's over. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you can heal up and get on with your own life. Sorry.
He's blown you out and is to scared to tell you to your face. What do you want? A map?
wells theres no way ill know what hes doing...





ill would tell u... from a guys point of vew...





hes either beein seing someone else





or hes having emotional issues hes not letting out soo...





confront him like so and so said in person...





and make it simple
talk to him again. ask him what the problem is. try to fix it. if you cant resolve it, then leave. you dont need to put up with that kind of bs
Its obvious he's hiding something.. and I would suspect he is cheating..My advice stop chasing after him..and just leave him be..and move on with you life!
What does it take before you get it!!


Say bye, bye, Plenty of fish in the sea.


Move on, you be the 1st to do it, then you'll feel better.
Sounds like he has some one on the side, maybe you should start looking also.
Ok, if you think he's cheating then that's one thing...





But if you just want him to pay more attention to you and you don't like his attitude lately, then the worst thing you could possibly do is getting his friends to talk to him about it. It's between you and him. If you hassle his friends then you're gonna loose him.





The second worse thing you could do is to hassle him yourself. So stop being so needy and give him his freedom. Or else it's already over.
1st you should never get anyone of your friends or his friends in the middle. If the guy doesn't want to talk too you then take the hint and move on. I know that you have a lot of time into this, but it seems as if he is just blow smoke up your A**......go talk to him yourself then you'll have your answer .....it seems he is bored with this relationship and might be wanting time alone or away from you.





2nd guys are not good comunicators we all no this this could be his way of saying it's over, I know it's not ballzy but that how men are....good luck...but hey don't go chasing after him it will do no good or even worse turn it into some big soap opera.....
If he acts like this, I think there are some possibilities 1) He feels tired being with you for some reasons 2) He has a new girlfriend. 3) He wants to break up with you, but don't know how to handle it.





It seems that your b/f hasn't seen u for a couple of weekends. It sounds fishy.





Don't rely on his friends who promise to help u out cos they might know what is happening between u guys, but will never told you cos they are his friends but not yours. To be honest, if i were you, I would think that he is tired being with me and has met a nice and attractive girl, so he wants to end the relationship with me, but doesn't want to be a bad guy by telling me this cruel decision. So he may want you to say ';Listen, I'm going to kick u out of my life'; to make him feel better.





If you really love him and don't still want to be with him, I suggest u not to call him constantly. Instead, you should send an email to him telling him what's your thoughts and are willing to give each other some space and see if you guys still love each other. good luck!
i know this sounds bazaar but i would ignore him instead.. with everything you have..(i know its hard) just do it to him until he notices.. maybe he will show you some respect and appreciation then