Monday, August 23, 2010

I need advice on a guy problem! GUY AND GIRL help?

So here is the thing! I really really like this guy in my class and we talk but not to much. What can i do to get his attention? Any flirting tips? Any suggestions on what t talk about





I really need you helpI need advice on a guy problem! GUY AND GIRL help?
try to engage conversation and NEVER talk about religon or politics when you first talkI need advice on a guy problem! GUY AND GIRL help?
ask him what does he do for a living





that can be a good conversation
well you could ask for his help in one of your classes like helping you with your homework, try to talk to him more . make up things like what did you do this week end and say things like aww really sounds like that was alotta fun.that is if he did anything. the key to it is to just talk talk talk more. just don't bore him out. BUT make yourself interesting to him as well. smile, be vibriant, be funny let him know you are a great girl he wouldn't wanna loose out on. just work him girl...
Strike up a conversation on politics and be as outgoing as possible. Or ask for his number.
the easiest thing to do is just ask if he'd like to hang out sometime, that's a foolproof way to find out if he's remotely interested


DO NOT GO TO THE MOVIES!!


you don't want it to seem like a date if he's not interested





BE YOURSELF, if you act like someone else then he will be expecting something else other than YOU
Well just make small talk. If your really that scared than ask him something about your classwork. If you need help than ask him, maybe he will offer to help you. Than you can actually talk to him.
The most important thing ever: Be yourself. Go up to him and say ';HI!'; Don't be all shy and self conscious. Be bubbly and friendly. And then get to know him before you try to love him. Become really good friends and then your relationship will just morph into something greater and better. If you try to just become his girlfriend without first being his friend to relationship will be shallow and short. Believe me I have done it more than once. :D
In order to flirt effectively you'll need to learn more about him. This can be done by just asking him or more covertly: Does he wear band t-shirts? Have you overheard him talking about sports teams or video games? The more you know about him the more you'll have to flirt with him about*.





This doesn't mean pretend to like those things. Admitting that you know NOTHING about something can just as easily be a tool for flirting. Let him tell you all about that sports team or that video game.
Look at what he's into and acquaint yourself with that stuff- If it's sports then look at the scores and watch a game and ask his opinion on that as he will be impressed that you even know about his interests which will naturally want him to talk to you -





As long as you are creative, even if he finds out that you made an effort for his sake, he will be flattered.





And as always remember: Sometimes complimenting people or being nice, just makes you feel good, so regardless of the outcome, know that you did your best to make someone feel special. In the end thats all that matters and you will be a lot more happy regardless of relationship status -






In order to get anyone interested in you, you have to show you're interested in them. Don't flirt too much, but show you're genuinely interested in THEM. Find the opportunity to ask them questions about things that they are interested in.
Try be around him more, like make friends with his friends and try get closer to him that way. Also maybe try sit closer to him in class and ask him for help even if you don't need it..act helpess
Wear lip plumping lip gloss, and smile at him. Guys love big lips! When you talk to him, just be yourself, don't try and pretend to be someone that you aren't. When you laugh with him, touch his arm/ make physical subtle contact. To start a conversation, say something like ';You okay?'; and when he replies say something else like ';I like your hair'; or something flattering. Don't digress from the main point of the conversation before you compliment him - it would be way to obvious that you fancy him. Good luck!

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