I have this problem advice please?

I feel that one of my ';close friends'; probably thinks im stuck up, attention needy, and egotistical. At times I might be, but i don't think im SO stuck up, attention needy, and egotistical that its crazy. Im still human. I feel she uses me as a scapegoat CONSTANTLY. For example, i was helping her and some of my friends do a project. and i was just talking and laughing while we were hanging out and she's all ';MAGGIE I DONT WANT U TO MESS UP OUR PROJECT!'; and she slaps me REALLY hard. and my best friend who was there stands up for me and says ';... she didnt even do anything'; and then by ACCIDENT i pour soda on my best friends head. and then she [not my best friend] comes up and starts pouring it all over me. and then at another party. i was just listening to my music and trying to join into the conversation while i was playing cards with one of my other friends. and shes all ';maggie. this isnt ur party.'; rele btch like. and then my other friends sez ';its not ur party either.';I have this problem advice please?
DARN HUHHHHHHHHHHHHH?I have this problem advice please?
did you know that when you ignore someone that someone feels horrible, thats the best thing, ignore her, why should you care about what others think about you, if you do care, you wont be happy at all cause there is someone that never is going to like you, so they have to accepp you with your flaws and everything, dont care, just dont listen at her when she says that, that the best you can do with everyone that bother, when you show no interest they end up getting bored about you and they start bothering someone else good luck and tell me how it ends
I think she's the one with the problem. She's doesn't sound like a real friend. I know it's probably hard, but if I were you, I would just ignore her. It's the best way to handle drama queens like her. If you try to say anything to her, it sounds like she would turn it around on you, and make it sound like you have the problem that she obviously has.
..u know what she's been through..


maybe shes just taking out her anger on u?


and i think the soda thing was just a joke..she prolli thought wen u poured soda on ur best friends head was on purpose and was a joke or something.


bleh idk =D
Welcome to the real world. Be friends with those who will not back stab you and ignore the rest.





Life lessons.
Hi,





Just consider me your well wisher and read this and then decide yourself.





The one ';bitchy'; person you are referring to is definitely not your good friend. She is ';jealous';, bent on ';subbing you'; or bent on ';putting you down';. She is not your well wisher. She is trying her best to put you down or to demoralize you.





The second thing is that you do feel for her.


Control your emotions for such a person who is not worthy of receiving them.





Just avoid her. Be assertive the next time she tries to blame you or to put you down. Do not bicker with her a lot for that is another way she gets her ego satisfied. Simply avoid her and start reducing relationships / talks / communications with her.





She is not as good as you. In fact she is so bad that people like you should not even bother to keep friendships with such a lowly,


egomonger peson.
Confront her. It sounds like she is jealous of you having other friends. You may need to tell her you are not her exclusive friend to dump on-literally.
she doesnt sound very nice to me........tell me this......WHY is she ';one of your close friends';?
If you don't want to confront her (which I think you should) the only way is to just stop hanging out with her. Clearly she doesn't give a **** about your friendship, so why should you give a **** about her?
Sounds like both of you need to grow up. Stop seeing her or talking with her!
well i think if you need to ask the question, you already know that she isnt your friend
I have the same problem but with most of the people at my school they think ima prep and im rich which i am neither, but on the inside on your situation this girl is jealous of you, she see's that you have friends that stick up for you and she see that you are happy and basically she wants to take that away from you, but you have your good friends so if I were you i wouldn't worry about her and i would just ditch her cause she don't seem like a tru homie, she is one of dem playa haters who wants to bring you down, its good that you saw that and asked this question or you would hae been stuck with that trick for a while, so if I were you i would go to her and put her in here place and then just ditch her cause in the end you will know who your real friends are and right now you know she is not! and always remember to not let people treat you like that and that you should demand respect from everyone even your friends!
sorry to break it to you, but she obviously isn't that good of a friend if she treats you so terribly. especially since she says you're the one with all the issues. unless you confront her about how her treatment of you makes you feel, she'll just keep it up. if i were you i would really consider talking to her about it. if she doesn't want to listen or change, maybe she isn't real friend material.
it sounds to me like shes the egotistical, attention starved, brat who needs a lesson in manners and respect!!! Dont put up with that crap. you can be the bigger person and try telling her that her actions are not acceptable and if she lays a hand on you again well, I know what i'd do! but you know the best thing you can do is just laugh(not when she puts a hand on you) but for instance the soda thing what an imature ***! Just laugh right at her then she will get ALL the attention she seems to need.......; everyone laughing her right out da' room!! Then she might think before she tries to play BIG TIME shot caller. Besides, laughter is the best medicine and contageous!!!!!! OR flat out tell her she'd look pretty funny eatin' corn on the cob with no f---en teeth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!It sounds like she has contol or anger problems to me that she might need to address.
Leave her alone. If anyone asks you what's up tell them you don't deal with people who treat you like sh** and are psychic vampires that like to drag you down and wear you out. You don't have to explain yourself to anyone.





This chick is just looking for ways to ridicule you and it will only get severely worse. Don't put up with it until its too late.
She doesn't sound like a close friend to me. Maybe she doesnt like you having other friends. Some people are like that you know.
The first situation is probably just an eye for an eye kind of thing. The second is i think your best friend thinks your a threat. Try apoligising or doing something nice for her and she may have a change of hart
I think anyone who would od this should not be considered a friend.She is the one that is in constant need of attention,it's obvious from the way she gets mad when you get even the slightest amont of attention.She has these spontaneous outbursts brought on by jealousy...this isn't something you should say to her,rather,you should stay clear of her altogether since you both enjoy getting attention.Try asking her if something is wrong if you're unable to get away,perhaps together you will come to the resolution that you guys are not meant to be friends at all...