Typical problem but i dont want typical advice?

I want a more physical relationship with my boyfriend... not like sex though.... i think about it all the time. But when i am actually with him i get very nervous... What should I do?Typical problem but i dont want typical advice?
I guess it all depends on how long you have been with him and how old you are. If its not a long time then its pretty normal to be nervous around him. Once you guys get comfortable with making out it should get normal. When your in bed or day dreaming about the things you would like to do with him you can try them when your both ready and comfortable with each other. Remember to always be playful!!


I guess the whole point of this response is to wait until your not nervous anymore then you can move to the next step of the relationship! :D


I hope things go well!Typical problem but i dont want typical advice?
Explain what you just said about physical but not sex and all that on a piece of paper, when you next go to a resteraunt tape it to the inside of his menu when he's not looking, he'll open it, read it, and understand completely,or put it somewhere similar. Just be careful though, if still in school, do not put in loker or anywhere like that.
when you're with him, just like make a move instead of just being nervous about it and imagining it. if you want it enough, you'll do something about it. just kiss him, take his hand when you want to, hug him, cuddle with him, etc etc etc.





don't be nervous, he's your boyfriend he will love you anyway. but remember, don't let the physical attraction/stuff take over the emotional part of the relationship.





good luck
Not like sex... so you want to smack him around or just a hickey?





You are really losing me when you ask for atypical advice too - boy do some strange things come to mind and it is a job to keep from typing them for answer deletion purposes only. :)
tell him you want to go farther but not as far as sex. this might make you less nervous so you know he wont be expecting you to make that step
make little movements


grab his junk and just mess around, be playful


he will think its fun and you can get some good out of it
Start slow. Hold hands. Sit with him at lunch. Give him a kiss goodbye on his cheek.
What do you mean if you don't mean sex ?
Wait until you both grow up, maybe?
yeah well you just need to get more experience thats all