I need boy problem advice?

ok so im having boy problems... i have two guys that im talking to and one is outgoing and i can see myself having a lot of fun with him but he's kind of a player and i cant tell if he wants a relationship or just to hook up





the other guy is really shy so its hard to break him out of his shell but im attracted to him and i think he'd make a better long term boyfriend.. i need helpI need boy problem advice?
The player will always try to get with you as long as you don't put out. If you put out, he'll eventually stack to his confidence and move on, however make the shy guy spill some guts. Tell him you have nothing to do, have him pick you up, and mention your hungry, eat something, and talk to him about how the other guy is trying to get with you. Make him break a sweat and tell you he likes you. Never look desperate, it takes a lot of patience to make something work out. Wish the bestI need boy problem advice?
this is a no brainer, I will definitively advice to go out with someone you know you can have a future with! Altho keep this in mind, girls tend to feel attracted to the ';bad boys'; they are charming, seductive and their sense of living a dangerous life excite you! so make sure you don't end up getting hurt or hurting others by making the ';smart'; decision but secretly wondering about the other. So I will suggest to not only take the smart decision avoid a lot of headaches and date the shy kid but also to be ready for what's coming ahead and that will be the mind-games that your own head is gonna play on you. whatever your decision be firm on it!
Well it is really your choose. I think you should go with the guy who is there for you, treats you good,and makes you feel great.Now if the guy that is a player if he is hitting on other girls with you around you shouldn't be with him.Now the guy that is shy.Once you guys get closer in your relationship he will start to warm up to you and he will not be as shy.But it is your choose and if you like the player more go for it.But if you like the shy guy better you do your thing.
hey,


Its completely understandable for you to be confused about two guys at once. But what you really need to be doing is ask yourself what you really want out of the relationship. Do you want to have a guy you can just mess around and have a good time with, yet there be no real commitment? Or are you looking for someone you can really get close to and share lots of memories with? I was in the same situation and what i did was get a pen and paper and write down the pros and cons about each guy. The things i liked and the things i didn't. Once it was all down on paper i had a better look at how my relationship was going to be and it was way easier to figure out which way i wanted to go. Just do what you think is best, following your gut usually helps in many of these types of situations. Hope that helps!:)
Date the shy guy.


Trust me I'm 30 years old and I've dated TONS of guys. Date the shy one. The player guy might have more immediate sex appeal but the shy guy will treat you better.





Hopefully.


Thing is with guys is that YOU NEVER KNOW. So be careful before you go sleeping with any guy. Whether you choose the player or the shy guy make him show effort for your affections. Perhaps give them both a chance, and pick the one that treats you best. I think the shy guy is going to win.
ok, you are the only 1 who can make the right desision, but heres what i think...


you obviously want a long-term relationship, right??? well, the player is NOT going to do, so dont let hm take advantage of you. you are your own person and need to be respected, which is something the player wont do.


on the other hand, the shy guy will love you and respect you, and is probably the better guy. and when he opens up to you it will make you feel more accoplished then the other guy opening up to you.


well thats what i think, good luck!!


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oh my dang,,, same exact thing happened to me,,, i picked the long term relationship one,, bad decision,, for me, he is like way to shy, so honestly i would pick the first one ,,,, unless u want a long term relationship (i do but this boy of mine is talkin like forever-its like ahhh[haha]) i mean if he just wants to be like a one night stand i wouldnt but the first one seems better if u can be more urself around him,
Well do they both like you and have admitted that to you?


I would maybe go out with the first guy (maybe don't kiss him the first times) but see if that's all he wants or something. If that doesn't work out than get with the second guy and break him out of his shell somehow.


Good luck:)
well let me tell you a little bit about me.. i was guy #2 i WAS hella shy i couldnt talk to anyone at all seriously i stayed with the same friends over and over again. school got so boring until i graduated. now im the funny guy and im so outgoing now. i have no idea why i changed but i changed and you dont know #2 could be your #1. :)
Go for the shy one. I was in the exact same position, and the outgoing one ended being a jerk, no good boyfriend. The shy ones are always better:) That way you won't have a problem with doing something you don't want to. lol good luck and answer mine please? :)


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well if your under 21 you probably shouldnt be thinking about a long term boyfriend just yet and more focused on education but if you are older than definitely the second one there is nothing worse than going through a relationship and feeling like you wasted 2 years of your life when its over
I think you need to determine what you want? It seems clear that boy #1 will be short term, and boy #2 will be long term. Do you want a long term boy friend, or an end of summer fling?
long term boyfriend, comit yourself to it :)
guys that you call ';players'; are people who turn out in unhealthy relationships... give the shy one a chance. Let him know that your there for him and wont make things awkward for him...
I'd go with the first one just becuz shy guys dont do anything for me and theyre boring so yea..
Go for the shy one- more often than not ,HE is the keeper!
id go with the first one!!!!
never go for the second one