Problem, advice please?

alrite. my friend now obviously likes my ex. we've sorta talked about it, i sorta tried to convince her that she'd be wasting her time. and u no the ';unwritten rule'; ... yea. i mean, if she does go out with him. shouldnt it be on her conscience? she sez her intentions are to help him get over me, and that she likes him also. but we all no that ppl have different intentions.. and i dont want to stop her, i want her to stop herself. b/c i think who am i to tell her who she can go out with and who she can't? its only been about a month since the break up.. so isnt that a little rushed. and.. she told one of my best friends that she acknowledges that it makes me uncomfortable. so why did she hintingly ask him out 2 times behind my back?Problem, advice please?
baby girl, let her do what she wants. you did what she could to warn her. but like you said, you can't control someone else's action. if it works out between them then be happy for them. if it didn't just have a stupid grin (i told you so grin)Problem, advice please?
A friend who cares about you would not intentionally cause you harm.
You need to try to move on and let it go. Let it be her decision and her problem. This is where you find out who your true friends are. If she knows it's hurting you and goes for it anyways then she must not care about you as much as you think.
Well you're right, you have no right to stop her from going out with anybody. Try to put yourself in her shoes... if she really likes him, maybe she sees it as a chance to be with him. Maybe she hintingly asked him out 2 times behind your back, because she don't want you to feel bad. If they really get together in the future, be happy for them although it might be a bit awkward.
While you two where dating she probally was crazy about him and couldn't wait for you two to breack up. Now that you two are no longer together she feels that she can go for him but it could possibly ruin your friendship. So what i would do is confrunt her and tell her that you dont think that they should go out and why(or for whateva reason you have). If she can't understand why then she does still go out with him then maybe she isn't a very good friend.
Let her have him, as he must not be ';all that';!!!
ok everyone here is saying to make her abide by the ';unwritten rule';. you DONT have the authority to make her not date him. she is her own person and can date whom ever she pleases. in your whole question, you say that she is betraying you for even thinking about dating him. but you havent made mention if your ex likes her back. do you know that he does infact feel the same way? if not then you have nothing to worry about. i say, if they want to date then let them. there are no bonds that bind you and him together anymore. move on with your life already. let her have your sloppy seconds.
Probably because she has liked him for a while and was probably waiting for this opportunity or actually caused the break up. Let he sleep in her bed that she is making and let it be her problem.
hey i know theres a rule on friendship never date a friends ex boyfriend but you know you did everything you could do to warn her and she didnt listen so let her do what she wants to do and if you dont want to be her friend anymore then we will understand because she did break the friendship rule but let her go out with him and if yall decide to still be friends then be happy for her but if it dosnt work out between them then rub it in her face that you told her it was a waste of her time but you cant decide stuff for other people you got to let them make there own decisions