Complicated problem, advice needed please!!?

A girl announced she was pregnant 2 days ago from a friend of mine,After checking with a doctor,we knew she is pregnant for 5months.She claims that she didn't know she was pregnant until yesterday.The Guy says it wasn't him, he said he only had anal sex with her.She also confirmed this fact. But under pressure the girl says they did it from the front once.But the guy denies this fact.The girl says she doesn't have any other partners.All the fingers are pointing to my friend since he was the one with her lately. Now the guy insists on letting the girl abort.The doctor told us on this stage its quite impossible without a surgery.So my questions are:


1-Can a girl NOT know that she is pregnant during this5 months?


2-If the guys story is true,can a girl get pregnant from Anal?(maybe something wuld spill here or there)


3-If a surgery is done to the girl,is it risky to a level of loosing life? (The girl is quite small in size)(she is not really healthy)4-Could she lie about other partners?Complicated problem, advice needed please!!?
1- Yes, you can still have your period even if your pregnant so its possible she didnt know.


2- It is definately possible to get pregnant even from anal, the sperm could have got close to her vagina and swam.


3- I don't think that an abortion would be life threatening, but you never know what could go wrong.


4- She could be lying about other partners. I would stop and think if I had seen her with a bunch of different guys, or if she truely is a faithful person.Complicated problem, advice needed please!!?
I would say


1: Yes it's possible not to know about pregnancy.


2: I doubt you can get pregnant using the ';back door';.


3: It's not his choice to abort at this point.


4: She needs to go on Maury Povich, take a blood test, and bring all her possible ';partners';.
Consider the girl you know lucky to find out she was pregnant at 5 months. There was just a report on the local news about a girl from montesano that didn't know she was pregnant at all. She went to the hospital because she was having severe stomach cramping and came out with a baby!





1. Yes a girl can not know she's pregnant at all.


2. Yes a girl can get pregnant from anal if some of the semen drips down on to her vagina, which it usually does when your doing it doggie style, which is the usual way to have anal sex.


3. Abortion is always a risk to the mothers life, and her future fertility. She'd have to check to be sure, but I'm almost positive that 5 months is too late to have an abortion anyways.


4. Of course she could lie about other partners, she's a human that can talk, right? The only way to tell if that baby is your friends is to have a blood test done after the child is born. Science might have a way to check before but I'm not aware of a way.
1) Sometimes, yes - a girl cannot tell she is pregnant for 5 months. Odd, but it is possible.





2) No, a girl cannot get pregnant from anal, unless the sperm leaks out of the anus and goes from there to the vaginal area, but that is a slim chance.





3) I am not sure about that question as I do not believe in abortion. Sorry.





4) She could be lying about partners.
yes she could have not known, tell her to look at the websites I sent you earlier before deciding on abortion. and no you cant get pregnant from anal.
1. Yes it's possible, but if she is thin thats not possible. if she is heavy then yes its possible that she would not know. I've seen true stories.


2. A girl can't get pregnant from anal sex, but if he some of the sperm touched her vagina, it is possible that she coulds get pregnant like that. sperm can stay alive for 72 hours or more.


3. If an abortion is done, it would be costly especially at 5 months. some places won't even do an abortion anymore if u are that far along. Yes there is always a risk of loosing your life as with all surgeries. and yes anyone can lie about having other partners
yes they can not know domt think that could happen i wouldnt do the surgery just let her have the baby and do the dna test
It is possible for her not to know for five months. I don't know about the whole anal thing. And I don't think you can get an abortion that late in a pregnancy. If you can, I have no knowledge about it. Oh, and it is totally possible that she is lying about other partners. If she is planning to abort the baby what does it matter who the father is.
If you're not the ';girl'; in question, why is any of this your business?
1. no, you cannot get pregnant from anal sex, there is no way.


2. She would really have to be ridiculous to say she didnt know for 5 months she wasnt pregnant, because after the first missed period she should have had a clue.


3. Technology has gone far and it would probably be a routine procedure.


4. yes she very well can lie about other partners. She probably doesnt want to come off as loose.
Ok yes she very well could lie about her partners and if she does not want to be blamed for something that is wrongful than she would be un truthful. Having an abortion is not the way to go, at 5 months that baby is a living human, heartbeat and all. My sister works in an anti abortion clinic and there are chicks that come in all the time who are 4 5 6 months prego and have no idea until she tells them. Have your friend contact her local anti abortion clinic. Most of the time they will give her a free sono so that she can see the baby. Tell her that she has choices.
Well my exes sister who 23 at the time didnt know she was pregnant until 5 months either...weird I guess, but she didnt kill the child either, you need to stop this girl from having an abortion this late...that is indeed baby murder, that baby is as alive as you and me and will indeed feel unbearable pain at this age...go to the site ABORT73.COM and you will understand what I am saying, plus you will be able to a picture of a 5 month old unborn baby...YOU tell me its not a human!
Ok. One thing at a time.


Yes, it's very possible for a woman not to know she's pregnant,


for several months.





Yes. A woman can get pregnant from anal if the man's precum(which can contain spem) ended up on the outside of her vagina


or if any semen did (sperm swim). Also sometimes women can


have a fistula develop between their rectum and their vagina.


A fistula is kind of like a tiny tunnel between the two places,


Sometimes its caused from an anal fissure getting infected.


Anal sex can cause anal fissures. An anal fissure is a small


tear in the rectal tissue. A woman who has had anal sex


probably wouldn't notce she had one, because she'd be sort of used to discomfort in that area.


3. In the United States, terminating the pregnancy now, would be


ILLEGAL. Both the doctor that did it and the girl could go to jail.


If you are in a country that still allows partial birth abortion


(which is the procedure you are talking about) here's what would


likely happen.


The girl would be given an IV of pitocin. Pitocin is a drug that causes uterine contractions. Then she would be given a mild sedative and put in stirrups. A gel containing more med to soften and ripen her cervix would be inserted into her vagina. After awhile, her cervix would dialate enough to allow the doctor to rupture the bag of amniotic fluid. Labor would be thus induced.


When the baby is still about haalfway inside it's mother (and still alive ) the doctors would shove some scissors into the base of its skull and move them around. Killing the child. The baby would then be removed from it's mother.


A child that has developed for that long inside a mother can


hear, move around, suck its thumb, and feel. It's tiny heart beats


and it can think. Thats why that procedure is illegal in the


United States. It's murder.


If she doesn't want the child, adoption is a better choice.


Yes, it's possible she could have lied about other partners.


A DNA test can easily determine if your friend is the father of the baby.
first of all she could have lied...she could have spilled *** from there to the front...and a third trimester pg is legal in wichita ks...what they do is dialate her then punture the skull and suck out the brain...therefore the baby is born dead...but if she is this far along why dont u suggest adoption...yeah she may have had period up till now therefore not knowing she was pg....doutful but possible...the baby can start moving at twelve weeks and her feel it
1. yes it is possible to not know your pregnant


2. no you can not get pregnant from anal sex and you should know that


3.yes surgery is dangerous and shouldnt be done she is past the point of abortion


4.she could lie but how is any of this your business?
after 5 months, you cant abort, but she can adopt it out... 2 if the dude says it aint him, DNA will say for sure..and 3, if you dont have your period 5 times in a row, you gotta know somethings up... sounds to me she was avoiding beliving the truth....
Yes a girl can be unaware of a pregnancy for that long. Not ALL women skip or have lighter periods early in pregnancy. I had normal periods through the fourth month and my cousin was 6 months pregnant before she found out she was pregnant, her periods were normal. She THOUGHT she had a bad stomach virus and went to the doctor. The only way a girl could get pregnant from anal sex would be if her uterus was in her bowels. In the States (which is where I am) a pregnancy can NOT be terminated after the 22nd week period. NO doctor will do it. The only way to find out for sure if your friend IS the father at this point would be a DNA test, and if it came up positive for him being the father then he lied about only having anal sex.
I think it would be pretty hard to not know for 5 months,I know of a few women who continued to have their periods throughout their pregnancy,until more of the middle then their periods stopped,then theres morning sickness,but not every woman has that either,I only had it 3 times in my 9 mos,but has she gotten bigger,has she been wearing baggier clothes? That would be a bit of a give away. Im pretty sure that getting pregnant would be impossible if they were only having anal sex. I dont know of the dangers with surgery. I do know that girls lie though,just watch Maury,';Paternity testing/I gotta find my baby's daddy';


He needs to get a paternity test,he doesnt want to father and support a child thats not his,no matter how mad the girl gets.
1. Yes


2. Yes


3. Yes


4. Yes