Go to a doctor to see if it's physical. If not it's probably only in your head (about 85% of erection difficulties are caused by anxiety.). Be more relaxed and stop worrying so much. Don't drive yourself crazy.Problem, advice please?
First. Take a big breath. Honey the bigger she gets the less she is going to wanna have sex anyway. It becomes tricky and uncomfortable. Trust me on this. I am the biggest take me now person but while preggers in the last stages it was more to make him happy than me. If she is complaining about this you can always use toys (be easy to start and work your way up make sure you do not hurt her) you can also do oral sex. My wonderful man uses every thing he can to make me happy. If I am outta service so to speak I do the same for him. Just relax have fun. Do every thing you can in every other way to show her you love her.
MAYBE ITS THE FACT THAT SHE IS 7 MONTHS PREGNANT.
MAYBE YOU DO GET REALLY AROUSED AND HOT FOR HER BUT WHEN IT COMES TO PENETRATION ALL YOU CAN THINK OF IS HURTING HER OR THE BABY,AND YOUR ERECTION GOES DOWN CAUSE YOUR THINKING THAT.
BUT IF THAT'S WHAT GOING ON, DON'T WORRY IT WONT HURT HER OR THE BABY.
AND IF I'M WRONG AND THAT'S IS NOT THE PROBLEM, THEN GO SEE A DR.
More often than not, problems like this are in your head.
Perhaps you worry too much about your ability to satisify her? If you have any anxiety about sex with her, it will effect your performance. The more open you are about your fears or concerns with her, the better off you will both be.
Talk about it with her and ask for her help and understanding and you will be off to a better sex life.
It could be physical or mental. You could go see a doctor. You may be thinking indirectly about hurting the baby somehow also.
Could be physical, could be psychological. Either way, I would start with your physician. Could even be stress related. Living with a woman who's 7-months pregnant can be stress-inducing.
besides maybe physical could be a mental thing she's pregnan t so you can get the job done and it's working fine you see the results maybe you feel akward because of the conditions shes in or maybe the baby inside
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maybe your afraid you are going to hurt the baby? if so.. you can't hurt the baby.. relax.
Could be physical-see a DR. If not, the DR will tell you what to do next.
I'm not a doctor, but ill give this my best shot. from what i understand a lot of sexual problems are more tied to mental than to physical ailments. Take a session with a good psychologyist and be open and honest. A professional should be able to understand and help to remedy the problem as well as keep things confidential. Good luck bro, hang in there
Check your family history for diabetes, have your blood pressure checked and last but most important to remember
you may subconciously feel ashamed thinking that somehow
you are harming your unborn child.
u shouldn't be having sex, before marrige.
u better see a doctor before its too late
has this problem just started in the last 7 months? Maybe subconsciouly you are afraid to hurt the baby. You may not realize it but the subconscious affects everything more than a lot of people realize
Just try to relax
and if you need to go to dr they have meds and stuff for that
common problem see a doc....millions of men have this.
viarga dude.
If she is 7 months pregnant, you could be suffering from a psychological disorder where you fear harming the baby by intercourse. You could also just have anxiety about becoming a father that is showing up in this way.
It is virtually impossible to harm the fetus in the uterus. The fluid it floats in, the membranes which contain it, the womb itself, the abdominal wall and the bony pelvis all serve to protect the fetus from injury.
If you feel that you aren't satisfying her during intercourse, direct stimulation with your hand or orally will do the trick. Relax, and don't stress out about it, as stress is one of the leading causes of erectile disfunction.
If you are really concerned about it, or it continues after the baby is born, then see your doctor about it. There are some health factors that can also cause it.
There's nothing exactly wrong. It does not appear to be a physical problem. The only way to solve it is to get to the root of the problem. Go for therapy and find out why this is happening. It can be many things, fear of something else that get transferred symbolically to the sexual intercourse. Therapy is the best solution. Besides, since you will need sometime to figure that out, talk to her and explain the situation. If she really loves you she will help you to get through it.
This isn't a problem to be answered on Yahoo Answers. You really do need to see a Dr. There are many reasons why something like this could be happening to you %26amp; I'm not going to list them here - it would only get you wondering %26amp; worrying even more. It's more than likely going to be something that is treatable, so put your mind at ease on that score. If you're feeling embarassed, remember that thousands upon thousands of men seek help for such problems, it's just that you never hear of it coz they're always too embarassed to tell people (and there's nothing wrong with being embarassed, believe me). Drs are professional people who will treat you with courtesy %26amp; respect. Do what you need to do - go see a Dr!
If it is nothing physical, it may be mental-because she is pregnant alot of men have trouble 'keeping it up' during their partners pregnancy in subconsciously thinking they would be hurting the baby--if your doctor can not help you physically try just talking to him/her for emotional support--talking with girlfriend about things like this will help to. She will understand. Just don't be embarrassed, it does happen to alot of men-even if they don't admit it!! Good Luck!!
sometimes extreme anxiety or fear may have this effect. perhaps your stress level is high, or maybe u r afraid u may hurt the baby? something u need to explore within u. do it without thinking she is pregnant and see if the results change.good luck
she is pregnant
she is tied
give the woman a break
Men and their sex
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There is most likely nothing wrong with you. Sex during pregnancy can be difficult and tricky at times. The sensations aren't like they are when the woman isn't pregnant and that could be making this difficult.
Some men also have trouble maintaining an erection during intercourse with a pregnant woman for psychological reasons. Mainly they are turned off by having intercourse while their child is inside of the woman.
But the more troubling aspect of your question is that you sound as though she is close to leaving you if your sexual performance falters. I would think, especially at 7 months, she would be more focused on the needs of the baby and not her sexual fullfillment.
This is just a stab in the dark, but I think that you both might benefit from some serious discussions about the strength of your relationship and then wait until after the baby is born to resume your sexual activities. I would bet you will be back to normal once that happens.
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