Marriage problem need advice?

Well i recently got married


it was an arranged marriage so i am not quiet familiar with my wife


she is really beautiful and we never had sex yet,


i am a very shy person and i think she is too.


i do not know how to approach her since its my first time what should i do? Marriage problem need advice?
Since it was arranged, start by going out on dates with her and see if you guys feel comfortable about each other. Start from scratch. Let her know that is what you think you should do and then things will happen later. I feel for you!Marriage problem need advice?
For crying out loud, don't just go for the gusto. You've got a better chance of alienating her than anything else that way.





She's probably feeling just as awkward as you are right no. Try to see things from her point of view, and treat her like you'd like to be treated in that same situation. I've heard arguements for and against arranged marriages, but since this isn't likely to affect me (not muslim/hindu/asian, and already married) I really don't have an opinion on it. I DO know how to treat a woman, and I figure it's pretty universal.





Talk to her like a person, try and find activities you both enjoy, become FRIENDS first and build from there.
You both need to be relaxed and comfortable, without any interruptions. Then you should have a light meal, drink something relaxing, then look into her eyes, kiss her gently, tell her how beautiful she is, that you find her so attractive!


Hold her gently, kiss her passionately but will very little pressure, she should respond. Remember the eyes are the window on the soul!


Take your time, do not rush anything!


If you both are showing signs of passion, then, and only then, slowly start to remove her clothes, perhaps with her help... it would be a good sign!


carry on to making love, but take your time unless she gets very passionate, if she does you could speed up a bit.


Pity I cannot be there to demonstrate!! (joking)
Just talk to her. Give yourselves some time to get to know each other. Hold her hands, look her in the eyes and tell her how beautiful she is. Once you think she is comfortable, ask her for a kiss. Good luck.
i wouldn't know how to approach that either, considering that it wasn't a marriage of my choice. that's a tough one. hope it all works out!
Blow in her ear and kiss the back of her neck working your way down to her buttocks then kiss and lick them then work your way on down one 0LE at a time
Romance her, flowers, movies, meal out, a cuddle a touch, be caring
start by snuggling


get used to just holding eachother and not being too demanding



candles in the bedroom and take it slow