Sexual Problem advice???

Why would I want to be sexual toward other guys and not my bf of 3 years????? I love him!





Has the fire died or something?


We started out very sexual... he still is... but it seems my desire has died!!! I dont know what to do and im very confused!! I want to be very happy in every way with him!Sexual Problem advice???
Begin by communicating with him. Together you should examine all the aspects of your relationship. It's ok to admit these types of things to him. It's better than having the relationship fail, because you were afraid to talk to him.





You said you want to be, but you did not say you actually had been sexual with other guys. Many people desire others, and never act on it. The entire nature of the porn industry is based on that. I don't recommend that you ever act on those urges, but fantasy can be healthy.





I can't stress enough the importance of communication both in a relationship, and sex.





People have asked how to be a better lover or restore the spark in a love life, the answer is always communication. Communicate before hand to decide what each others fantasies are, communicate during to tell your parter how you want it, when you want it and how fast or slow you want it. Finally, communicate afterwards to discuss what you really enjoyed and what you'd like to change. It's ok to admit you don't like something. You can't fix it, if you never admit it.





Some women may be afraid they'll be seen as being too bossy if they constantly say what they like and don't like during sex. If you've been with a guy for 3 years, then you should have built up a comfort level with him. He just wants to please you. He wants to know what's real and what's not. He wants love making to get better every time, so he shouldn't have a problem taking a few suggestions.





Only do what you are comfortable with. With an open mind, you can try almost anything, legal that is, lol. :-) Don't try anything you aren't both comfortable with though. The sky is the limit when it comes to trying new things.





If you are sexually attracted to these other guys, ask yourself why. What about them turns you on? Can you replicate some of that with your boyfriend? Some couples even enjoy role-play. If he's comfortable with this, it may be a good outlet for your fantasies. Just be creative and communicate.





Best of luck. :-)Sexual Problem advice???
Why don't you try some different things with ur boyfriend make it wild and sexy. Different places different ways role play be creative whatever turns u on. Talk to him as well and see what he desires. Yes that is normal it tends to die down but there are ways of getting it back
you need to do new things... buy a sex book or maybe some porn... anything to spice it up
your bored with him and want something new. you dont want routine sex. spice it up.
you just got a lil bored of doing probably the same things all the time talk to him about it well.. don't tell him you don't want him just tell him you guys need
try new things,spice it up, do stuff special for one another maybe you are just curious as to what else is out there?
you are just tired of the same old thing you want something new something you've never done before so my advice is to try to spice things up in the bedroom try different things to bring that spark back. Try something kinky like handcuffs of blindfolding thats always fun.
blah blah blah get a vibrator
I have the same problem as you girl.. it feels like u cant wait for it to be over but you just do it anyway and it doesn't even feel good anymore... :'(