so let's say there's this guy Eric. and he is in one of my classes. now i'm really nice to everyone, so i tried being friends with eric this year. and all of a sudden he's helping me with homework, staying after school with me, and he even gave me his phone number and said i should call him if i need more homework help. i doubt he wants anything, cuz he's always staring at me in class too, but i mean.. what does he want?? iss he judging me by my looks? he can't like me.. we're not even friends...WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM? advice!!?
I think he doesn't have a problem, I think he just likes you. You sound like a friendly, nice kind of person and maybe he likes that part of you. He's trying to get to know you better and could possibly, might have a crush on you. I guess you should just wait and see what happens but once you feel he's dropping too many ';I-wanna-go-out-lets-date'; hints and you dont like him back, its best to cut it short and not lead him on.WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM? advice!!?
I'm sure he likes u and not judging u. He's lookin 4 a way 2 get closer 2 u.
Don't be so naive what do you think he wants? he want DA bootay
Hi there.
if it's real love, the person shows respect most of all. They are also willing to go out of their way for you, not just once, but whenever it's needed. Since everyone is different, I would have to say that knowing true love comes from sensing it. You feel in in your heart.
Good luck
what do you mean you doubt he wants anything because he always looks at you in class??? how do you know he cant like you. are you 9yr old or something cause you dont know anything about a crush.
if ur still in school u should not be studying boys, trying focusing on ur school work.
You said you have been trying to be friends with him this year, so maybe he is starting to get the hint. Maybe he does like you and is trying to get to know you better. The only way you are going to find out is to give him a chance. He may just like you for you.
He looks at you? Ok do a test wear a watch, when he is looking at you look at the watch as if you were checking for the time. If he looks at his watch or looks around for one that means he was checking you out and was interested in what you were waiting for.
I'd say he finds you attractive and is interested in knowing you better, maybe just as a friend but maybe not.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Could you give me advice about a problem sending pics via e-mail...?
Whenever people send me photographs via e-mail, either as attachments or pasted in the e-mail, I can view them with no problem. However, when I ';forward'; them to anyone they always reply that they can't view them...they only receive grey, empty boxes. Can someone give me advice on what I'm doing wrong, and how to forward pics so that the receiving party can actually view something? Thank you for your help!Could you give me advice about a problem sending pics via e-mail...?
You might try saving the picture as a jpeg or gif format and then try sending it as an attachment in a fresh email to the one you want to get it rather than forwarding the mail. Some spam filters and junk mail filters may see the forwarded email with a large file attachment (pictures are large file size) as spam or maybe block the image.
Other problems are some email accounts which are free but don't allow attachments - consider if you have ever successfully sent an email with a pic successfully from your current computer and ISP.
Good luck - And the person before me is right about that tooCould you give me advice about a problem sending pics via e-mail...?
It could be their email system, or it could be an internal error in the mail server, interpretting the image in an incorrect format. You can try uploading the image to www.uppit.com, www.mediafire.com then paste the link in the email message.
You might try saving the picture as a jpeg or gif format and then try sending it as an attachment in a fresh email to the one you want to get it rather than forwarding the mail. Some spam filters and junk mail filters may see the forwarded email with a large file attachment (pictures are large file size) as spam or maybe block the image.
Other problems are some email accounts which are free but don't allow attachments - consider if you have ever successfully sent an email with a pic successfully from your current computer and ISP.
Good luck - And the person before me is right about that tooCould you give me advice about a problem sending pics via e-mail...?
It could be their email system, or it could be an internal error in the mail server, interpretting the image in an incorrect format. You can try uploading the image to www.uppit.com, www.mediafire.com then paste the link in the email message.
I need advice in connection with a council housing problem my mum as is there a solicitor on line i can speak?
You can contact the CAB who can provide free legal advice.
Otherwise, the Housing Corporation are the body that oversee all social landlords, so it sounds like they could be appropriate depending on what the problem is.I need advice in connection with a council housing problem my mum as is there a solicitor on line i can speak?
Solicitors do not work for free. Even if you don't personally pay, legal aid does. What is the problem. Bear in mind EVERYONE thinks their own needs are more important than everyone else's.I need advice in connection with a council housing problem my mum as is there a solicitor on line i can speak?
You should go to your local law centre, who are more knowledgeable about housing problems, than a private practise ,and their services is free!
Otherwise, the Housing Corporation are the body that oversee all social landlords, so it sounds like they could be appropriate depending on what the problem is.I need advice in connection with a council housing problem my mum as is there a solicitor on line i can speak?
Solicitors do not work for free. Even if you don't personally pay, legal aid does. What is the problem. Bear in mind EVERYONE thinks their own needs are more important than everyone else's.I need advice in connection with a council housing problem my mum as is there a solicitor on line i can speak?
You should go to your local law centre, who are more knowledgeable about housing problems, than a private practise ,and their services is free!
Problem, advice please?
alrite. my friend now obviously likes my ex. we've sorta talked about it, i sorta tried to convince her that she'd be wasting her time. and u no the ';unwritten rule'; ... yea. i mean, if she does go out with him. shouldnt it be on her conscience? she sez her intentions are to help him get over me, and that she likes him also. but we all no that ppl have different intentions.. and i dont want to stop her, i want her to stop herself. b/c i think who am i to tell her who she can go out with and who she can't? its only been about a month since the break up.. so isnt that a little rushed. and.. she told one of my best friends that she acknowledges that it makes me uncomfortable. so why did she hintingly ask him out 2 times behind my back?Problem, advice please?
baby girl, let her do what she wants. you did what she could to warn her. but like you said, you can't control someone else's action. if it works out between them then be happy for them. if it didn't just have a stupid grin (i told you so grin)Problem, advice please?
A friend who cares about you would not intentionally cause you harm.
You need to try to move on and let it go. Let it be her decision and her problem. This is where you find out who your true friends are. If she knows it's hurting you and goes for it anyways then she must not care about you as much as you think.
Well you're right, you have no right to stop her from going out with anybody. Try to put yourself in her shoes... if she really likes him, maybe she sees it as a chance to be with him. Maybe she hintingly asked him out 2 times behind your back, because she don't want you to feel bad. If they really get together in the future, be happy for them although it might be a bit awkward.
While you two where dating she probally was crazy about him and couldn't wait for you two to breack up. Now that you two are no longer together she feels that she can go for him but it could possibly ruin your friendship. So what i would do is confrunt her and tell her that you dont think that they should go out and why(or for whateva reason you have). If she can't understand why then she does still go out with him then maybe she isn't a very good friend.
Let her have him, as he must not be ';all that';!!!
ok everyone here is saying to make her abide by the ';unwritten rule';. you DONT have the authority to make her not date him. she is her own person and can date whom ever she pleases. in your whole question, you say that she is betraying you for even thinking about dating him. but you havent made mention if your ex likes her back. do you know that he does infact feel the same way? if not then you have nothing to worry about. i say, if they want to date then let them. there are no bonds that bind you and him together anymore. move on with your life already. let her have your sloppy seconds.
Probably because she has liked him for a while and was probably waiting for this opportunity or actually caused the break up. Let he sleep in her bed that she is making and let it be her problem.
hey i know theres a rule on friendship never date a friends ex boyfriend but you know you did everything you could do to warn her and she didnt listen so let her do what she wants to do and if you dont want to be her friend anymore then we will understand because she did break the friendship rule but let her go out with him and if yall decide to still be friends then be happy for her but if it dosnt work out between them then rub it in her face that you told her it was a waste of her time but you cant decide stuff for other people you got to let them make there own decisions
baby girl, let her do what she wants. you did what she could to warn her. but like you said, you can't control someone else's action. if it works out between them then be happy for them. if it didn't just have a stupid grin (i told you so grin)Problem, advice please?
A friend who cares about you would not intentionally cause you harm.
You need to try to move on and let it go. Let it be her decision and her problem. This is where you find out who your true friends are. If she knows it's hurting you and goes for it anyways then she must not care about you as much as you think.
Well you're right, you have no right to stop her from going out with anybody. Try to put yourself in her shoes... if she really likes him, maybe she sees it as a chance to be with him. Maybe she hintingly asked him out 2 times behind your back, because she don't want you to feel bad. If they really get together in the future, be happy for them although it might be a bit awkward.
While you two where dating she probally was crazy about him and couldn't wait for you two to breack up. Now that you two are no longer together she feels that she can go for him but it could possibly ruin your friendship. So what i would do is confrunt her and tell her that you dont think that they should go out and why(or for whateva reason you have). If she can't understand why then she does still go out with him then maybe she isn't a very good friend.
Let her have him, as he must not be ';all that';!!!
ok everyone here is saying to make her abide by the ';unwritten rule';. you DONT have the authority to make her not date him. she is her own person and can date whom ever she pleases. in your whole question, you say that she is betraying you for even thinking about dating him. but you havent made mention if your ex likes her back. do you know that he does infact feel the same way? if not then you have nothing to worry about. i say, if they want to date then let them. there are no bonds that bind you and him together anymore. move on with your life already. let her have your sloppy seconds.
Probably because she has liked him for a while and was probably waiting for this opportunity or actually caused the break up. Let he sleep in her bed that she is making and let it be her problem.
hey i know theres a rule on friendship never date a friends ex boyfriend but you know you did everything you could do to warn her and she didnt listen so let her do what she wants to do and if you dont want to be her friend anymore then we will understand because she did break the friendship rule but let her go out with him and if yall decide to still be friends then be happy for her but if it dosnt work out between them then rub it in her face that you told her it was a waste of her time but you cant decide stuff for other people you got to let them make there own decisions
Jacket dye problem - any advice please?
I dyed my light blue denim 100% cotton jacket in black dye by Dylon, and followed the instructions, used the salt, but it has turned out navy blue and not black. What can I do?Jacket dye problem - any advice please?
You need to do it again as the dye in the first place wasnt strong enough....now you have the blue colour it will go black on the next try.
Good luck :o)Jacket dye problem - any advice please?
Repeat the dyeing.
I dont know, but once you do know, let me know, thanks
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You need to do it again as the dye in the first place wasnt strong enough....now you have the blue colour it will go black on the next try.
Good luck :o)Jacket dye problem - any advice please?
Repeat the dyeing.
I dont know, but once you do know, let me know, thanks
www.simplytopuk.com
Problem, advice?
alrite. my friend now obviously likes my ex. we've sorta talked about it, i sorta tried to convince her that she'd be wasting her time. and u no the ';unwritten rule'; ... yea. i mean, if she does go out with him. shouldnt it be on her conscience? she sez her intentions are to help him get over me, and that she likes him also. but we all no that ppl have different intentions.. and i dont want to stop her, i want her to stop herself. b/c i think who am i to tell her who she can go out with and who she can't? its only been about a month since the break up.. so isnt that a little rushed. and.. she told one of my best friends that she acknowledges that it makes me uncomfortable. so why did she hintingly ask him out 2 times behind my back?
[i no i asked this question already. i just... need a lot of opinions]Problem, advice?
If you've already asked this question - and have gotten lots of answers - and you truly only need 'lots' more opinions - then, here's one (mine) to add to your growing stack of others' input---
You know already what the GOOD and BAD answers are,
FOR yourself - WITHIN yourself. . .
reading more of what OTHER people think and feel about YOUR situation, only keeps this difficult and hurtful issue alive in your heart and soul - - -
because, for some yet undefined reason (only you can know), you NEED to keep this hurtful, confusing thing happening in your daily energy field, so - asking strangers (at Yahoo) is your way of doing this. . .
You shall figure this all out, and life will go on, as the sun comes up and goes down, each day, for all of us -
Life is for learning - and we learn best when things challenge our emotions ---
for you, just now, this is a lesson in choosing or rejecting friends, and then moving on to something different.
I wish you a speedy recovery from your 'loss', and an easier time of making choices that serve you well - now and in the future. . .Problem, advice?
cuz she dont care about your feelings even though you pretended not to really care about her askin him out but that was your man so she shouldnt have been trying to get with him it aint right so cut her loose cuz i can see this kind of thing happenin all the time
looking for the answer that you want. you have asked and answers are given. Go with the logical thing to do... if something told you the anwswer and you know its right just go for it.
I don't think her intenion is ';oh I am just trying to get him over you. So I'll go out with him.'; I don't thimk that's a good friend but no you can't stop her from asking him out but you can talk to her about it
if she goes out with your ex for the wrong intentions and that she doesn't see that it's bothering you, then obviously she's not a friend. a friend wouldn't stab another friend in the back. you should leave her be and find another friend. I'm sure till she breaks up with him she'll come crowling back and beg you to forgive her.
Aww thats a bummer, If she is really your friend she wouldnt be going behind your back and doing stuff. That seems so shady. I say confront her and tell her that it bothers you %26amp; that she is making a mistake. But yeah, that has to suck. I cant believe your friend would do that!
i just wonder a few things .like how long wereyou guys together for if it was really serious..or not...if it was casual not really super special relationship..or not?or was she the reason that you and your ex .broke up....maybe she scammed you...ever thought of that?no one really asks a ex to go out with them to help the third party get over that person....not without a agender of there own
I think your friend has liked him for a while and just wants to be with him not to help him get over you. Shes lieing to you. I've been through the same thing. the friend who did that to me......Lets just say we were best friends and we havn't talked in over 4 years because of what she did.
I think your friend is not really a friend. I see this type of stuff, and it sort of makes me ill. She obviously thinks of herself more than her friends... so she's not really a friend. Go find other REAL friends. You don't need self-centered b***hes like her in your life. She doesn't treasure your friendship enough to be more disciplined... instead, making up crap excuses to do what she does so she can get what SHE wants... irregardless of how it affects her ';friends';. Dump the friend.
Only a month? Some friend. Tell her to do whatever she wants... and when she goes out with him, tell her ';BYE!';
i dont no who i like best thats the problem
well to me shes not ur friend.one a friend wouldnt do that to u and get with an ex.now if u did break up and had feelings before u guys got together then she should come to u and tell u that.still she didnt that asked him out 2 times and its just been a month.so she not ur friend girl thats just wrong.u need to listen to me if she goes along with this u need to say goodby to hear. i mean that may sound messed but hello she got with ur ex.she the one that made that choice.u dont need a wannabe friend u need true friends.she asked him out that right there is grounds for no more friendship.so yeah she dumb and going to lose a friend in process so hope hes worth it.so call her tell her ur not my friend do whatever u want.then when it goes all sour she will try to come back and u say no ok.she needs to learn that choices she make will affect her life.so who are u to tell her she cant.ur the ex and u have that right but let her go and do whatever cuz u know a friend would not do that 2 u.so dont brush it off u need to deal with this now.forget all the other advice u got.this is the only advice u need.so get rid of the her she not ur friend and u dont need backstabbers.i am right and u know it so go ahead and do it.good luck
I don't think the person ur calling ur friend is a true friend but if they happend to get with each other justmove on with ur life don't be there waiting to see if he'll come back.Get back out there find a new lover. Its so not worth it.Hope I could help..............
what a f****** b****. shes not your friend, shes a self-serving b**** who probably liked your bfriend the whole time along, even when u were w/ him %26amp; cant wait to get her hands on sloppy seconds. shes pathetic %26amp; so desperate to land him that she cant see past her wants to be considerate to you. let the b**** have what she wants- and you know what? mess around w/ him after they've been 2gether for a few weeks %26amp; let her find out. Id keep that girl at ';arms length';
Damn wat kind of friend is dat...really i dnt kno wat to tell u cuz my so called ';best friend'; did da same n i just stopped talking to her. If your friend is a true friend she wldnt even had thoughts of liking your ex, if u talking to her doesnt make a diff than just let them go on living their pathetic lives n tell tehm both to go to hell!!
Who initiated the break up, you or your ex? If you did, then drop it. Go on with your life and let it be. If he did, then you might feel hurt, perhaps jealous with whoever he goes out with (sorry it happened to be your girlfriend). Either case, you need to go on. Tell your friend you wish her luck. If you happen to hear her talk about him, let it in one ear and out the other. If she insisted asking things about him, then tell her you're not comfortable talking about exes.....she has to find out for herself. Everything in life happens for a reason. Sometime we disagree, but if it means to be, let it be. Life is too short to be holding things up too long. You'll be missing out. So.....lift your chin up....put a smile on your face and up you go.... Good luck!
if you don't care about the guy and if he wants to date her, there isn't anything you can say to him or her. people make right or wrong decisions every day. who knows, ultimate justice would be that they are perfect for each other and end up cheating with others on honeymoon-lol. don't worry about it either way. have a good day, babe.
From what you say she isn't a good friend for you and she probably cares more about him than about you. She knows that is makes you uncomfortable and she still asks him out... I don't think she is gonna stop and it's gonna be hard for you...
as Judge Judy says,
put a period at the end.
and move
on.
Sounds like she's just hot for him. and in that case, nothing you can do will stop her from getting what she wants.
You can at least rest assured that she'll end up paying a price for what she wants, and you can smugly wait for her to fall on her face.
If you want to stay friends with her, just give her your permission. While its mildly disrespectful to you, it is your EX, let him go. And then go date one of her ex boyfriends.
When you say he is dating your ex, what are you a lesbian?
You should just forget both of them and move on. First of all you know how hormones are is a girl wants to be with someone then it doesn't matter what others say they will still go out with them. But on the other hand your right that is messed up to take a guy over a friend and that is what she is doing. Lets face it guys come and go and true girl friends are hard to come by. So if you meant enough to her she would leave him alone and stay by your side. So I would just say they heck with both of them.
You can't change people's minds. Let her find out for herself about him. She can still be your friend, just not like on a double date till you're fully over him.
Well if he is your ex, then he is your ex for a reason...
On the other hand, she is your friend and she should know that he is off-limits.
I say, let her date him. Maybe it will be true love and it was worth it, or maybe she will find out why he is your ex and she will feel silly for making a fool of herself. Either way, you cannot control what is no longer yours. If it is true friendship, it will last no matter what. I suggest you move on.
she isn't your true friend. get rid of her, she is lying to you and behind your back she is lying about you. She wants your x, I'm sorry but i would never mess with my best friends x, no matter how attracted to him i may be. every thing that you have said about this friend shows that she isn't a friend at all. I'm sorry.....you want her to make the right decision on her own, but she doesn't care about what the right thing is and she don't care about you.
I never cared if a fried went out with my ex's. I don't understand why people make a big deal about it. If they like eachother then what is the proble? You arent with him anymore. you should just wish her luck, warn her of his bad habbits, and sit back and watch what happens.
No ';sorta told her'; stuff, sweetie...
You need to be honest and tell her he's off limits.nail polish
[i no i asked this question already. i just... need a lot of opinions]Problem, advice?
If you've already asked this question - and have gotten lots of answers - and you truly only need 'lots' more opinions - then, here's one (mine) to add to your growing stack of others' input---
You know already what the GOOD and BAD answers are,
FOR yourself - WITHIN yourself. . .
reading more of what OTHER people think and feel about YOUR situation, only keeps this difficult and hurtful issue alive in your heart and soul - - -
because, for some yet undefined reason (only you can know), you NEED to keep this hurtful, confusing thing happening in your daily energy field, so - asking strangers (at Yahoo) is your way of doing this. . .
You shall figure this all out, and life will go on, as the sun comes up and goes down, each day, for all of us -
Life is for learning - and we learn best when things challenge our emotions ---
for you, just now, this is a lesson in choosing or rejecting friends, and then moving on to something different.
I wish you a speedy recovery from your 'loss', and an easier time of making choices that serve you well - now and in the future. . .Problem, advice?
cuz she dont care about your feelings even though you pretended not to really care about her askin him out but that was your man so she shouldnt have been trying to get with him it aint right so cut her loose cuz i can see this kind of thing happenin all the time
looking for the answer that you want. you have asked and answers are given. Go with the logical thing to do... if something told you the anwswer and you know its right just go for it.
I don't think her intenion is ';oh I am just trying to get him over you. So I'll go out with him.'; I don't thimk that's a good friend but no you can't stop her from asking him out but you can talk to her about it
if she goes out with your ex for the wrong intentions and that she doesn't see that it's bothering you, then obviously she's not a friend. a friend wouldn't stab another friend in the back. you should leave her be and find another friend. I'm sure till she breaks up with him she'll come crowling back and beg you to forgive her.
Aww thats a bummer, If she is really your friend she wouldnt be going behind your back and doing stuff. That seems so shady. I say confront her and tell her that it bothers you %26amp; that she is making a mistake. But yeah, that has to suck. I cant believe your friend would do that!
i just wonder a few things .like how long wereyou guys together for if it was really serious..or not...if it was casual not really super special relationship..or not?or was she the reason that you and your ex .broke up....maybe she scammed you...ever thought of that?no one really asks a ex to go out with them to help the third party get over that person....not without a agender of there own
I think your friend has liked him for a while and just wants to be with him not to help him get over you. Shes lieing to you. I've been through the same thing. the friend who did that to me......Lets just say we were best friends and we havn't talked in over 4 years because of what she did.
I think your friend is not really a friend. I see this type of stuff, and it sort of makes me ill. She obviously thinks of herself more than her friends... so she's not really a friend. Go find other REAL friends. You don't need self-centered b***hes like her in your life. She doesn't treasure your friendship enough to be more disciplined... instead, making up crap excuses to do what she does so she can get what SHE wants... irregardless of how it affects her ';friends';. Dump the friend.
Only a month? Some friend. Tell her to do whatever she wants... and when she goes out with him, tell her ';BYE!';
i dont no who i like best thats the problem
well to me shes not ur friend.one a friend wouldnt do that to u and get with an ex.now if u did break up and had feelings before u guys got together then she should come to u and tell u that.still she didnt that asked him out 2 times and its just been a month.so she not ur friend girl thats just wrong.u need to listen to me if she goes along with this u need to say goodby to hear. i mean that may sound messed but hello she got with ur ex.she the one that made that choice.u dont need a wannabe friend u need true friends.she asked him out that right there is grounds for no more friendship.so yeah she dumb and going to lose a friend in process so hope hes worth it.so call her tell her ur not my friend do whatever u want.then when it goes all sour she will try to come back and u say no ok.she needs to learn that choices she make will affect her life.so who are u to tell her she cant.ur the ex and u have that right but let her go and do whatever cuz u know a friend would not do that 2 u.so dont brush it off u need to deal with this now.forget all the other advice u got.this is the only advice u need.so get rid of the her she not ur friend and u dont need backstabbers.i am right and u know it so go ahead and do it.good luck
I don't think the person ur calling ur friend is a true friend but if they happend to get with each other justmove on with ur life don't be there waiting to see if he'll come back.Get back out there find a new lover. Its so not worth it.Hope I could help..............
what a f****** b****. shes not your friend, shes a self-serving b**** who probably liked your bfriend the whole time along, even when u were w/ him %26amp; cant wait to get her hands on sloppy seconds. shes pathetic %26amp; so desperate to land him that she cant see past her wants to be considerate to you. let the b**** have what she wants- and you know what? mess around w/ him after they've been 2gether for a few weeks %26amp; let her find out. Id keep that girl at ';arms length';
Damn wat kind of friend is dat...really i dnt kno wat to tell u cuz my so called ';best friend'; did da same n i just stopped talking to her. If your friend is a true friend she wldnt even had thoughts of liking your ex, if u talking to her doesnt make a diff than just let them go on living their pathetic lives n tell tehm both to go to hell!!
Who initiated the break up, you or your ex? If you did, then drop it. Go on with your life and let it be. If he did, then you might feel hurt, perhaps jealous with whoever he goes out with (sorry it happened to be your girlfriend). Either case, you need to go on. Tell your friend you wish her luck. If you happen to hear her talk about him, let it in one ear and out the other. If she insisted asking things about him, then tell her you're not comfortable talking about exes.....she has to find out for herself. Everything in life happens for a reason. Sometime we disagree, but if it means to be, let it be. Life is too short to be holding things up too long. You'll be missing out. So.....lift your chin up....put a smile on your face and up you go.... Good luck!
if you don't care about the guy and if he wants to date her, there isn't anything you can say to him or her. people make right or wrong decisions every day. who knows, ultimate justice would be that they are perfect for each other and end up cheating with others on honeymoon-lol. don't worry about it either way. have a good day, babe.
From what you say she isn't a good friend for you and she probably cares more about him than about you. She knows that is makes you uncomfortable and she still asks him out... I don't think she is gonna stop and it's gonna be hard for you...
as Judge Judy says,
put a period at the end.
and move
on.
Sounds like she's just hot for him. and in that case, nothing you can do will stop her from getting what she wants.
You can at least rest assured that she'll end up paying a price for what she wants, and you can smugly wait for her to fall on her face.
If you want to stay friends with her, just give her your permission. While its mildly disrespectful to you, it is your EX, let him go. And then go date one of her ex boyfriends.
When you say he is dating your ex, what are you a lesbian?
You should just forget both of them and move on. First of all you know how hormones are is a girl wants to be with someone then it doesn't matter what others say they will still go out with them. But on the other hand your right that is messed up to take a guy over a friend and that is what she is doing. Lets face it guys come and go and true girl friends are hard to come by. So if you meant enough to her she would leave him alone and stay by your side. So I would just say they heck with both of them.
You can't change people's minds. Let her find out for herself about him. She can still be your friend, just not like on a double date till you're fully over him.
Well if he is your ex, then he is your ex for a reason...
On the other hand, she is your friend and she should know that he is off-limits.
I say, let her date him. Maybe it will be true love and it was worth it, or maybe she will find out why he is your ex and she will feel silly for making a fool of herself. Either way, you cannot control what is no longer yours. If it is true friendship, it will last no matter what. I suggest you move on.
she isn't your true friend. get rid of her, she is lying to you and behind your back she is lying about you. She wants your x, I'm sorry but i would never mess with my best friends x, no matter how attracted to him i may be. every thing that you have said about this friend shows that she isn't a friend at all. I'm sorry.....you want her to make the right decision on her own, but she doesn't care about what the right thing is and she don't care about you.
I never cared if a fried went out with my ex's. I don't understand why people make a big deal about it. If they like eachother then what is the proble? You arent with him anymore. you should just wish her luck, warn her of his bad habbits, and sit back and watch what happens.
No ';sorta told her'; stuff, sweetie...
You need to be honest and tell her he's off limits.
6th Grade Girl Problem (advice please)?
I have a crush on a girl in my grade and when I go up and talk to her I am so nervous to actually go up to her and talk. I have had a few conversations with her but the were really short and how to an extend my conversation. I really like her.6th Grade Girl Problem (advice please)?
im in 6th grade.... dont mind my avatar.... in my school only the popular and pretty ppl date. isnt that the rule :(
?6th Grade Girl Problem (advice please)?
try find out were she hangs out when she goes out in d weekend and meet her there... u'd be more confident. The first time is hard just till u make friends, then after u'd be like you've known her for a long time...
You have to tell yourself that you can do this. Because if all goes well then you can definetely see yourself with her. If you are to nervous try the note mechanism. That sometimes works. Just one random day tell her how you feel. It will work
HURRY before someone takes her lol well talk to her you should and mean as soon as possible.... tell her how you feel and make sure that you are nice to people girls like nice guys.... and whoever made that rule is dumb everyone can date and screw popularity kids
I have faith in you
crack a joke that works..
or talk about school, her friends, family, and
all that unimportant stuff.
ask her do u any bros sis a mother father then after u ask these ? wait 2 days then ask her out first ask if she has a boy freind
Of course you really like her! You need to talk to her about ferrets. But don't be too obsessed with her because she might get freaked out.
wow
im in 6th grade.... dont mind my avatar.... in my school only the popular and pretty ppl date. isnt that the rule :(
?6th Grade Girl Problem (advice please)?
try find out were she hangs out when she goes out in d weekend and meet her there... u'd be more confident. The first time is hard just till u make friends, then after u'd be like you've known her for a long time...
You have to tell yourself that you can do this. Because if all goes well then you can definetely see yourself with her. If you are to nervous try the note mechanism. That sometimes works. Just one random day tell her how you feel. It will work
HURRY before someone takes her lol well talk to her you should and mean as soon as possible.... tell her how you feel and make sure that you are nice to people girls like nice guys.... and whoever made that rule is dumb everyone can date and screw popularity kids
I have faith in you
crack a joke that works..
or talk about school, her friends, family, and
all that unimportant stuff.
ask her do u any bros sis a mother father then after u ask these ? wait 2 days then ask her out first ask if she has a boy freind
Of course you really like her! You need to talk to her about ferrets. But don't be too obsessed with her because she might get freaked out.
wow
WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM? advice!!?
so let's say there's this guy Eric. and he is in one of my classes. now i'm really nice to everyone, so i tried being friends with eric this year. and all of a sudden he's helping me with homework, staying after school with me, and he even gave me his phone number and said i should call him if i need more homework help. i doubt he wants anything, cuz he's always staring at me in class too, but i mean.. what does he want?? iss he judging me by my looks? he can't like me.. we're not even friends...WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM? advice!!?
maria and eric sitting on a tree.....
jk, it seems to be that he likes you. When a guy stares at you in class there IS some level of attraction going on. He probably doesn't know how to approach you in that way though, let him know that you're available if thats what you want.
how do you do that? you first need to get his phone number and work the nerve to call him just to talk and get intimate with your conversation to develope the attraction you both have for each other. Hang out and do things other than school work. Go to the movies or a theme park. Goodluck!WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM? advice!!?
He probably feels you are more interested than you really are.
Ask him when u r alone after uve gotten some study help.
i think he's just a nice friend , he help you in your homework , just as friend do , so cooooooooooooooool nothing to worry , take it as friend
Do you need the truck to hit you in the face? Yes he is interested. Now the next step is yours either stop the interest or cultivate the interest.
He is afraid of rejection. Since you are in school there is no reason for things to project farther in a physical relationship. Why aren't you satisfied with him being nice to you? Figure out why at your age you would want more out of a relationship. I think, he is smart and you are being a little bit dumb. You could ruin your futures if you get involved with sex. Take it easy for the next few years. You have plenty of time to get involved with a man. Play it safe like he is, dear. Oh, and just because he doesn't move in sexually doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Why does he have to want anything? If he does what you told us, you are friends for goodness sake!
Sounds like he just wants to be your friend!
he likes you!
Maybe he doesn't think that you are not friends. Plus it depends on what you look like.
he loves u or he wants to get into ur pants in both the case he wants to be inbetween ur legs
well he probably likes you. give him a chance.
THAT is a classic sign that he fancies u..i'm surprised u didnt clock onto that, i think that he helps u with ur homework to get closer to you, i think he is waiting to see how u feel towards him 2 c if he can pluck up the courage to ask u out,
maria and eric sitting on a tree.....
jk, it seems to be that he likes you. When a guy stares at you in class there IS some level of attraction going on. He probably doesn't know how to approach you in that way though, let him know that you're available if thats what you want.
how do you do that? you first need to get his phone number and work the nerve to call him just to talk and get intimate with your conversation to develope the attraction you both have for each other. Hang out and do things other than school work. Go to the movies or a theme park. Goodluck!WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM? advice!!?
He probably feels you are more interested than you really are.
Ask him when u r alone after uve gotten some study help.
i think he's just a nice friend , he help you in your homework , just as friend do , so cooooooooooooooool nothing to worry , take it as friend
Do you need the truck to hit you in the face? Yes he is interested. Now the next step is yours either stop the interest or cultivate the interest.
He is afraid of rejection. Since you are in school there is no reason for things to project farther in a physical relationship. Why aren't you satisfied with him being nice to you? Figure out why at your age you would want more out of a relationship. I think, he is smart and you are being a little bit dumb. You could ruin your futures if you get involved with sex. Take it easy for the next few years. You have plenty of time to get involved with a man. Play it safe like he is, dear. Oh, and just because he doesn't move in sexually doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Why does he have to want anything? If he does what you told us, you are friends for goodness sake!
Sounds like he just wants to be your friend!
he likes you!
Maybe he doesn't think that you are not friends. Plus it depends on what you look like.
he loves u or he wants to get into ur pants in both the case he wants to be inbetween ur legs
well he probably likes you. give him a chance.
THAT is a classic sign that he fancies u..i'm surprised u didnt clock onto that, i think that he helps u with ur homework to get closer to you, i think he is waiting to see how u feel towards him 2 c if he can pluck up the courage to ask u out,
I need boy problem advice?
ok so im having boy problems... i have two guys that im talking to and one is outgoing and i can see myself having a lot of fun with him but he's kind of a player and i cant tell if he wants a relationship or just to hook up
the other guy is really shy so its hard to break him out of his shell but im attracted to him and i think he'd make a better long term boyfriend.. i need helpI need boy problem advice?
The player will always try to get with you as long as you don't put out. If you put out, he'll eventually stack to his confidence and move on, however make the shy guy spill some guts. Tell him you have nothing to do, have him pick you up, and mention your hungry, eat something, and talk to him about how the other guy is trying to get with you. Make him break a sweat and tell you he likes you. Never look desperate, it takes a lot of patience to make something work out. Wish the bestI need boy problem advice?
this is a no brainer, I will definitively advice to go out with someone you know you can have a future with! Altho keep this in mind, girls tend to feel attracted to the ';bad boys'; they are charming, seductive and their sense of living a dangerous life excite you! so make sure you don't end up getting hurt or hurting others by making the ';smart'; decision but secretly wondering about the other. So I will suggest to not only take the smart decision avoid a lot of headaches and date the shy kid but also to be ready for what's coming ahead and that will be the mind-games that your own head is gonna play on you. whatever your decision be firm on it!
Well it is really your choose. I think you should go with the guy who is there for you, treats you good,and makes you feel great.Now if the guy that is a player if he is hitting on other girls with you around you shouldn't be with him.Now the guy that is shy.Once you guys get closer in your relationship he will start to warm up to you and he will not be as shy.But it is your choose and if you like the player more go for it.But if you like the shy guy better you do your thing.
hey,
Its completely understandable for you to be confused about two guys at once. But what you really need to be doing is ask yourself what you really want out of the relationship. Do you want to have a guy you can just mess around and have a good time with, yet there be no real commitment? Or are you looking for someone you can really get close to and share lots of memories with? I was in the same situation and what i did was get a pen and paper and write down the pros and cons about each guy. The things i liked and the things i didn't. Once it was all down on paper i had a better look at how my relationship was going to be and it was way easier to figure out which way i wanted to go. Just do what you think is best, following your gut usually helps in many of these types of situations. Hope that helps!:)
Date the shy guy.
Trust me I'm 30 years old and I've dated TONS of guys. Date the shy one. The player guy might have more immediate sex appeal but the shy guy will treat you better.
Hopefully.
Thing is with guys is that YOU NEVER KNOW. So be careful before you go sleeping with any guy. Whether you choose the player or the shy guy make him show effort for your affections. Perhaps give them both a chance, and pick the one that treats you best. I think the shy guy is going to win.
ok, you are the only 1 who can make the right desision, but heres what i think...
you obviously want a long-term relationship, right??? well, the player is NOT going to do, so dont let hm take advantage of you. you are your own person and need to be respected, which is something the player wont do.
on the other hand, the shy guy will love you and respect you, and is probably the better guy. and when he opens up to you it will make you feel more accoplished then the other guy opening up to you.
well thats what i think, good luck!!
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oh my dang,,, same exact thing happened to me,,, i picked the long term relationship one,, bad decision,, for me, he is like way to shy, so honestly i would pick the first one ,,,, unless u want a long term relationship (i do but this boy of mine is talkin like forever-its like ahhh[haha]) i mean if he just wants to be like a one night stand i wouldnt but the first one seems better if u can be more urself around him,
Well do they both like you and have admitted that to you?
I would maybe go out with the first guy (maybe don't kiss him the first times) but see if that's all he wants or something. If that doesn't work out than get with the second guy and break him out of his shell somehow.
Good luck:)
well let me tell you a little bit about me.. i was guy #2 i WAS hella shy i couldnt talk to anyone at all seriously i stayed with the same friends over and over again. school got so boring until i graduated. now im the funny guy and im so outgoing now. i have no idea why i changed but i changed and you dont know #2 could be your #1. :)
Go for the shy one. I was in the exact same position, and the outgoing one ended being a jerk, no good boyfriend. The shy ones are always better:) That way you won't have a problem with doing something you don't want to. lol good luck and answer mine please? :)
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well if your under 21 you probably shouldnt be thinking about a long term boyfriend just yet and more focused on education but if you are older than definitely the second one there is nothing worse than going through a relationship and feeling like you wasted 2 years of your life when its over
I think you need to determine what you want? It seems clear that boy #1 will be short term, and boy #2 will be long term. Do you want a long term boy friend, or an end of summer fling?
long term boyfriend, comit yourself to it :)
guys that you call ';players'; are people who turn out in unhealthy relationships... give the shy one a chance. Let him know that your there for him and wont make things awkward for him...
I'd go with the first one just becuz shy guys dont do anything for me and theyre boring so yea..
Go for the shy one- more often than not ,HE is the keeper!
id go with the first one!!!!
never go for the second one
the other guy is really shy so its hard to break him out of his shell but im attracted to him and i think he'd make a better long term boyfriend.. i need helpI need boy problem advice?
The player will always try to get with you as long as you don't put out. If you put out, he'll eventually stack to his confidence and move on, however make the shy guy spill some guts. Tell him you have nothing to do, have him pick you up, and mention your hungry, eat something, and talk to him about how the other guy is trying to get with you. Make him break a sweat and tell you he likes you. Never look desperate, it takes a lot of patience to make something work out. Wish the bestI need boy problem advice?
this is a no brainer, I will definitively advice to go out with someone you know you can have a future with! Altho keep this in mind, girls tend to feel attracted to the ';bad boys'; they are charming, seductive and their sense of living a dangerous life excite you! so make sure you don't end up getting hurt or hurting others by making the ';smart'; decision but secretly wondering about the other. So I will suggest to not only take the smart decision avoid a lot of headaches and date the shy kid but also to be ready for what's coming ahead and that will be the mind-games that your own head is gonna play on you. whatever your decision be firm on it!
Well it is really your choose. I think you should go with the guy who is there for you, treats you good,and makes you feel great.Now if the guy that is a player if he is hitting on other girls with you around you shouldn't be with him.Now the guy that is shy.Once you guys get closer in your relationship he will start to warm up to you and he will not be as shy.But it is your choose and if you like the player more go for it.But if you like the shy guy better you do your thing.
hey,
Its completely understandable for you to be confused about two guys at once. But what you really need to be doing is ask yourself what you really want out of the relationship. Do you want to have a guy you can just mess around and have a good time with, yet there be no real commitment? Or are you looking for someone you can really get close to and share lots of memories with? I was in the same situation and what i did was get a pen and paper and write down the pros and cons about each guy. The things i liked and the things i didn't. Once it was all down on paper i had a better look at how my relationship was going to be and it was way easier to figure out which way i wanted to go. Just do what you think is best, following your gut usually helps in many of these types of situations. Hope that helps!:)
Date the shy guy.
Trust me I'm 30 years old and I've dated TONS of guys. Date the shy one. The player guy might have more immediate sex appeal but the shy guy will treat you better.
Hopefully.
Thing is with guys is that YOU NEVER KNOW. So be careful before you go sleeping with any guy. Whether you choose the player or the shy guy make him show effort for your affections. Perhaps give them both a chance, and pick the one that treats you best. I think the shy guy is going to win.
ok, you are the only 1 who can make the right desision, but heres what i think...
you obviously want a long-term relationship, right??? well, the player is NOT going to do, so dont let hm take advantage of you. you are your own person and need to be respected, which is something the player wont do.
on the other hand, the shy guy will love you and respect you, and is probably the better guy. and when he opens up to you it will make you feel more accoplished then the other guy opening up to you.
well thats what i think, good luck!!
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oh my dang,,, same exact thing happened to me,,, i picked the long term relationship one,, bad decision,, for me, he is like way to shy, so honestly i would pick the first one ,,,, unless u want a long term relationship (i do but this boy of mine is talkin like forever-its like ahhh[haha]) i mean if he just wants to be like a one night stand i wouldnt but the first one seems better if u can be more urself around him,
Well do they both like you and have admitted that to you?
I would maybe go out with the first guy (maybe don't kiss him the first times) but see if that's all he wants or something. If that doesn't work out than get with the second guy and break him out of his shell somehow.
Good luck:)
well let me tell you a little bit about me.. i was guy #2 i WAS hella shy i couldnt talk to anyone at all seriously i stayed with the same friends over and over again. school got so boring until i graduated. now im the funny guy and im so outgoing now. i have no idea why i changed but i changed and you dont know #2 could be your #1. :)
Go for the shy one. I was in the exact same position, and the outgoing one ended being a jerk, no good boyfriend. The shy ones are always better:) That way you won't have a problem with doing something you don't want to. lol good luck and answer mine please? :)
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well if your under 21 you probably shouldnt be thinking about a long term boyfriend just yet and more focused on education but if you are older than definitely the second one there is nothing worse than going through a relationship and feeling like you wasted 2 years of your life when its over
I think you need to determine what you want? It seems clear that boy #1 will be short term, and boy #2 will be long term. Do you want a long term boy friend, or an end of summer fling?
long term boyfriend, comit yourself to it :)
guys that you call ';players'; are people who turn out in unhealthy relationships... give the shy one a chance. Let him know that your there for him and wont make things awkward for him...
I'd go with the first one just becuz shy guys dont do anything for me and theyre boring so yea..
Go for the shy one- more often than not ,HE is the keeper!
id go with the first one!!!!
never go for the second one
A friend my have a big problem I need advice?
she have a doughter (12 years old) but she looks so older so the guy looking for ...but she is a baby !!!! and now she want have sex and i think she is very young for that , the mom doesn麓t know what to do , and I dont have kids so I ..only I know this girl needs love because her parents are divorces so i think A)She confuses the relationships with the boys , o.k WHAT IS THE BEST THING FOR TRY SHE UNDERSTAND IS NOT HER TIME FOR SEX ?A friend my have a big problem I need advice?
I would suggest that you find an organization where she could meet young teen mothers or teens and STDs with sex.
They also have those fake babies that are almost real for a girl to tend to or the baby could';die';, be ill,etc. Acts just like the real thing.NO control for her to turn it off.Experiencing a life with a baby.Or,even babysit for 48 hours a young baby and see how enthused she is then.
Take CareA friend my have a big problem I need advice?
ur english is not that clear, but i think u mean to say that theres a 12 yr old girl who wants to have sex.
Tell her that she has her whole life ahead of her.She's just 12. Don't be afraid to be harsh. It will pay in the long run. I am from India, where even at the age of 21, people speak in hushes if u have a girlfriend/boyfreind ; Sex is a huge no-no.
I can only assume ur from some european or american nation. My answer is based on my background and upbringing, so keep that in mind.
That's really tough...First of all, that is very sweet of you to care about your friend's daughter. I don't know very many people who would be that genuine. Second, I would ask your friend if it would be okay for you to talk to her daughter. Teens always (for some odd reason) listen to anyone but their parents. Maybe you could let her know that 12 is really young, and that if a guy really loved her, he'd wait until she's a bit older.
Good Luck
Tell her that sex is a life ruiner at such a young age... it really is. I had sex when I was 14 and it was the biggest mistake I ever made. Tell her that there will be a better time for her to have sex.. like when she's in college, or even after she's married. Good luck!
At twelve, I don't think that she should be having sex. The guy should be put away for statutory rape if he even goes there.
The mom needs to take her daughter to an OB/GYN, and confirm that she still hasn't lost her virginity. After that, the mother needs to take her in every few months to check it out.
If it gets out of hand, or her daughter is uncontrollable, it may be time for her to stay with a relative, OUT OF TOWN.
It sounds good, but what if she gets pregnant? That can kill a young girl, even with all the medical technology we have today. She may not really be ready....the first time someone is alone with her, she may get scared and run! (GOOD GIRL!) So much of the world tells us to do what we want when we want, but there is a reason people should wait. If you find someone who loves you, and marries you when you are an adult...then you can find your life together. If she starts getting that involved with grown men now, she may never really learn who she is or what she likes, she may just go along with the man because he is more confident in what he wants and can be pursuasive...or just because she thinks it will make him happy.
OR just scare her by telling her all the STD's that she could get, how many are UNCURABLE and what happens to her body when she gets one. Chances are if she starts having intimate relations this early in life, even with protection, she will get one anyway.
I would suggest that you find an organization where she could meet young teen mothers or teens and STDs with sex.
They also have those fake babies that are almost real for a girl to tend to or the baby could';die';, be ill,etc. Acts just like the real thing.NO control for her to turn it off.Experiencing a life with a baby.Or,even babysit for 48 hours a young baby and see how enthused she is then.
Take CareA friend my have a big problem I need advice?
ur english is not that clear, but i think u mean to say that theres a 12 yr old girl who wants to have sex.
Tell her that she has her whole life ahead of her.She's just 12. Don't be afraid to be harsh. It will pay in the long run. I am from India, where even at the age of 21, people speak in hushes if u have a girlfriend/boyfreind ; Sex is a huge no-no.
I can only assume ur from some european or american nation. My answer is based on my background and upbringing, so keep that in mind.
That's really tough...First of all, that is very sweet of you to care about your friend's daughter. I don't know very many people who would be that genuine. Second, I would ask your friend if it would be okay for you to talk to her daughter. Teens always (for some odd reason) listen to anyone but their parents. Maybe you could let her know that 12 is really young, and that if a guy really loved her, he'd wait until she's a bit older.
Good Luck
Tell her that sex is a life ruiner at such a young age... it really is. I had sex when I was 14 and it was the biggest mistake I ever made. Tell her that there will be a better time for her to have sex.. like when she's in college, or even after she's married. Good luck!
At twelve, I don't think that she should be having sex. The guy should be put away for statutory rape if he even goes there.
The mom needs to take her daughter to an OB/GYN, and confirm that she still hasn't lost her virginity. After that, the mother needs to take her in every few months to check it out.
If it gets out of hand, or her daughter is uncontrollable, it may be time for her to stay with a relative, OUT OF TOWN.
It sounds good, but what if she gets pregnant? That can kill a young girl, even with all the medical technology we have today. She may not really be ready....the first time someone is alone with her, she may get scared and run! (GOOD GIRL!) So much of the world tells us to do what we want when we want, but there is a reason people should wait. If you find someone who loves you, and marries you when you are an adult...then you can find your life together. If she starts getting that involved with grown men now, she may never really learn who she is or what she likes, she may just go along with the man because he is more confident in what he wants and can be pursuasive...or just because she thinks it will make him happy.
OR just scare her by telling her all the STD's that she could get, how many are UNCURABLE and what happens to her body when she gets one. Chances are if she starts having intimate relations this early in life, even with protection, she will get one anyway.
Love life problem advice needed!?
firstly, i like this guy, hes 25 i'm 18! is he too old for me?
secondly, we are friends but i hinted i liked him and now he's flirting with me, i see him checking me out, he make effort to see and talk to me, he says i'm really nice, he pays attention when i talk to him does he like me?
thirdly he has a girlfriend but doesnt seem keen on her what should i do?Love life problem advice needed!?
first of all the age is not a problem ..
second he might like you as a get from ur short explanations
third and the most important just be sure about the type of relation shim he is involved in %26gt;%26gt;%26gt; if it was a serious one please move on and destroy others lifes . i daunt mean to be rude but i just want to make it clear for you ... Good luck Love life problem advice needed!?
dont go out with him hes just playin you,
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secondly, we are friends but i hinted i liked him and now he's flirting with me, i see him checking me out, he make effort to see and talk to me, he says i'm really nice, he pays attention when i talk to him does he like me?
thirdly he has a girlfriend but doesnt seem keen on her what should i do?Love life problem advice needed!?
first of all the age is not a problem ..
second he might like you as a get from ur short explanations
third and the most important just be sure about the type of relation shim he is involved in %26gt;%26gt;%26gt; if it was a serious one please move on and destroy others lifes . i daunt mean to be rude but i just want to make it clear for you ... Good luck Love life problem advice needed!?
dont go out with him hes just playin you,
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When gettin oral sex I can stay erect but when I'm about to have real sex sometimes it can't get erect. What's wrong?Havin a problem??Advice!?
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Need help for ongoing medical problem please,or advice on how to proceed?
Sudden loss of some sensation in my feet and legs tingling and weakness. Prior just burning in feet. Lost my sense of balance to some degree, suddenly drop things things alot. I have facial pain that was only on the left side and now some on the right. It is accompanied by severe burning pain and nausea. Hearing sensitivity.They said my last blood sugar was normal,it has been high at times, it was diagnosed as insulin resistance. The family doctor feels at this time I don't need diabetic meds. Just a diet and avoid sugar and get exercise which is difficult when you have a hard time walking around the block due to leg weakness. The Mri's taken of my brain show nothing ,cervical spine shows a pinched nerve + stenosis left side,which they don't feel is causing the facial and head pain. Stenosis in my lumbar spine ,osteoporosis in that area in a couple of discs with a node,dismissed. DX,hi cholesterol,family Dx mother,father both aneursyms of brain.Mother multiple strokes.Doctor What now??Need help for ongoing medical problem please,or advice on how to proceed?
Dear Lotus rain:
Lets go back a little; You startes with burning and tingling sensation of the face and also numbness of you legs?
Loss of balance and nausea and decreased hearing sensibility?
Next spet to make a good diagnosis, is to check your B12 and folate blood levels, and check your nerve conduction,
Your peoblem sounds like a multiple neuritis ( inflamation of multiple nerves), which is in geeral more often but not necesarily, to diabetes.
You dont need to be diabetic to have polineuritis.
The problem arises in vegetarians (vegans) and people that do not eat red meat, also in people subjected to very restrictive diets, -
The MRI, the acustic tests (audiometry), even cholesterol, have nothing to do with it, ncluding spinal narrowing either cervical nor lumbar.
The treatment will depend on the results. The easiest and less costly first: blood test for folate in erythrocites and b12 or cobalamine levels. If low, the problem can be cured by providing the necessary absent nutrients.
Next if they are normal, are nerve test conduction (Yes, I know, its painful and iplies eedles stuck to your body with some elstric mild currents bein mesured for speed of nerve conduction,)
If they are normal, the neuritis treatment has to comprise oral amytriptiline or oxcarbazepine tablets, together with proper analgesics (hydroxycodone 30 mg two or three times a day)
Nothing wrong with your spine or brain, lets start with the proper diagnoses before anybody gets lost in the bushes and despair.
Yours sincerely
Garfield526Need help for ongoing medical problem please,or advice on how to proceed?
I think you should seek a second opinion to rule out diabetes. My boss has type 2, and he has all the symptoms you mentioned. Check out another doctor, preferably recommended
I think you should be ruled out for a CVA , TIA , Peripheral disease by having a AO run off and cardiac workup. Have you been seeing a Cardiologist?
verify your colan, my mother has it too
degenerative disc
Peripheral neuritis is a complication of diabetes, lumbar and cervical spine problems cause pain, too.
If your blood sugar at this time needs no treatment then your peripheral neuritis does, the treatment is manily vitamins.
Ask if surgery can hely your lumbar and cervical problems, if not, ask for physiotherapy.
Colorectal Cancer,stroke,aneurysums are possible causes.See a doctor about surgery immediately.
this sounds like qa gentic desies u cant cure that not that i no of
Dear Lotus rain:
Lets go back a little; You startes with burning and tingling sensation of the face and also numbness of you legs?
Loss of balance and nausea and decreased hearing sensibility?
Next spet to make a good diagnosis, is to check your B12 and folate blood levels, and check your nerve conduction,
Your peoblem sounds like a multiple neuritis ( inflamation of multiple nerves), which is in geeral more often but not necesarily, to diabetes.
You dont need to be diabetic to have polineuritis.
The problem arises in vegetarians (vegans) and people that do not eat red meat, also in people subjected to very restrictive diets, -
The MRI, the acustic tests (audiometry), even cholesterol, have nothing to do with it, ncluding spinal narrowing either cervical nor lumbar.
The treatment will depend on the results. The easiest and less costly first: blood test for folate in erythrocites and b12 or cobalamine levels. If low, the problem can be cured by providing the necessary absent nutrients.
Next if they are normal, are nerve test conduction (Yes, I know, its painful and iplies eedles stuck to your body with some elstric mild currents bein mesured for speed of nerve conduction,)
If they are normal, the neuritis treatment has to comprise oral amytriptiline or oxcarbazepine tablets, together with proper analgesics (hydroxycodone 30 mg two or three times a day)
Nothing wrong with your spine or brain, lets start with the proper diagnoses before anybody gets lost in the bushes and despair.
Yours sincerely
Garfield526Need help for ongoing medical problem please,or advice on how to proceed?
I think you should seek a second opinion to rule out diabetes. My boss has type 2, and he has all the symptoms you mentioned. Check out another doctor, preferably recommended
I think you should be ruled out for a CVA , TIA , Peripheral disease by having a AO run off and cardiac workup. Have you been seeing a Cardiologist?
verify your colan, my mother has it too
degenerative disc
Peripheral neuritis is a complication of diabetes, lumbar and cervical spine problems cause pain, too.
If your blood sugar at this time needs no treatment then your peripheral neuritis does, the treatment is manily vitamins.
Ask if surgery can hely your lumbar and cervical problems, if not, ask for physiotherapy.
Colorectal Cancer,stroke,aneurysums are possible causes.See a doctor about surgery immediately.
this sounds like qa gentic desies u cant cure that not that i no of
Medical help/problem. advice, experience, anything appreciated.?
My mom's been in a great deal of pain for the last couple of years. First, it was something about the heel (doctors thought it was related to sciatica but it was never diagnosed), and now it seems like that pain has spread throughout her whole body. She complains that it feels like her ';tendons are shrinking'; or have become very tight. It affects her arms, hands, thighs, and legs. She's been to a couple podiatrics and other doctors too but they really have no clue. She had her MIT, cat scan, and x- ray done but they still haven't found anything. She also had a hysterectomy. I really would appreciate anyones help with info because she's coming home from work in pain and it's getting harder to watch. She can't even walk for short distances before she starts limping and she misses shopping and the little things. Also, she does work (I think she shouldn't but it can't be helped because we're financially needy). She really wants her life back. Anything would be helpful. Thanks.Medical help/problem. advice, experience, anything appreciated.?
Could be many things, and I am not a doctor, but you should look at Fibromyalgia. Some of my relatives have it. It causes pain in your muscles and joints. Here is a link to the topic on WebMD.Medical help/problem. advice, experience, anything appreciated.?
That sounds a lot like what I was going through before I was diagnosed with Lupus. Have her ask her doctor about it or have him refer her to a rheumatologist. I had to see several doctors before I was diagnosed. One even told me it was because I had falling arches!!
It also sounds quite a bit like Fibromyalgia.
Good luck!!
Could be many things, and I am not a doctor, but you should look at Fibromyalgia. Some of my relatives have it. It causes pain in your muscles and joints. Here is a link to the topic on WebMD.Medical help/problem. advice, experience, anything appreciated.?
That sounds a lot like what I was going through before I was diagnosed with Lupus. Have her ask her doctor about it or have him refer her to a rheumatologist. I had to see several doctors before I was diagnosed. One even told me it was because I had falling arches!!
It also sounds quite a bit like Fibromyalgia.
Good luck!!
Best friend problem, Advice please?
My Best Friend hates this guy I know ,me and him arnt really friends he's more of an aquantince. She says he's annoying ugly and dirty, I don't really think any different but he sometimes talks to me, she says if she sees me talk to him one more time shell stop being my friend, she says I'm a disgrace to even know him and she's ashamed to hangout with someone who hangs out with him...
I know it sounds like she likes him, but she really doesnt
What do I do?
Thanks for the helpBest friend problem, Advice please?
personally if you want to talk to him then talk to him she is not your best friend if she makes you pick between talking to him or her. so if you really want to talk to him then do it and just tell her if she says anything about it that hes a nice guy or whatever and that shes no a true best friend if she makes you pick between the two of them
I know it sounds like she likes him, but she really doesnt
What do I do?
Thanks for the helpBest friend problem, Advice please?
personally if you want to talk to him then talk to him she is not your best friend if she makes you pick between talking to him or her. so if you really want to talk to him then do it and just tell her if she says anything about it that hes a nice guy or whatever and that shes no a true best friend if she makes you pick between the two of them
Ex gf problem?advice Help?
me and my ex gf broke up on Saturday cuz I was mad at her and told me she want a break so were done! I guess I love her alot
Should I move on or be friend then ask her out again Ex gf problem?advice Help?
if you break up that easily, you may as well stay apart. God, I can't imagine when someone wants the last porkchop, holy hell WWIIIEx gf problem?advice Help?
tell you're sorry and learn from what happened. hope she's say yes., whatever she says, respect her wish.
goodluck, buddy.
Give her her break like she asked. After at least a week or so casually start talking to her and flow into about whether or not she wants to get back with you.
Should I move on or be friend then ask her out again Ex gf problem?advice Help?
if you break up that easily, you may as well stay apart. God, I can't imagine when someone wants the last porkchop, holy hell WWIIIEx gf problem?advice Help?
tell you're sorry and learn from what happened. hope she's say yes., whatever she says, respect her wish.
goodluck, buddy.
Give her her break like she asked. After at least a week or so casually start talking to her and flow into about whether or not she wants to get back with you.
A Real Problem....advice wanted?
I am full time nursing student. I graduate June 14th. Recently found out I am pregnant, my due date is June 3rd. My husband at first, insisted that I have an abortion. Now, myself..I'm not against abortion, but personally I didn't think I could do it. But the more I thought about it, the more I started to think about how hard it would make school, I wouldn't be allowed in isolation rooms, I'd have to buy a new uniform (which are $100) due to my increasing belly size, plus I already have 2 small children, etc, etc. Just tonight my husband said if I wanted to have the baby, he was fine with it. I love children, would never do anything to harm a child, but I feel I have a very big desicion to make right now, and I'm not sure what I should do. Please no ANTI ABORTION ppl, just people who are in the same position with abortion as myself, I need some real advice.A Real Problem....advice wanted?
First, I gotta say that I'm pro-life, but I will try VERY hard to look at your situation objectively and not be rude, okay?
I'm sure you're not suggesting someone on here who neither knows you nor your situation say ';yes, you should absolutely abort'; or ';no, you really shouldn't';. I wish it were that easy.
Unfortunately, this is one of those situation where NO ONE, not even your own husband, can tell you what would be best for you. That said, I think it may help you to talk to someone older whom you respect, but who will not be judgemental one way or the other. The older I've gotten (and the more scrapes I've gotten myself into), the more I respect the opinion of women who have experienced more than I have, and have worked through their own problems.
Typically, I would advocate for adoption, but at least a few of your reasons for being worried about having this baby has to do with carrying the baby to term, not necessarily with dealing with it afterwards.
Ultimately, you have to think about how you really feel about abortion, and if it's something you could deal with for the rest of your life. If you think you would look back to this time and regret it, as difficult as the pregnancy and having another small child would be, that could very well be much worse.
How did you feel about it before your husband insisted you get the abortion? Not that that would make much of a difference any way, but if you're in a moment right now where you have gotten used to that idea as the best solution, make sure the ultimate decision is YOUR decision (not left-over feelings that your husband wants the abortion).
It may help to ask your professors/head nurses or whoever makes decisions about your assignments until you finish nursing school if there are options to allow you to do your school work while you're pregnant (my little sister is a nurse, and she carried to term and still worked, but that was after she was through with nursing school, and she's an L%26amp;D nurse).
Basically, I think you should make SURE of facts, and if you have any doubts about it, think it through really thoroughly and make the most informed decision you can.
If you decide to go through with the abortion, but have some mixed feelings about it, I would also suggest counseling (I'm a big fan of counseling).
Good luck to you either way. :-)A Real Problem....advice wanted?
How could a nurse who is already a mother even consider abortion as a solution to any problem?
You are a responsible adult. You know how to make this work. Pull it together girl! Stop looking at all of the negatives and find a way to do the right thing!
a child is a gift from god AND U SHOULD LET IT LIVE BECAUSE U NEVER NO WHAT THAT CHILD COULD DO FOR THE WORLD.
I was a 19 year old college student when I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter. I chose to have her and despite the financial difficulties, I am so glad I made that decision. Some things are meant to be. Look into your heart. Only you know if you really want to have this baby. In my opinion no child should be born if it is truly unwanted, but the decision shouldn't be made solely on finances.
simple. take a semester off. if your husband doesn't support you then leave his ****. nothing hotter than a lady in uniform. unless you're huge.
I'm pro-life, but that's me. Just make sure that your decision isn't based just on the next year of your lives. It might be difficult and costly, but easy doesn't enter into adult life. If you and your husband are otherwise prepared, have this baby - it'll be all the sweeter for how much you both sacrificed to make it happen. You'll be a family, not just a couple. Also, there is a risk, as I'm sure you know, that abortions can effect you future chances of conception. Be sure you don't have any issues in your family or in your own history. A small risk, but it would be horrible for you. If you are spiritual, pray to your God (Goddess?) and talk, talk, talk, to your hubby. Good Luck and I'll pray for you to find your way. (Whatever that is.)
U SHOULD NOT ABORT ITS NOT RIGHT
THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE MAJOR SACRIFICES U HAVE TO MAKE
U ARE PREGNANT SAVE THE MONEY FOR A NEW UNIFORM THIS IS A JOB U ARE REFERRING TO WHICH U CAN GO RIGHT BACK INTO WHEN U FINISH I MEAN YOUR HEALTH IN THIS CHILD IS MORE IMPORTANT SO HAVE TE BABY MAKE NEW PLANS AND PRORITIZE WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND LIVE ON.
DONT ROB AN INNOCENT CHILD OF ITS LIFE. I MEAN C'MON
Do research from both sides before you make your choice. While you might have problems from carrying the baby to term, there's also evidence that says women who have abortions can suffer from depression, regret and some medical complications, which are all things you want to weight in.
Also, you can probably get financial support to help you with the baby. Many churches (mine, for instance) offers financial support to people that need it, and I can't imagine there'd be many churches who would be heartless enough to decry abortion but then not put forth a little money if it was necessary to prevent one.
Also think that if you have the baby, you can always put it up for adoption. There's a long waiting list for adopted babies, and yours will have a good chance of finding a loving home.
And whatever decision you make, don't make it hastily. Think through all of the ramifications before you commit to it, or you'll regret it. If you decide to carry the baby to term, but you didn't realize the sacrifice it would entail, you'll suffer, and if you abort the baby but you didn't realize the guilt you'd have, you'll suffer. Make a wise choice.
I am sure since you already said you dont think you could do it that you wouldnt be able to. I know I wouldnt be able to live with myself after the fact and it sounds like you wouldnt either. this is a good area to be in when having to support children so dont give up on school, just take it day by day graduation is so close to babys birthday so its not like you are going to have to miss a ton of school after the baby is born so thats perfect 11days I am sure you can struggle through it. how about buying your uniform at wal-mart or even a thrift store, just while you are pregnant??? anyways Its a tough discision and I wish you the best of luck just remeber this is a decision you are going to have to live with for the rest of your life either way. not many decisions in life are this serious. good luck
You will live to regret an abortion, trust me, I have. I went thru the situation as you, and have lived to regret it. Please go to your supervisor and let him/her know how you truily feel, and that you don't want to jepordize your education. They are people too, and I know that there have been women in your situation before, and they will help you out. All is not lost., now if you see that you want to carry the baby but give it up for an adoption, there are good parents out there.I understand your situation, its your body/your life and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will find the right answer, but 1st go to your administrator/instructor. ok?
I think it takes a stronger woman to save a life than it does to make one. Put your child up for adoption. You obviously won't be a good mother to this child.
well, you should try to do your best to finish college, so that you can get a better paid job and support your children....
i would not suggest an abortion (and honestly i dont think anyone will) but i definitelly suggest you to do everything to finish college, even if you have to finish a few months later, but do your best to finish it.
You're right. You don't need any propoganda, either way. Believe it or not, there are lots of people who believe that contraception, PREVENTING the birth by preventing conception, is wrong. So it has to be a personal decision.
Millions of American women chose to get an abortion. It IS an important decision, but these women chose not to have an unwanted child. You can chose this, too. Or not. But in the end it is YOUR decision, not anyone else's. If you feel comfortable with it, and if you feel you can do it without regrets, then this is my advice: go ahead and get the procedure as soon as possible. But you need to accept your choice and move on. You can have children later and have a happy life with your family.
I wish you the best. Create a happy life for yourself!
dont abort the baby, just adjust to what you are going to have to do when you are pregnant. a child is a gift from god
my best friend is in the same place you are..she keep her baby...she got married in jan. had her baby in july and is graduating in Dec from nursing school. she did all that in the same year. and so can you ..like you said you already have two children so you have the routine down. it will be worth it once you look into those little eyes.
If you can do it with two... you can do it with 3.... I know I can and do. I was scared at first. But it has worked and well.
An abortion clinic denied giving me one on the basis that she didn't feel I really wanted it. My ex and I were there together, she said it in front of us. It was the truth, and I am glad she wouldn't perform the abortion.
Good LUck
Sorry I'm not someone in the same position but I'm also not an anti-abortion person so here's my advice: do what you feel in your heart because it's a HUGE decision whether to just get rid of the baby or keep it and have to spend a ton of money I do think that if money really is a problem to buy all the new things then maybe you have to have an abortion but if money is not to big of a problem then i think you should keep it. Sorry if that didn't help but that's all I can say.
First, I gotta say that I'm pro-life, but I will try VERY hard to look at your situation objectively and not be rude, okay?
I'm sure you're not suggesting someone on here who neither knows you nor your situation say ';yes, you should absolutely abort'; or ';no, you really shouldn't';. I wish it were that easy.
Unfortunately, this is one of those situation where NO ONE, not even your own husband, can tell you what would be best for you. That said, I think it may help you to talk to someone older whom you respect, but who will not be judgemental one way or the other. The older I've gotten (and the more scrapes I've gotten myself into), the more I respect the opinion of women who have experienced more than I have, and have worked through their own problems.
Typically, I would advocate for adoption, but at least a few of your reasons for being worried about having this baby has to do with carrying the baby to term, not necessarily with dealing with it afterwards.
Ultimately, you have to think about how you really feel about abortion, and if it's something you could deal with for the rest of your life. If you think you would look back to this time and regret it, as difficult as the pregnancy and having another small child would be, that could very well be much worse.
How did you feel about it before your husband insisted you get the abortion? Not that that would make much of a difference any way, but if you're in a moment right now where you have gotten used to that idea as the best solution, make sure the ultimate decision is YOUR decision (not left-over feelings that your husband wants the abortion).
It may help to ask your professors/head nurses or whoever makes decisions about your assignments until you finish nursing school if there are options to allow you to do your school work while you're pregnant (my little sister is a nurse, and she carried to term and still worked, but that was after she was through with nursing school, and she's an L%26amp;D nurse).
Basically, I think you should make SURE of facts, and if you have any doubts about it, think it through really thoroughly and make the most informed decision you can.
If you decide to go through with the abortion, but have some mixed feelings about it, I would also suggest counseling (I'm a big fan of counseling).
Good luck to you either way. :-)A Real Problem....advice wanted?
How could a nurse who is already a mother even consider abortion as a solution to any problem?
You are a responsible adult. You know how to make this work. Pull it together girl! Stop looking at all of the negatives and find a way to do the right thing!
a child is a gift from god AND U SHOULD LET IT LIVE BECAUSE U NEVER NO WHAT THAT CHILD COULD DO FOR THE WORLD.
I was a 19 year old college student when I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter. I chose to have her and despite the financial difficulties, I am so glad I made that decision. Some things are meant to be. Look into your heart. Only you know if you really want to have this baby. In my opinion no child should be born if it is truly unwanted, but the decision shouldn't be made solely on finances.
simple. take a semester off. if your husband doesn't support you then leave his ****. nothing hotter than a lady in uniform. unless you're huge.
I'm pro-life, but that's me. Just make sure that your decision isn't based just on the next year of your lives. It might be difficult and costly, but easy doesn't enter into adult life. If you and your husband are otherwise prepared, have this baby - it'll be all the sweeter for how much you both sacrificed to make it happen. You'll be a family, not just a couple. Also, there is a risk, as I'm sure you know, that abortions can effect you future chances of conception. Be sure you don't have any issues in your family or in your own history. A small risk, but it would be horrible for you. If you are spiritual, pray to your God (Goddess?) and talk, talk, talk, to your hubby. Good Luck and I'll pray for you to find your way. (Whatever that is.)
U SHOULD NOT ABORT ITS NOT RIGHT
THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE MAJOR SACRIFICES U HAVE TO MAKE
U ARE PREGNANT SAVE THE MONEY FOR A NEW UNIFORM THIS IS A JOB U ARE REFERRING TO WHICH U CAN GO RIGHT BACK INTO WHEN U FINISH I MEAN YOUR HEALTH IN THIS CHILD IS MORE IMPORTANT SO HAVE TE BABY MAKE NEW PLANS AND PRORITIZE WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND LIVE ON.
DONT ROB AN INNOCENT CHILD OF ITS LIFE. I MEAN C'MON
Do research from both sides before you make your choice. While you might have problems from carrying the baby to term, there's also evidence that says women who have abortions can suffer from depression, regret and some medical complications, which are all things you want to weight in.
Also, you can probably get financial support to help you with the baby. Many churches (mine, for instance) offers financial support to people that need it, and I can't imagine there'd be many churches who would be heartless enough to decry abortion but then not put forth a little money if it was necessary to prevent one.
Also think that if you have the baby, you can always put it up for adoption. There's a long waiting list for adopted babies, and yours will have a good chance of finding a loving home.
And whatever decision you make, don't make it hastily. Think through all of the ramifications before you commit to it, or you'll regret it. If you decide to carry the baby to term, but you didn't realize the sacrifice it would entail, you'll suffer, and if you abort the baby but you didn't realize the guilt you'd have, you'll suffer. Make a wise choice.
I am sure since you already said you dont think you could do it that you wouldnt be able to. I know I wouldnt be able to live with myself after the fact and it sounds like you wouldnt either. this is a good area to be in when having to support children so dont give up on school, just take it day by day graduation is so close to babys birthday so its not like you are going to have to miss a ton of school after the baby is born so thats perfect 11days I am sure you can struggle through it. how about buying your uniform at wal-mart or even a thrift store, just while you are pregnant??? anyways Its a tough discision and I wish you the best of luck just remeber this is a decision you are going to have to live with for the rest of your life either way. not many decisions in life are this serious. good luck
You will live to regret an abortion, trust me, I have. I went thru the situation as you, and have lived to regret it. Please go to your supervisor and let him/her know how you truily feel, and that you don't want to jepordize your education. They are people too, and I know that there have been women in your situation before, and they will help you out. All is not lost., now if you see that you want to carry the baby but give it up for an adoption, there are good parents out there.I understand your situation, its your body/your life and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will find the right answer, but 1st go to your administrator/instructor. ok?
I think it takes a stronger woman to save a life than it does to make one. Put your child up for adoption. You obviously won't be a good mother to this child.
well, you should try to do your best to finish college, so that you can get a better paid job and support your children....
i would not suggest an abortion (and honestly i dont think anyone will) but i definitelly suggest you to do everything to finish college, even if you have to finish a few months later, but do your best to finish it.
You're right. You don't need any propoganda, either way. Believe it or not, there are lots of people who believe that contraception, PREVENTING the birth by preventing conception, is wrong. So it has to be a personal decision.
Millions of American women chose to get an abortion. It IS an important decision, but these women chose not to have an unwanted child. You can chose this, too. Or not. But in the end it is YOUR decision, not anyone else's. If you feel comfortable with it, and if you feel you can do it without regrets, then this is my advice: go ahead and get the procedure as soon as possible. But you need to accept your choice and move on. You can have children later and have a happy life with your family.
I wish you the best. Create a happy life for yourself!
dont abort the baby, just adjust to what you are going to have to do when you are pregnant. a child is a gift from god
my best friend is in the same place you are..she keep her baby...she got married in jan. had her baby in july and is graduating in Dec from nursing school. she did all that in the same year. and so can you ..like you said you already have two children so you have the routine down. it will be worth it once you look into those little eyes.
If you can do it with two... you can do it with 3.... I know I can and do. I was scared at first. But it has worked and well.
An abortion clinic denied giving me one on the basis that she didn't feel I really wanted it. My ex and I were there together, she said it in front of us. It was the truth, and I am glad she wouldn't perform the abortion.
Good LUck
Sorry I'm not someone in the same position but I'm also not an anti-abortion person so here's my advice: do what you feel in your heart because it's a HUGE decision whether to just get rid of the baby or keep it and have to spend a ton of money I do think that if money really is a problem to buy all the new things then maybe you have to have an abortion but if money is not to big of a problem then i think you should keep it. Sorry if that didn't help but that's all I can say.
And good problem advice helps out there need answers?
if someone fanceys you is it a good sign if they give you there email adddress and let you know where they will be at a day and time
cause this guy gave me his email but not his number i think he might be worried that my abusive partner might find it
and he said that he only be able to read the emails when he gets hold of something with the internet cause he gone away for two weeks and he also said email him when ive lefted my boyfriend .i gave him my moblie number but do u think he might think if he texts me my boyfriend might read it .theres nothing between me and my abusive partner no more iam just stuck for two weeks
i know wot people will say get out fast and i going to in 2 weeks just please answer the question about that guy thanksAnd good problem advice helps out there need answers?
If your boyfriend is abusive, you should terminate your relationship as soon as possible. Such relationship is never going to do any good to you and will cause more problems as the time passes.
As for the new guy, I believe you think too much. Give your brain some break. If the guys really likes you then he will call you no matter what. If he doesn't have the guts then he is not the person to be with.
I hope this answer helps you. Really you need to be more careful about the guys you date or go out with.And good problem advice helps out there need answers?
i agree with vicki be careful because it sound as if he's hiding something from you.just continue to e-mail him but don't do anything else till he come forward and can be honest with you. good luck :)
I khink that person is making fool of you.....
I think you should be careful...... Just email for him? That sounds like he is hiding something.
Sounds to me like he has something to hide. If he was leaving for 2 wks and really cared wouldnt he want you to have a number to call him. But I seriously think you should end one relationship before starting another. Or maybe that is what he is waiting on. Be careful....
could be he has something to hide I'd wonder
no sounds like he has someone on the side as well as u do, so maybe u should get out, get ur life together, get settled, then find someone else why u got to jump from one to anotha..the otha one dient give u his numba cause he dient want to get caught with u callin him when he is with his otha girl duh
I would lay low and be very discreet with this guy. You never know what he is not telling you until he does. Or, if you think about it, you might be able to get the answers you want just by asking him, straight up.
As for the abusive guy, I hope you do get away from him and never, never look back. If you do, you are only asking for more drama in your life and the possibility that he may injure you for life.
Go Now! Stay at a shelter or with a friend. Your life is worth it!
God be with you,
Eagleman
Question for you , if he is hiding now by not been straight up with you , what gaurantee do you have of what he is hiding and what he will be like in the future. do yourself a favor and heal from this relationship before you climb into another one. trust me when i tell you i know what im talking about
yea thats itmakeup skin
cause this guy gave me his email but not his number i think he might be worried that my abusive partner might find it
and he said that he only be able to read the emails when he gets hold of something with the internet cause he gone away for two weeks and he also said email him when ive lefted my boyfriend .i gave him my moblie number but do u think he might think if he texts me my boyfriend might read it .theres nothing between me and my abusive partner no more iam just stuck for two weeks
i know wot people will say get out fast and i going to in 2 weeks just please answer the question about that guy thanksAnd good problem advice helps out there need answers?
If your boyfriend is abusive, you should terminate your relationship as soon as possible. Such relationship is never going to do any good to you and will cause more problems as the time passes.
As for the new guy, I believe you think too much. Give your brain some break. If the guys really likes you then he will call you no matter what. If he doesn't have the guts then he is not the person to be with.
I hope this answer helps you. Really you need to be more careful about the guys you date or go out with.And good problem advice helps out there need answers?
i agree with vicki be careful because it sound as if he's hiding something from you.just continue to e-mail him but don't do anything else till he come forward and can be honest with you. good luck :)
I khink that person is making fool of you.....
I think you should be careful...... Just email for him? That sounds like he is hiding something.
Sounds to me like he has something to hide. If he was leaving for 2 wks and really cared wouldnt he want you to have a number to call him. But I seriously think you should end one relationship before starting another. Or maybe that is what he is waiting on. Be careful....
could be he has something to hide I'd wonder
no sounds like he has someone on the side as well as u do, so maybe u should get out, get ur life together, get settled, then find someone else why u got to jump from one to anotha..the otha one dient give u his numba cause he dient want to get caught with u callin him when he is with his otha girl duh
I would lay low and be very discreet with this guy. You never know what he is not telling you until he does. Or, if you think about it, you might be able to get the answers you want just by asking him, straight up.
As for the abusive guy, I hope you do get away from him and never, never look back. If you do, you are only asking for more drama in your life and the possibility that he may injure you for life.
Go Now! Stay at a shelter or with a friend. Your life is worth it!
God be with you,
Eagleman
Question for you , if he is hiding now by not been straight up with you , what gaurantee do you have of what he is hiding and what he will be like in the future. do yourself a favor and heal from this relationship before you climb into another one. trust me when i tell you i know what im talking about
yea thats it
Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
Our cat is pregnant and is supposed to have her kittens any day now. However, about 2 weeks ago, we noticed a scab had developed just below one of the nipples on the bare part of the belly. We dressed it and cleaned it, thinking that she have caused a slight injury to herself.
It has gotten progressively worse until this morning, the scab is falling off, but there is alot of pus. The scab itself is still attached only by what can only be described as a ';string of pus'; that actually looks like it goes INTO her belly. There are no Animal Hospitals around us open today (Sunday). Any ideas whats going on and what we can do for her for now?
Also, she does not seem to be in any pain, she is eating, drinking, and having normal bowel movements. No vomiting or other symptoms of illness. If it wasnt for the fact that it looks so bad, you couldnt even tell there was something wrong.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
Since she's eating well, and everything appears normal, otherwise, with her, it sounds like a strictly surface wound. Try draining the puss with a clean needle and paper towel. Then clean thoroughly with Hydrogen Peroxide. Do NOT cover it. allow it to air dry out. Put neosporine on topically, to detour the infection area and keep it from itching. It's OK if she licks, as her saliva contains natural antibodies.
I would have her vet checked when you can though. Hope this helps. Good luck with the new litter.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
i think your best bet is not to touch it. it will most likely heal on its own. if you are that concerned, then i heard from somewhere that if you get a damp warm towel and leave it there for perhaps a few minutes, it will soften up the scab and remove some of the pus. good luck
Well the present of pus indicated that there is an infection in her body as of now i would try and contact a veternarian. This infection could be endangering the health of her unborn kittens. I would also reccomend getteing her spayed. This would decrese the chance of her getting ovarian cancer and breast cancer. But as the years goes on that chance increases. But I would get the phone book out and start calling every vet listed to see if they have an emergency service. Most do.
ever watch animal hospital.lol. well what u have to do is get rid of all the pus some how and clean the cut with some sort of spirit to prevent infection. then aplly a plaster and keep changing the plaster every day.
If she's acting normal, clean and dress the wound again as far as you feel comfortable with it, and make sure you take her in first thing tomorrow. It seems like it's not bothering her, so it's probably OK. I'd check cat websites, too, and see if you can find the number for an emergency vet so you can call and ask.
The hospital may not be open but will have 24 hour emergency. Call them for advice and they will say whether you need to get her seen or not.
Problems always arise at weekends with pets as it costs more, but if you are really concerned then it would be best to get her seen.
Just make her comfortable, don't touch it too much, and bring her to the vet first thing tomorrow, I'm sure she'll have priority considering the fact that she's pregnant and due. Honestly the best thing to do is just get the advice from your vet, because you really don't want to end up doing something to hurt her or her babies in the long run. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
have you try to check in the yellow page and see if there are some house veterinarian clinic that does open on the late shefts with what times and weeks they do open and close in youre town . if you there are one in the phone book then you should call later today ot tommarrow set a appointment for youre cat to check see if the veterinary doctor can gave something to help youre pregnant cat or maybe can gave birth at the clinic either one is the best .
well if you cleaned it and dressed it it should be fine but mi not 100% sure, if you are REALLY worried then look at yellowpages.com and find a 24 hour vet clinic!
i hope this helps
p.s. i hope all of her kittens are healthy!
It has gotten progressively worse until this morning, the scab is falling off, but there is alot of pus. The scab itself is still attached only by what can only be described as a ';string of pus'; that actually looks like it goes INTO her belly. There are no Animal Hospitals around us open today (Sunday). Any ideas whats going on and what we can do for her for now?
Also, she does not seem to be in any pain, she is eating, drinking, and having normal bowel movements. No vomiting or other symptoms of illness. If it wasnt for the fact that it looks so bad, you couldnt even tell there was something wrong.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
Since she's eating well, and everything appears normal, otherwise, with her, it sounds like a strictly surface wound. Try draining the puss with a clean needle and paper towel. Then clean thoroughly with Hydrogen Peroxide. Do NOT cover it. allow it to air dry out. Put neosporine on topically, to detour the infection area and keep it from itching. It's OK if she licks, as her saliva contains natural antibodies.
I would have her vet checked when you can though. Hope this helps. Good luck with the new litter.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
i think your best bet is not to touch it. it will most likely heal on its own. if you are that concerned, then i heard from somewhere that if you get a damp warm towel and leave it there for perhaps a few minutes, it will soften up the scab and remove some of the pus. good luck
Well the present of pus indicated that there is an infection in her body as of now i would try and contact a veternarian. This infection could be endangering the health of her unborn kittens. I would also reccomend getteing her spayed. This would decrese the chance of her getting ovarian cancer and breast cancer. But as the years goes on that chance increases. But I would get the phone book out and start calling every vet listed to see if they have an emergency service. Most do.
ever watch animal hospital.lol. well what u have to do is get rid of all the pus some how and clean the cut with some sort of spirit to prevent infection. then aplly a plaster and keep changing the plaster every day.
If she's acting normal, clean and dress the wound again as far as you feel comfortable with it, and make sure you take her in first thing tomorrow. It seems like it's not bothering her, so it's probably OK. I'd check cat websites, too, and see if you can find the number for an emergency vet so you can call and ask.
The hospital may not be open but will have 24 hour emergency. Call them for advice and they will say whether you need to get her seen or not.
Problems always arise at weekends with pets as it costs more, but if you are really concerned then it would be best to get her seen.
Just make her comfortable, don't touch it too much, and bring her to the vet first thing tomorrow, I'm sure she'll have priority considering the fact that she's pregnant and due. Honestly the best thing to do is just get the advice from your vet, because you really don't want to end up doing something to hurt her or her babies in the long run. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
have you try to check in the yellow page and see if there are some house veterinarian clinic that does open on the late shefts with what times and weeks they do open and close in youre town . if you there are one in the phone book then you should call later today ot tommarrow set a appointment for youre cat to check see if the veterinary doctor can gave something to help youre pregnant cat or maybe can gave birth at the clinic either one is the best .
well if you cleaned it and dressed it it should be fine but mi not 100% sure, if you are REALLY worried then look at yellowpages.com and find a 24 hour vet clinic!
i hope this helps
p.s. i hope all of her kittens are healthy!
BOY PROBLEM advice needed?
I was recently insulted by an jerk in one of my classes. i decided to talk to my ';crush'; about it. and so basically he's always staring at me and we've only talked in real life twice, but i decided to talk to him. and this is what he said when i told him:
yea im going to talk to him about that and make sure he never says that to u ever again. He said one bullshit thing to me once so i wiped out my wetbag mexican jokes. dont worry I will handle it next time i see him. If he ever does it again tell him to come talk to me, and trust me he will then shut up.
and today he came up to me and started talking just out of the blue. ne never did that before, so why is he changing?
what's does this all mean? does it seem like he might like me? how can u tell?BOY PROBLEM advice needed?
it totally means he likes you I'm not sure if your conversation with him made him realize Ur gf material 4 him or that he liked your personality and wantz 2 b friends.well good luck i hope u 2 end up going out on of these daysBOY PROBLEM advice needed?
WHOA!! U need 2 slow down there. U made an effort 2 talk 2 him, so he's doing the same. U guys arent even officially friends yet so dont build ur hopes up about that. Just take things slow right now. But maybe he does like u but I dont think u can b 2 sure about that...................YET
You broke the ice by talking to him. Now he is talking to you. Keep up talking to him and see where this goes, but DO NOT read so much in to it yet. Time will tell how he feels soon enough. Maybe try asking him out to eat with you.
He feels more comfortable talking to you because you broke the ice. Don't read to much into it, this kind of thing happens with all friends. Somebody has to break the ice before you can really start talking to eachother, right?
This one is easy this guy is just picking on you cause he has a crush on you thats what guys do these days to show that they like a girl or the other way arorund he didnt mean to bullshit u or make u mad or something he just wanted to show u that he likes u in a weird kinda way
Not an expert but he maybe talking to you because he noticed that you told him out of the population of guys. He might be flattered. He could have feelings back. Your best bet is to keep talking to him and become friends. If he likes you he will make the next move. He seems like the type of guy to make the moves. I think that he may but I dont want to put that thought it your head. Most guys would not do things that nice for a girl they didnt have feelings for or were even friends with. Give it a shot. Keep him in your thoughts and keep talking. It could change. Any more quetions or advice needed. email me punkjunkiemail@yahoo.com I will be happy to help.
yea im going to talk to him about that and make sure he never says that to u ever again. He said one bullshit thing to me once so i wiped out my wetbag mexican jokes. dont worry I will handle it next time i see him. If he ever does it again tell him to come talk to me, and trust me he will then shut up.
and today he came up to me and started talking just out of the blue. ne never did that before, so why is he changing?
what's does this all mean? does it seem like he might like me? how can u tell?BOY PROBLEM advice needed?
it totally means he likes you I'm not sure if your conversation with him made him realize Ur gf material 4 him or that he liked your personality and wantz 2 b friends.well good luck i hope u 2 end up going out on of these daysBOY PROBLEM advice needed?
WHOA!! U need 2 slow down there. U made an effort 2 talk 2 him, so he's doing the same. U guys arent even officially friends yet so dont build ur hopes up about that. Just take things slow right now. But maybe he does like u but I dont think u can b 2 sure about that...................YET
You broke the ice by talking to him. Now he is talking to you. Keep up talking to him and see where this goes, but DO NOT read so much in to it yet. Time will tell how he feels soon enough. Maybe try asking him out to eat with you.
He feels more comfortable talking to you because you broke the ice. Don't read to much into it, this kind of thing happens with all friends. Somebody has to break the ice before you can really start talking to eachother, right?
This one is easy this guy is just picking on you cause he has a crush on you thats what guys do these days to show that they like a girl or the other way arorund he didnt mean to bullshit u or make u mad or something he just wanted to show u that he likes u in a weird kinda way
Not an expert but he maybe talking to you because he noticed that you told him out of the population of guys. He might be flattered. He could have feelings back. Your best bet is to keep talking to him and become friends. If he likes you he will make the next move. He seems like the type of guy to make the moves. I think that he may but I dont want to put that thought it your head. Most guys would not do things that nice for a girl they didnt have feelings for or were even friends with. Give it a shot. Keep him in your thoughts and keep talking. It could change. Any more quetions or advice needed. email me punkjunkiemail@yahoo.com I will be happy to help.
A Real Problem....advice wanted?
I am full time nursing student. I graduate June 14th. Recently found out I am pregnant, my due date is June 3rd. My husband at first, insisted that I have an abortion. Now, myself..I'm not against abortion, but personally I didn't think I could do it. But the more I thought about it, the more I started to think about how hard it would make school, I wouldn't be allowed in isolation rooms, I'd have to buy a new uniform (which are $100) due to my increasing belly size, plus I already have 2 small children, etc, etc. Just tonight my husband said if I wanted to have the baby, he was fine with it. I love children, would never do anything to harm a child, but I feel I have a very big desicion to make right now, and I'm not sure what I should do. Please no ANTI ABORTION ppl, just people who are in the same position with abortion as myself, I need some real advice.A Real Problem....advice wanted?
First, I gotta say that I'm pro-life, but I will try VERY hard to look at your situation objectively and not be rude, okay?
I'm sure you're not suggesting someone on here who neither knows you nor your situation say ';yes, you should absolutely abort'; or ';no, you really shouldn't';. I wish it were that easy.
Unfortunately, this is one of those situation where NO ONE, not even your own husband, can tell you what would be best for you. That said, I think it may help you to talk to someone older whom you respect, but who will not be judgemental one way or the other. The older I've gotten (and the more scrapes I've gotten myself into), the more I respect the opinion of women who have experienced more than I have, and have worked through their own problems.
Typically, I would advocate for adoption, but at least a few of your reasons for being worried about having this baby has to do with carrying the baby to term, not necessarily with dealing with it afterwards.
Ultimately, you have to think about how you really feel about abortion, and if it's something you could deal with for the rest of your life. If you think you would look back to this time and regret it, as difficult as the pregnancy and having another small child would be, that could very well be much worse.
How did you feel about it before your husband insisted you get the abortion? Not that that would make much of a difference any way, but if you're in a moment right now where you have gotten used to that idea as the best solution, make sure the ultimate decision is YOUR decision (not left-over feelings that your husband wants the abortion).
It may help to ask your professors/head nurses or whoever makes decisions about your assignments until you finish nursing school if there are options to allow you to do your school work while you're pregnant (my little sister is a nurse, and she carried to term and still worked, but that was after she was through with nursing school, and she's an L%26amp;D nurse).
Basically, I think you should make SURE of facts, and if you have any doubts about it, think it through really thoroughly and make the most informed decision you can.
If you decide to go through with the abortion, but have some mixed feelings about it, I would also suggest counseling (I'm a big fan of counseling).
Good luck to you either way. :-)A Real Problem....advice wanted?
How could a nurse who is already a mother even consider abortion as a solution to any problem?
You are a responsible adult. You know how to make this work. Pull it together girl! Stop looking at all of the negatives and find a way to do the right thing!
a child is a gift from god AND U SHOULD LET IT LIVE BECAUSE U NEVER NO WHAT THAT CHILD COULD DO FOR THE WORLD.
I was a 19 year old college student when I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter. I chose to have her and despite the financial difficulties, I am so glad I made that decision. Some things are meant to be. Look into your heart. Only you know if you really want to have this baby. In my opinion no child should be born if it is truly unwanted, but the decision shouldn't be made solely on finances.
simple. take a semester off. if your husband doesn't support you then leave his ****. nothing hotter than a lady in uniform. unless you're huge.
I'm pro-life, but that's me. Just make sure that your decision isn't based just on the next year of your lives. It might be difficult and costly, but easy doesn't enter into adult life. If you and your husband are otherwise prepared, have this baby - it'll be all the sweeter for how much you both sacrificed to make it happen. You'll be a family, not just a couple. Also, there is a risk, as I'm sure you know, that abortions can effect you future chances of conception. Be sure you don't have any issues in your family or in your own history. A small risk, but it would be horrible for you. If you are spiritual, pray to your God (Goddess?) and talk, talk, talk, to your hubby. Good Luck and I'll pray for you to find your way. (Whatever that is.)
U SHOULD NOT ABORT ITS NOT RIGHT
THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE MAJOR SACRIFICES U HAVE TO MAKE
U ARE PREGNANT SAVE THE MONEY FOR A NEW UNIFORM THIS IS A JOB U ARE REFERRING TO WHICH U CAN GO RIGHT BACK INTO WHEN U FINISH I MEAN YOUR HEALTH IN THIS CHILD IS MORE IMPORTANT SO HAVE TE BABY MAKE NEW PLANS AND PRORITIZE WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND LIVE ON.
DONT ROB AN INNOCENT CHILD OF ITS LIFE. I MEAN C'MON
Do research from both sides before you make your choice. While you might have problems from carrying the baby to term, there's also evidence that says women who have abortions can suffer from depression, regret and some medical complications, which are all things you want to weight in.
Also, you can probably get financial support to help you with the baby. Many churches (mine, for instance) offers financial support to people that need it, and I can't imagine there'd be many churches who would be heartless enough to decry abortion but then not put forth a little money if it was necessary to prevent one.
Also think that if you have the baby, you can always put it up for adoption. There's a long waiting list for adopted babies, and yours will have a good chance of finding a loving home.
And whatever decision you make, don't make it hastily. Think through all of the ramifications before you commit to it, or you'll regret it. If you decide to carry the baby to term, but you didn't realize the sacrifice it would entail, you'll suffer, and if you abort the baby but you didn't realize the guilt you'd have, you'll suffer. Make a wise choice.
I am sure since you already said you dont think you could do it that you wouldnt be able to. I know I wouldnt be able to live with myself after the fact and it sounds like you wouldnt either. this is a good area to be in when having to support children so dont give up on school, just take it day by day graduation is so close to babys birthday so its not like you are going to have to miss a ton of school after the baby is born so thats perfect 11days I am sure you can struggle through it. how about buying your uniform at wal-mart or even a thrift store, just while you are pregnant??? anyways Its a tough discision and I wish you the best of luck just remeber this is a decision you are going to have to live with for the rest of your life either way. not many decisions in life are this serious. good luck
You will live to regret an abortion, trust me, I have. I went thru the situation as you, and have lived to regret it. Please go to your supervisor and let him/her know how you truily feel, and that you don't want to jepordize your education. They are people too, and I know that there have been women in your situation before, and they will help you out. All is not lost., now if you see that you want to carry the baby but give it up for an adoption, there are good parents out there.I understand your situation, its your body/your life and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will find the right answer, but 1st go to your administrator/instructor. ok?
I think it takes a stronger woman to save a life than it does to make one. Put your child up for adoption. You obviously won't be a good mother to this child.
well, you should try to do your best to finish college, so that you can get a better paid job and support your children....
i would not suggest an abortion (and honestly i dont think anyone will) but i definitelly suggest you to do everything to finish college, even if you have to finish a few months later, but do your best to finish it.
You're right. You don't need any propoganda, either way. Believe it or not, there are lots of people who believe that contraception, PREVENTING the birth by preventing conception, is wrong. So it has to be a personal decision.
Millions of American women chose to get an abortion. It IS an important decision, but these women chose not to have an unwanted child. You can chose this, too. Or not. But in the end it is YOUR decision, not anyone else's. If you feel comfortable with it, and if you feel you can do it without regrets, then this is my advice: go ahead and get the procedure as soon as possible. But you need to accept your choice and move on. You can have children later and have a happy life with your family.
I wish you the best. Create a happy life for yourself!
dont abort the baby, just adjust to what you are going to have to do when you are pregnant. a child is a gift from god
my best friend is in the same place you are..she keep her baby...she got married in jan. had her baby in july and is graduating in Dec from nursing school. she did all that in the same year. and so can you ..like you said you already have two children so you have the routine down. it will be worth it once you look into those little eyes.
If you can do it with two... you can do it with 3.... I know I can and do. I was scared at first. But it has worked and well.
An abortion clinic denied giving me one on the basis that she didn't feel I really wanted it. My ex and I were there together, she said it in front of us. It was the truth, and I am glad she wouldn't perform the abortion.
Good LUck
Sorry I'm not someone in the same position but I'm also not an anti-abortion person so here's my advice: do what you feel in your heart because it's a HUGE decision whether to just get rid of the baby or keep it and have to spend a ton of money I do think that if money really is a problem to buy all the new things then maybe you have to have an abortion but if money is not to big of a problem then i think you should keep it. Sorry if that didn't help but that's all I can say.
First, I gotta say that I'm pro-life, but I will try VERY hard to look at your situation objectively and not be rude, okay?
I'm sure you're not suggesting someone on here who neither knows you nor your situation say ';yes, you should absolutely abort'; or ';no, you really shouldn't';. I wish it were that easy.
Unfortunately, this is one of those situation where NO ONE, not even your own husband, can tell you what would be best for you. That said, I think it may help you to talk to someone older whom you respect, but who will not be judgemental one way or the other. The older I've gotten (and the more scrapes I've gotten myself into), the more I respect the opinion of women who have experienced more than I have, and have worked through their own problems.
Typically, I would advocate for adoption, but at least a few of your reasons for being worried about having this baby has to do with carrying the baby to term, not necessarily with dealing with it afterwards.
Ultimately, you have to think about how you really feel about abortion, and if it's something you could deal with for the rest of your life. If you think you would look back to this time and regret it, as difficult as the pregnancy and having another small child would be, that could very well be much worse.
How did you feel about it before your husband insisted you get the abortion? Not that that would make much of a difference any way, but if you're in a moment right now where you have gotten used to that idea as the best solution, make sure the ultimate decision is YOUR decision (not left-over feelings that your husband wants the abortion).
It may help to ask your professors/head nurses or whoever makes decisions about your assignments until you finish nursing school if there are options to allow you to do your school work while you're pregnant (my little sister is a nurse, and she carried to term and still worked, but that was after she was through with nursing school, and she's an L%26amp;D nurse).
Basically, I think you should make SURE of facts, and if you have any doubts about it, think it through really thoroughly and make the most informed decision you can.
If you decide to go through with the abortion, but have some mixed feelings about it, I would also suggest counseling (I'm a big fan of counseling).
Good luck to you either way. :-)A Real Problem....advice wanted?
How could a nurse who is already a mother even consider abortion as a solution to any problem?
You are a responsible adult. You know how to make this work. Pull it together girl! Stop looking at all of the negatives and find a way to do the right thing!
a child is a gift from god AND U SHOULD LET IT LIVE BECAUSE U NEVER NO WHAT THAT CHILD COULD DO FOR THE WORLD.
I was a 19 year old college student when I found out I was pregnant with my oldest daughter. I chose to have her and despite the financial difficulties, I am so glad I made that decision. Some things are meant to be. Look into your heart. Only you know if you really want to have this baby. In my opinion no child should be born if it is truly unwanted, but the decision shouldn't be made solely on finances.
simple. take a semester off. if your husband doesn't support you then leave his ****. nothing hotter than a lady in uniform. unless you're huge.
I'm pro-life, but that's me. Just make sure that your decision isn't based just on the next year of your lives. It might be difficult and costly, but easy doesn't enter into adult life. If you and your husband are otherwise prepared, have this baby - it'll be all the sweeter for how much you both sacrificed to make it happen. You'll be a family, not just a couple. Also, there is a risk, as I'm sure you know, that abortions can effect you future chances of conception. Be sure you don't have any issues in your family or in your own history. A small risk, but it would be horrible for you. If you are spiritual, pray to your God (Goddess?) and talk, talk, talk, to your hubby. Good Luck and I'll pray for you to find your way. (Whatever that is.)
U SHOULD NOT ABORT ITS NOT RIGHT
THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE MAJOR SACRIFICES U HAVE TO MAKE
U ARE PREGNANT SAVE THE MONEY FOR A NEW UNIFORM THIS IS A JOB U ARE REFERRING TO WHICH U CAN GO RIGHT BACK INTO WHEN U FINISH I MEAN YOUR HEALTH IN THIS CHILD IS MORE IMPORTANT SO HAVE TE BABY MAKE NEW PLANS AND PRORITIZE WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND LIVE ON.
DONT ROB AN INNOCENT CHILD OF ITS LIFE. I MEAN C'MON
Do research from both sides before you make your choice. While you might have problems from carrying the baby to term, there's also evidence that says women who have abortions can suffer from depression, regret and some medical complications, which are all things you want to weight in.
Also, you can probably get financial support to help you with the baby. Many churches (mine, for instance) offers financial support to people that need it, and I can't imagine there'd be many churches who would be heartless enough to decry abortion but then not put forth a little money if it was necessary to prevent one.
Also think that if you have the baby, you can always put it up for adoption. There's a long waiting list for adopted babies, and yours will have a good chance of finding a loving home.
And whatever decision you make, don't make it hastily. Think through all of the ramifications before you commit to it, or you'll regret it. If you decide to carry the baby to term, but you didn't realize the sacrifice it would entail, you'll suffer, and if you abort the baby but you didn't realize the guilt you'd have, you'll suffer. Make a wise choice.
I am sure since you already said you dont think you could do it that you wouldnt be able to. I know I wouldnt be able to live with myself after the fact and it sounds like you wouldnt either. this is a good area to be in when having to support children so dont give up on school, just take it day by day graduation is so close to babys birthday so its not like you are going to have to miss a ton of school after the baby is born so thats perfect 11days I am sure you can struggle through it. how about buying your uniform at wal-mart or even a thrift store, just while you are pregnant??? anyways Its a tough discision and I wish you the best of luck just remeber this is a decision you are going to have to live with for the rest of your life either way. not many decisions in life are this serious. good luck
You will live to regret an abortion, trust me, I have. I went thru the situation as you, and have lived to regret it. Please go to your supervisor and let him/her know how you truily feel, and that you don't want to jepordize your education. They are people too, and I know that there have been women in your situation before, and they will help you out. All is not lost., now if you see that you want to carry the baby but give it up for an adoption, there are good parents out there.I understand your situation, its your body/your life and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will find the right answer, but 1st go to your administrator/instructor. ok?
I think it takes a stronger woman to save a life than it does to make one. Put your child up for adoption. You obviously won't be a good mother to this child.
well, you should try to do your best to finish college, so that you can get a better paid job and support your children....
i would not suggest an abortion (and honestly i dont think anyone will) but i definitelly suggest you to do everything to finish college, even if you have to finish a few months later, but do your best to finish it.
You're right. You don't need any propoganda, either way. Believe it or not, there are lots of people who believe that contraception, PREVENTING the birth by preventing conception, is wrong. So it has to be a personal decision.
Millions of American women chose to get an abortion. It IS an important decision, but these women chose not to have an unwanted child. You can chose this, too. Or not. But in the end it is YOUR decision, not anyone else's. If you feel comfortable with it, and if you feel you can do it without regrets, then this is my advice: go ahead and get the procedure as soon as possible. But you need to accept your choice and move on. You can have children later and have a happy life with your family.
I wish you the best. Create a happy life for yourself!
dont abort the baby, just adjust to what you are going to have to do when you are pregnant. a child is a gift from god
my best friend is in the same place you are..she keep her baby...she got married in jan. had her baby in july and is graduating in Dec from nursing school. she did all that in the same year. and so can you ..like you said you already have two children so you have the routine down. it will be worth it once you look into those little eyes.
If you can do it with two... you can do it with 3.... I know I can and do. I was scared at first. But it has worked and well.
An abortion clinic denied giving me one on the basis that she didn't feel I really wanted it. My ex and I were there together, she said it in front of us. It was the truth, and I am glad she wouldn't perform the abortion.
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Sorry I'm not someone in the same position but I'm also not an anti-abortion person so here's my advice: do what you feel in your heart because it's a HUGE decision whether to just get rid of the baby or keep it and have to spend a ton of money I do think that if money really is a problem to buy all the new things then maybe you have to have an abortion but if money is not to big of a problem then i think you should keep it. Sorry if that didn't help but that's all I can say.
And good problem advice helps out there need answers?
if someone fanceys you is it a good sign if they give you there email adddress and let you know where they will be at a day and time
cause this guy gave me his email but not his number i think he might be worried that my abusive partner might find it
and he said that he only be able to read the emails when he gets hold of something with the internet cause he gone away for two weeks and he also said email him when ive lefted my boyfriend .i gave him my moblie number but do u think he might think if he texts me my boyfriend might read it .theres nothing between me and my abusive partner no more iam just stuck for two weeks
i know wot people will say get out fast and i going to in 2 weeks just please answer the question about that guy thanksAnd good problem advice helps out there need answers?
If your boyfriend is abusive, you should terminate your relationship as soon as possible. Such relationship is never going to do any good to you and will cause more problems as the time passes.
As for the new guy, I believe you think too much. Give your brain some break. If the guys really likes you then he will call you no matter what. If he doesn't have the guts then he is not the person to be with.
I hope this answer helps you. Really you need to be more careful about the guys you date or go out with.And good problem advice helps out there need answers?
i agree with vicki be careful because it sound as if he's hiding something from you.just continue to e-mail him but don't do anything else till he come forward and can be honest with you. good luck :)
I khink that person is making fool of you.....
I think you should be careful...... Just email for him? That sounds like he is hiding something.
Sounds to me like he has something to hide. If he was leaving for 2 wks and really cared wouldnt he want you to have a number to call him. But I seriously think you should end one relationship before starting another. Or maybe that is what he is waiting on. Be careful....
could be he has something to hide I'd wonder
no sounds like he has someone on the side as well as u do, so maybe u should get out, get ur life together, get settled, then find someone else why u got to jump from one to anotha..the otha one dient give u his numba cause he dient want to get caught with u callin him when he is with his otha girl duh
I would lay low and be very discreet with this guy. You never know what he is not telling you until he does. Or, if you think about it, you might be able to get the answers you want just by asking him, straight up.
As for the abusive guy, I hope you do get away from him and never, never look back. If you do, you are only asking for more drama in your life and the possibility that he may injure you for life.
Go Now! Stay at a shelter or with a friend. Your life is worth it!
God be with you,
Eagleman
Question for you , if he is hiding now by not been straight up with you , what gaurantee do you have of what he is hiding and what he will be like in the future. do yourself a favor and heal from this relationship before you climb into another one. trust me when i tell you i know what im talking about
yea thats it
cause this guy gave me his email but not his number i think he might be worried that my abusive partner might find it
and he said that he only be able to read the emails when he gets hold of something with the internet cause he gone away for two weeks and he also said email him when ive lefted my boyfriend .i gave him my moblie number but do u think he might think if he texts me my boyfriend might read it .theres nothing between me and my abusive partner no more iam just stuck for two weeks
i know wot people will say get out fast and i going to in 2 weeks just please answer the question about that guy thanksAnd good problem advice helps out there need answers?
If your boyfriend is abusive, you should terminate your relationship as soon as possible. Such relationship is never going to do any good to you and will cause more problems as the time passes.
As for the new guy, I believe you think too much. Give your brain some break. If the guys really likes you then he will call you no matter what. If he doesn't have the guts then he is not the person to be with.
I hope this answer helps you. Really you need to be more careful about the guys you date or go out with.And good problem advice helps out there need answers?
i agree with vicki be careful because it sound as if he's hiding something from you.just continue to e-mail him but don't do anything else till he come forward and can be honest with you. good luck :)
I khink that person is making fool of you.....
I think you should be careful...... Just email for him? That sounds like he is hiding something.
Sounds to me like he has something to hide. If he was leaving for 2 wks and really cared wouldnt he want you to have a number to call him. But I seriously think you should end one relationship before starting another. Or maybe that is what he is waiting on. Be careful....
could be he has something to hide I'd wonder
no sounds like he has someone on the side as well as u do, so maybe u should get out, get ur life together, get settled, then find someone else why u got to jump from one to anotha..the otha one dient give u his numba cause he dient want to get caught with u callin him when he is with his otha girl duh
I would lay low and be very discreet with this guy. You never know what he is not telling you until he does. Or, if you think about it, you might be able to get the answers you want just by asking him, straight up.
As for the abusive guy, I hope you do get away from him and never, never look back. If you do, you are only asking for more drama in your life and the possibility that he may injure you for life.
Go Now! Stay at a shelter or with a friend. Your life is worth it!
God be with you,
Eagleman
Question for you , if he is hiding now by not been straight up with you , what gaurantee do you have of what he is hiding and what he will be like in the future. do yourself a favor and heal from this relationship before you climb into another one. trust me when i tell you i know what im talking about
yea thats it
Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
Our cat is pregnant and is supposed to have her kittens any day now. However, about 2 weeks ago, we noticed a scab had developed just below one of the nipples on the bare part of the belly. We dressed it and cleaned it, thinking that she have caused a slight injury to herself.
It has gotten progressively worse until this morning, the scab is falling off, but there is alot of pus. The scab itself is still attached only by what can only be described as a ';string of pus'; that actually looks like it goes INTO her belly. There are no Animal Hospitals around us open today (Sunday). Any ideas whats going on and what we can do for her for now?
Also, she does not seem to be in any pain, she is eating, drinking, and having normal bowel movements. No vomiting or other symptoms of illness. If it wasnt for the fact that it looks so bad, you couldnt even tell there was something wrong.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
Since she's eating well, and everything appears normal, otherwise, with her, it sounds like a strictly surface wound. Try draining the puss with a clean needle and paper towel. Then clean thoroughly with Hydrogen Peroxide. Do NOT cover it. allow it to air dry out. Put neosporine on topically, to detour the infection area and keep it from itching. It's OK if she licks, as her saliva contains natural antibodies.
I would have her vet checked when you can though. Hope this helps. Good luck with the new litter.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
i think your best bet is not to touch it. it will most likely heal on its own. if you are that concerned, then i heard from somewhere that if you get a damp warm towel and leave it there for perhaps a few minutes, it will soften up the scab and remove some of the pus. good luck
Well the present of pus indicated that there is an infection in her body as of now i would try and contact a veternarian. This infection could be endangering the health of her unborn kittens. I would also reccomend getteing her spayed. This would decrese the chance of her getting ovarian cancer and breast cancer. But as the years goes on that chance increases. But I would get the phone book out and start calling every vet listed to see if they have an emergency service. Most do.
ever watch animal hospital.lol. well what u have to do is get rid of all the pus some how and clean the cut with some sort of spirit to prevent infection. then aplly a plaster and keep changing the plaster every day.
If she's acting normal, clean and dress the wound again as far as you feel comfortable with it, and make sure you take her in first thing tomorrow. It seems like it's not bothering her, so it's probably OK. I'd check cat websites, too, and see if you can find the number for an emergency vet so you can call and ask.
The hospital may not be open but will have 24 hour emergency. Call them for advice and they will say whether you need to get her seen or not.
Problems always arise at weekends with pets as it costs more, but if you are really concerned then it would be best to get her seen.
Just make her comfortable, don't touch it too much, and bring her to the vet first thing tomorrow, I'm sure she'll have priority considering the fact that she's pregnant and due. Honestly the best thing to do is just get the advice from your vet, because you really don't want to end up doing something to hurt her or her babies in the long run. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
have you try to check in the yellow page and see if there are some house veterinarian clinic that does open on the late shefts with what times and weeks they do open and close in youre town . if you there are one in the phone book then you should call later today ot tommarrow set a appointment for youre cat to check see if the veterinary doctor can gave something to help youre pregnant cat or maybe can gave birth at the clinic either one is the best .
well if you cleaned it and dressed it it should be fine but mi not 100% sure, if you are REALLY worried then look at yellowpages.com and find a 24 hour vet clinic!
i hope this helps
p.s. i hope all of her kittens are healthy!
It has gotten progressively worse until this morning, the scab is falling off, but there is alot of pus. The scab itself is still attached only by what can only be described as a ';string of pus'; that actually looks like it goes INTO her belly. There are no Animal Hospitals around us open today (Sunday). Any ideas whats going on and what we can do for her for now?
Also, she does not seem to be in any pain, she is eating, drinking, and having normal bowel movements. No vomiting or other symptoms of illness. If it wasnt for the fact that it looks so bad, you couldnt even tell there was something wrong.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
Since she's eating well, and everything appears normal, otherwise, with her, it sounds like a strictly surface wound. Try draining the puss with a clean needle and paper towel. Then clean thoroughly with Hydrogen Peroxide. Do NOT cover it. allow it to air dry out. Put neosporine on topically, to detour the infection area and keep it from itching. It's OK if she licks, as her saliva contains natural antibodies.
I would have her vet checked when you can though. Hope this helps. Good luck with the new litter.Serious problem with my cat, please give advice?
i think your best bet is not to touch it. it will most likely heal on its own. if you are that concerned, then i heard from somewhere that if you get a damp warm towel and leave it there for perhaps a few minutes, it will soften up the scab and remove some of the pus. good luck
Well the present of pus indicated that there is an infection in her body as of now i would try and contact a veternarian. This infection could be endangering the health of her unborn kittens. I would also reccomend getteing her spayed. This would decrese the chance of her getting ovarian cancer and breast cancer. But as the years goes on that chance increases. But I would get the phone book out and start calling every vet listed to see if they have an emergency service. Most do.
ever watch animal hospital.lol. well what u have to do is get rid of all the pus some how and clean the cut with some sort of spirit to prevent infection. then aplly a plaster and keep changing the plaster every day.
If she's acting normal, clean and dress the wound again as far as you feel comfortable with it, and make sure you take her in first thing tomorrow. It seems like it's not bothering her, so it's probably OK. I'd check cat websites, too, and see if you can find the number for an emergency vet so you can call and ask.
The hospital may not be open but will have 24 hour emergency. Call them for advice and they will say whether you need to get her seen or not.
Problems always arise at weekends with pets as it costs more, but if you are really concerned then it would be best to get her seen.
Just make her comfortable, don't touch it too much, and bring her to the vet first thing tomorrow, I'm sure she'll have priority considering the fact that she's pregnant and due. Honestly the best thing to do is just get the advice from your vet, because you really don't want to end up doing something to hurt her or her babies in the long run. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
have you try to check in the yellow page and see if there are some house veterinarian clinic that does open on the late shefts with what times and weeks they do open and close in youre town . if you there are one in the phone book then you should call later today ot tommarrow set a appointment for youre cat to check see if the veterinary doctor can gave something to help youre pregnant cat or maybe can gave birth at the clinic either one is the best .
well if you cleaned it and dressed it it should be fine but mi not 100% sure, if you are REALLY worried then look at yellowpages.com and find a 24 hour vet clinic!
i hope this helps
p.s. i hope all of her kittens are healthy!
BOY PROBLEM advice needed?
I was recently insulted by an jerk in one of my classes. i decided to talk to my ';crush'; about it. and so basically he's always staring at me and we've only talked in real life twice, but i decided to talk to him. and this is what he said when i told him:
yea im going to talk to him about that and make sure he never says that to u ever again. He said one bullshit thing to me once so i wiped out my wetbag mexican jokes. dont worry I will handle it next time i see him. If he ever does it again tell him to come talk to me, and trust me he will then shut up.
and today he came up to me and started talking just out of the blue. ne never did that before, so why is he changing?
what's does this all mean? does it seem like he might like me? how can u tell?BOY PROBLEM advice needed?
it totally means he likes you I'm not sure if your conversation with him made him realize Ur gf material 4 him or that he liked your personality and wantz 2 b friends.well good luck i hope u 2 end up going out on of these daysBOY PROBLEM advice needed?
WHOA!! U need 2 slow down there. U made an effort 2 talk 2 him, so he's doing the same. U guys arent even officially friends yet so dont build ur hopes up about that. Just take things slow right now. But maybe he does like u but I dont think u can b 2 sure about that...................YET
You broke the ice by talking to him. Now he is talking to you. Keep up talking to him and see where this goes, but DO NOT read so much in to it yet. Time will tell how he feels soon enough. Maybe try asking him out to eat with you.
He feels more comfortable talking to you because you broke the ice. Don't read to much into it, this kind of thing happens with all friends. Somebody has to break the ice before you can really start talking to eachother, right?
This one is easy this guy is just picking on you cause he has a crush on you thats what guys do these days to show that they like a girl or the other way arorund he didnt mean to bullshit u or make u mad or something he just wanted to show u that he likes u in a weird kinda way
Not an expert but he maybe talking to you because he noticed that you told him out of the population of guys. He might be flattered. He could have feelings back. Your best bet is to keep talking to him and become friends. If he likes you he will make the next move. He seems like the type of guy to make the moves. I think that he may but I dont want to put that thought it your head. Most guys would not do things that nice for a girl they didnt have feelings for or were even friends with. Give it a shot. Keep him in your thoughts and keep talking. It could change. Any more quetions or advice needed. email me punkjunkiemail@yahoo.com I will be happy to help.makeup skin
yea im going to talk to him about that and make sure he never says that to u ever again. He said one bullshit thing to me once so i wiped out my wetbag mexican jokes. dont worry I will handle it next time i see him. If he ever does it again tell him to come talk to me, and trust me he will then shut up.
and today he came up to me and started talking just out of the blue. ne never did that before, so why is he changing?
what's does this all mean? does it seem like he might like me? how can u tell?BOY PROBLEM advice needed?
it totally means he likes you I'm not sure if your conversation with him made him realize Ur gf material 4 him or that he liked your personality and wantz 2 b friends.well good luck i hope u 2 end up going out on of these daysBOY PROBLEM advice needed?
WHOA!! U need 2 slow down there. U made an effort 2 talk 2 him, so he's doing the same. U guys arent even officially friends yet so dont build ur hopes up about that. Just take things slow right now. But maybe he does like u but I dont think u can b 2 sure about that...................YET
You broke the ice by talking to him. Now he is talking to you. Keep up talking to him and see where this goes, but DO NOT read so much in to it yet. Time will tell how he feels soon enough. Maybe try asking him out to eat with you.
He feels more comfortable talking to you because you broke the ice. Don't read to much into it, this kind of thing happens with all friends. Somebody has to break the ice before you can really start talking to eachother, right?
This one is easy this guy is just picking on you cause he has a crush on you thats what guys do these days to show that they like a girl or the other way arorund he didnt mean to bullshit u or make u mad or something he just wanted to show u that he likes u in a weird kinda way
Not an expert but he maybe talking to you because he noticed that you told him out of the population of guys. He might be flattered. He could have feelings back. Your best bet is to keep talking to him and become friends. If he likes you he will make the next move. He seems like the type of guy to make the moves. I think that he may but I dont want to put that thought it your head. Most guys would not do things that nice for a girl they didnt have feelings for or were even friends with. Give it a shot. Keep him in your thoughts and keep talking. It could change. Any more quetions or advice needed. email me punkjunkiemail@yahoo.com I will be happy to help.
Sexual Problem advice???
Why would I want to be sexual toward other guys and not my bf of 3 years????? I love him!
Has the fire died or something?
We started out very sexual... he still is... but it seems my desire has died!!! I dont know what to do and im very confused!! I want to be very happy in every way with him!Sexual Problem advice???
Begin by communicating with him. Together you should examine all the aspects of your relationship. It's ok to admit these types of things to him. It's better than having the relationship fail, because you were afraid to talk to him.
You said you want to be, but you did not say you actually had been sexual with other guys. Many people desire others, and never act on it. The entire nature of the porn industry is based on that. I don't recommend that you ever act on those urges, but fantasy can be healthy.
I can't stress enough the importance of communication both in a relationship, and sex.
People have asked how to be a better lover or restore the spark in a love life, the answer is always communication. Communicate before hand to decide what each others fantasies are, communicate during to tell your parter how you want it, when you want it and how fast or slow you want it. Finally, communicate afterwards to discuss what you really enjoyed and what you'd like to change. It's ok to admit you don't like something. You can't fix it, if you never admit it.
Some women may be afraid they'll be seen as being too bossy if they constantly say what they like and don't like during sex. If you've been with a guy for 3 years, then you should have built up a comfort level with him. He just wants to please you. He wants to know what's real and what's not. He wants love making to get better every time, so he shouldn't have a problem taking a few suggestions.
Only do what you are comfortable with. With an open mind, you can try almost anything, legal that is, lol. :-) Don't try anything you aren't both comfortable with though. The sky is the limit when it comes to trying new things.
If you are sexually attracted to these other guys, ask yourself why. What about them turns you on? Can you replicate some of that with your boyfriend? Some couples even enjoy role-play. If he's comfortable with this, it may be a good outlet for your fantasies. Just be creative and communicate.
Best of luck. :-)Sexual Problem advice???
Why don't you try some different things with ur boyfriend make it wild and sexy. Different places different ways role play be creative whatever turns u on. Talk to him as well and see what he desires. Yes that is normal it tends to die down but there are ways of getting it back
you need to do new things... buy a sex book or maybe some porn... anything to spice it up
your bored with him and want something new. you dont want routine sex. spice it up.
you just got a lil bored of doing probably the same things all the time talk to him about it well.. don't tell him you don't want him just tell him you guys need
try new things,spice it up, do stuff special for one another maybe you are just curious as to what else is out there?
you are just tired of the same old thing you want something new something you've never done before so my advice is to try to spice things up in the bedroom try different things to bring that spark back. Try something kinky like handcuffs of blindfolding thats always fun.
blah blah blah get a vibrator
I have the same problem as you girl.. it feels like u cant wait for it to be over but you just do it anyway and it doesn't even feel good anymore... :'(
Has the fire died or something?
We started out very sexual... he still is... but it seems my desire has died!!! I dont know what to do and im very confused!! I want to be very happy in every way with him!Sexual Problem advice???
Begin by communicating with him. Together you should examine all the aspects of your relationship. It's ok to admit these types of things to him. It's better than having the relationship fail, because you were afraid to talk to him.
You said you want to be, but you did not say you actually had been sexual with other guys. Many people desire others, and never act on it. The entire nature of the porn industry is based on that. I don't recommend that you ever act on those urges, but fantasy can be healthy.
I can't stress enough the importance of communication both in a relationship, and sex.
People have asked how to be a better lover or restore the spark in a love life, the answer is always communication. Communicate before hand to decide what each others fantasies are, communicate during to tell your parter how you want it, when you want it and how fast or slow you want it. Finally, communicate afterwards to discuss what you really enjoyed and what you'd like to change. It's ok to admit you don't like something. You can't fix it, if you never admit it.
Some women may be afraid they'll be seen as being too bossy if they constantly say what they like and don't like during sex. If you've been with a guy for 3 years, then you should have built up a comfort level with him. He just wants to please you. He wants to know what's real and what's not. He wants love making to get better every time, so he shouldn't have a problem taking a few suggestions.
Only do what you are comfortable with. With an open mind, you can try almost anything, legal that is, lol. :-) Don't try anything you aren't both comfortable with though. The sky is the limit when it comes to trying new things.
If you are sexually attracted to these other guys, ask yourself why. What about them turns you on? Can you replicate some of that with your boyfriend? Some couples even enjoy role-play. If he's comfortable with this, it may be a good outlet for your fantasies. Just be creative and communicate.
Best of luck. :-)Sexual Problem advice???
Why don't you try some different things with ur boyfriend make it wild and sexy. Different places different ways role play be creative whatever turns u on. Talk to him as well and see what he desires. Yes that is normal it tends to die down but there are ways of getting it back
you need to do new things... buy a sex book or maybe some porn... anything to spice it up
your bored with him and want something new. you dont want routine sex. spice it up.
you just got a lil bored of doing probably the same things all the time talk to him about it well.. don't tell him you don't want him just tell him you guys need
try new things,spice it up, do stuff special for one another maybe you are just curious as to what else is out there?
you are just tired of the same old thing you want something new something you've never done before so my advice is to try to spice things up in the bedroom try different things to bring that spark back. Try something kinky like handcuffs of blindfolding thats always fun.
blah blah blah get a vibrator
I have the same problem as you girl.. it feels like u cant wait for it to be over but you just do it anyway and it doesn't even feel good anymore... :'(
Embarrassing problem advice plz???
well wat would you guys do if ul were getting a body massage from a male masseur with u in your underwear and u got an erection would you b embarrassed how would You react to the situationEmbarrassing problem advice plz???
its happened to me before and i actually asked the masseur and then he said that were are places on the body that cause erections and if you touch another part of the body it goes away. Its normal and he said to not worry about it, he sees naked bodies all the time
its happened to me before and i actually asked the masseur and then he said that were are places on the body that cause erections and if you touch another part of the body it goes away. Its normal and he said to not worry about it, he sees naked bodies all the time
Acne problem advice?
-acne on my back
-trying to get rid of them
-advice please?Acne problem advice?
Most acne products only treat the symptoms and not the source. They even make your skin dry, sensitive. Prolonged use can even lead to premature aging and other health issues.
The main causes of acne is toxins build up in the body and clogged pores caused by excessive oil and deadskin cells. These provide a fertile ground for acne to spread and thrive.
The most effective acne products fight acne from inside the body as well as outside on the skin. They should also contains natural ingredients since they're more safer to use and has less side effects.
There are also things you can do at home to get rid of acne. Take actions to detoxify your body and take care of your skin and soon, you will permanently end your acne and have clear, radiant, beautiful skin!
For the next couple of weeks, stick to the regimen below:
-Drink a glass of warm water with lemon and honey in the morning and evening
-Drink lots of water throughout the day to flush out the toxins
-Drink at least 3 cups of green tea a day - green tea contains antibacterial properties to kill the acne bacteria
-Try to do some cardio exercise so you can sweat out all the toxins.
-Do meditation and deep breathing for 15 minutes a day as these exercises help to relieve stress and eliminate toxins.
-Eat as many apples as you can. Apples contains lots of fibers that help to flush out toxins from you colon. You should buy organic apples at Wholefood. Dont buy apples at local supermarket. Supermarket apples contain pesticides that can toxify your body
-Eat oatmeal for breakfast. Oatmeal contains lots of fibers!
-Eat 2 cups of yogurt a day - yogurt boost ur immune system and contain microbiotic organisms that help your digestive system and control the acid/yeast
-Eat lots of green veggies (organic if possible)
-Stay away from coffee, sugar, carbohydrates, fatty and fried food
-Eat salmon and cantaloupe as much as possible
-Wash your face in morning and evening with gentle cleanser, use natural toner, and follow up with oil-free moisturizer
Check out http://www.amazingacnecure.com for more information.Acne problem advice?
People suffering from mild or moderate body acne, I heartily recommend the Clear Pores System. Hard to treat cases are better left to a dermatologist鈥檚 skills, although ClearPores is certainly up to the task.
The best way to treat acne is to cleanse the skin with a solution containing Salicylic Acid and SD Alcohol 40. The ClearPores body and face washes contain these two excellent ingredients, which are accompanied by the well-known Aloe Vera (to soothe the skin and help the healing process), Dandelion Root and Yellow Dock.
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Also...keep your body skin clean every day and be careful not to trigger acne or rashes by wearing very tight clothing or heavy backpacks. If you feel your clothing, backpack or purse is causing you skin problems, then start thinking about alternatives.
-trying to get rid of them
-advice please?Acne problem advice?
Most acne products only treat the symptoms and not the source. They even make your skin dry, sensitive. Prolonged use can even lead to premature aging and other health issues.
The main causes of acne is toxins build up in the body and clogged pores caused by excessive oil and deadskin cells. These provide a fertile ground for acne to spread and thrive.
The most effective acne products fight acne from inside the body as well as outside on the skin. They should also contains natural ingredients since they're more safer to use and has less side effects.
There are also things you can do at home to get rid of acne. Take actions to detoxify your body and take care of your skin and soon, you will permanently end your acne and have clear, radiant, beautiful skin!
For the next couple of weeks, stick to the regimen below:
-Drink a glass of warm water with lemon and honey in the morning and evening
-Drink lots of water throughout the day to flush out the toxins
-Drink at least 3 cups of green tea a day - green tea contains antibacterial properties to kill the acne bacteria
-Try to do some cardio exercise so you can sweat out all the toxins.
-Do meditation and deep breathing for 15 minutes a day as these exercises help to relieve stress and eliminate toxins.
-Eat as many apples as you can. Apples contains lots of fibers that help to flush out toxins from you colon. You should buy organic apples at Wholefood. Dont buy apples at local supermarket. Supermarket apples contain pesticides that can toxify your body
-Eat oatmeal for breakfast. Oatmeal contains lots of fibers!
-Eat 2 cups of yogurt a day - yogurt boost ur immune system and contain microbiotic organisms that help your digestive system and control the acid/yeast
-Eat lots of green veggies (organic if possible)
-Stay away from coffee, sugar, carbohydrates, fatty and fried food
-Eat salmon and cantaloupe as much as possible
-Wash your face in morning and evening with gentle cleanser, use natural toner, and follow up with oil-free moisturizer
Check out http://www.amazingacnecure.com for more information.Acne problem advice?
People suffering from mild or moderate body acne, I heartily recommend the Clear Pores System. Hard to treat cases are better left to a dermatologist鈥檚 skills, although ClearPores is certainly up to the task.
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Also...keep your body skin clean every day and be careful not to trigger acne or rashes by wearing very tight clothing or heavy backpacks. If you feel your clothing, backpack or purse is causing you skin problems, then start thinking about alternatives.
Rat died house,must i get rid of everything now,and have large garden?
hi everyone,i have been away for a year,and when i came back i found a dead rat in the house,can there be a disease in the house now?i also had one room full of storage and clothes thats where it was,must i throw away all my clothes now?i have very good pageant dresses i dont know what to do im soo upset,i have a large garden that hasnt been maintained in over a year,do you have to cut it regularly to prevent this from happening again,i dint know if there could me more or not,i dint know how this happened,i think my brother had left food from a party here while i was away,could i catch rabies or wiles disease,please advise im so upset and embarrassed this has happened,thank youRat died house,must i get rid of everything now,and have large garden?
Firstly you must dispose of this dead rodent, in a sealed plastic bag. You provided every comfort and protection for this vermin. Cover in the garden in the form of the high grass. Obvious access to the house. Food and warmth from the storage. It probably died of thirst. There may be more uninvited guests still in the house, check this out. Wash everything in the house that this creature may have urinated on. Then dis-infect the whole area with an undiluted disinfected spray. Finally find out how this vermin accessed the house and shut it offRat died house,must i get rid of everything now,and have large garden?
First--calm down. You've posted multiple questions on this forum in the past four hours!
You're more likely to contract disease from a live rat than a dead one. So in that sense, the dead rat is good news.
If you haven't already, dispose of the thing. Use gloves.
Regular laundry detergent should take care of any pathogens on the clothes. Dry cleaning likewise. Once you clean your clothes, you shouldn't have any worries about them.
Check for rodent droppings around the house, especially behind furniture and appliances. Be sure to open all the drawers and cupboards in the kitchen. Steam-clean carpets--call Wal-Mart, Home Depot and Lowe's to see if they rent steam cleaners. Mop hard floors with any good cleaner, and use antibacterial cleaner to sponge counters and drawers.
It sounds like you really don't like rodents, so rather than buying poison etc. you might call an exterminator instead and ask for a *free* estimate to eliminate any critters still lurking around. Call two or three and go with the company you feel comfortable with. Good luck!
Firstly you must dispose of this dead rodent, in a sealed plastic bag. You provided every comfort and protection for this vermin. Cover in the garden in the form of the high grass. Obvious access to the house. Food and warmth from the storage. It probably died of thirst. There may be more uninvited guests still in the house, check this out. Wash everything in the house that this creature may have urinated on. Then dis-infect the whole area with an undiluted disinfected spray. Finally find out how this vermin accessed the house and shut it offRat died house,must i get rid of everything now,and have large garden?
First--calm down. You've posted multiple questions on this forum in the past four hours!
You're more likely to contract disease from a live rat than a dead one. So in that sense, the dead rat is good news.
If you haven't already, dispose of the thing. Use gloves.
Regular laundry detergent should take care of any pathogens on the clothes. Dry cleaning likewise. Once you clean your clothes, you shouldn't have any worries about them.
Check for rodent droppings around the house, especially behind furniture and appliances. Be sure to open all the drawers and cupboards in the kitchen. Steam-clean carpets--call Wal-Mart, Home Depot and Lowe's to see if they rent steam cleaners. Mop hard floors with any good cleaner, and use antibacterial cleaner to sponge counters and drawers.
It sounds like you really don't like rodents, so rather than buying poison etc. you might call an exterminator instead and ask for a *free* estimate to eliminate any critters still lurking around. Call two or three and go with the company you feel comfortable with. Good luck!
Rat problem advice please thanks?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnaX1Poi.MGE.KrgRQcoQkTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090901042118AArqLiDRat problem advice please thanks?
If you were away for a year you didnt have anyone house sit? it must be pretty dusty.
Rats are usually pretty clean, but if it rotted there it could foul up the place. You dont need to worry about your clothes, just run them through a normal wash.. wipe everything else down with disinfectant while your dusting a years worth of dust away!Rat problem advice please thanks?
Your original post under home and garden is really the place to get the post appropriate answers to your question. Cross-posting it to a pet section is only going to get you inappropriate answers by trolls and upset people that keep rats as pets.
I'm asking you to please delete the question under the pet section.
Thank you and good luck with finding the answer to your problem.
You are not going to contract a disease. Most rats don't even carry diseases. It's not like the time of the plague anymore. What you need to do is put on rubber gloves and dispose of the rat. Then just clean the room that the rat died in with some good scrubbing solutions. That's all you need to do. Promise
If you were away for a year you didnt have anyone house sit? it must be pretty dusty.
Rats are usually pretty clean, but if it rotted there it could foul up the place. You dont need to worry about your clothes, just run them through a normal wash.. wipe everything else down with disinfectant while your dusting a years worth of dust away!Rat problem advice please thanks?
Your original post under home and garden is really the place to get the post appropriate answers to your question. Cross-posting it to a pet section is only going to get you inappropriate answers by trolls and upset people that keep rats as pets.
I'm asking you to please delete the question under the pet section.
Thank you and good luck with finding the answer to your problem.
You are not going to contract a disease. Most rats don't even carry diseases. It's not like the time of the plague anymore. What you need to do is put on rubber gloves and dispose of the rat. Then just clean the room that the rat died in with some good scrubbing solutions. That's all you need to do. Promise
Leg Problem....Advice needed please.?
Im a 34 year old female. I've been having pain, stiffness, %26amp; swelling in my right hip, knee, and ankle for about a week.
The leg feels heavy in the calf when I walk on it. I have varicose %26amp; spider veins in the leg and a history of severe trauma and DVT, in the same leg. Worried about possible recurrent DVT, I went to the local ER, last night. Doc there did several xrays. No broken bones. He said it didn't appear to be a clot because several of the usual ';Homeing signs'; of a dvt are not there. He sent me home with a prescription for pain killers and anitiinflamatory medicine and told me to apply ice, then heat.
Ice makes it hurt more. Heat helps the pain a lot.
Should I still be worried ? I don't have any medical insurance
and can't pay any of the local doctors money up front, so my only medical option is the local emergency room, right now.Leg Problem....Advice needed please.?
You should see a doctor. If your leg was injured in the past and cold makes it hurt worse it could be Arthritis in your hip. That's what mine does especially when the weather changes. I agree heat helps not cold. Tylenol should help and believe it or not walking.Leg Problem....Advice needed please.?
this almost sounds like you are not getting any circulation running through your leg...vitamin B complex, this is used for improving circulation and cllular function...DMG (dimethylglycine) improves tissue oxygenation...You can go to a local Health Food store and usually they have books there that you can read..they are very helpfull...Good luck on finding something for your problem..Oh you can also use Bromelain this is used for anti-inflammatory and pain...
You need to walk. A lot. Go slow and be gentle, but do it. Today. And tomorrow, and the next day. Keep it up. Best of luck.
I'm not medical. Are you taking any medications that would cause this? If not sure, call your pharmacist. Did the emergency room person tell you how long before you would get relief? Please be careful and if not any better go back to emergency room. take care.
Dear, Leg Problem,
My girlfriend had the same problem with her legs, minus the severe trauma. She went on a macrobiotic diet to heal her problem. I must say that your leg is trying to tell you something here and that it is possible that there is something more serious than just swelling. I can give you some general advice to help, but you will have to wait and see for a couple of days if it clears up, or if you need to do a follow up visit at the ER.
I would suggest you getting into a ';hip bath'; in your bathtub. Fill the tub with the hottest water that you can stand and put 2 - 3 cups of Sea Salt (not hard salt like Morton's or anything like that, it has to be Sea Salt) in the hot tub. Soak for about 20 minutes, if it starts to get cold, add some more hot water. This will increase the blood flow as well as draw out any poisons or toxins in the body. Unfortunately, pain killers will also slow down the healing process in your body. If you can avoid them, try not to take them. Take aspirin (if you can tolerate it), and get in the tub 3 - 4 times a day. The swelling needs to be reduced for the pain to go away, so I'm afraid that you will need some kind of cool compress to reduce it. You can take refrigerated tofu, mash it up (about 1/4 - 1/2 of a package) then place it in cheescloth and lay it on the swollen area. Make a couple of compresses so that you can return one to the refrigerator and replace it with another cold one. Tofu is less shocking to the system, doesn't hurt when applied and holds it's temperature longer than ice. It is much less dramatic and harsh.
I hope this helps and I wish you lots of luck with your leg. If it hasn't gotten better in a couple of days, or you don't notice a difference, I would contact the ER and go back. Diet usually has a great deal to do with the inability for the body to heal itself. Large amounts of fats, sugars, hard salt and meat and dairy products really take their toll on our bodies. I entered my source for this type of treatment below. Should you be interested, macrobiotics helped me lose weight, gain health and change a lot of things that I had been experiencing for some time. Good luck!makeup skin
The leg feels heavy in the calf when I walk on it. I have varicose %26amp; spider veins in the leg and a history of severe trauma and DVT, in the same leg. Worried about possible recurrent DVT, I went to the local ER, last night. Doc there did several xrays. No broken bones. He said it didn't appear to be a clot because several of the usual ';Homeing signs'; of a dvt are not there. He sent me home with a prescription for pain killers and anitiinflamatory medicine and told me to apply ice, then heat.
Ice makes it hurt more. Heat helps the pain a lot.
Should I still be worried ? I don't have any medical insurance
and can't pay any of the local doctors money up front, so my only medical option is the local emergency room, right now.Leg Problem....Advice needed please.?
You should see a doctor. If your leg was injured in the past and cold makes it hurt worse it could be Arthritis in your hip. That's what mine does especially when the weather changes. I agree heat helps not cold. Tylenol should help and believe it or not walking.Leg Problem....Advice needed please.?
this almost sounds like you are not getting any circulation running through your leg...vitamin B complex, this is used for improving circulation and cllular function...DMG (dimethylglycine) improves tissue oxygenation...You can go to a local Health Food store and usually they have books there that you can read..they are very helpfull...Good luck on finding something for your problem..Oh you can also use Bromelain this is used for anti-inflammatory and pain...
You need to walk. A lot. Go slow and be gentle, but do it. Today. And tomorrow, and the next day. Keep it up. Best of luck.
I'm not medical. Are you taking any medications that would cause this? If not sure, call your pharmacist. Did the emergency room person tell you how long before you would get relief? Please be careful and if not any better go back to emergency room. take care.
Dear, Leg Problem,
My girlfriend had the same problem with her legs, minus the severe trauma. She went on a macrobiotic diet to heal her problem. I must say that your leg is trying to tell you something here and that it is possible that there is something more serious than just swelling. I can give you some general advice to help, but you will have to wait and see for a couple of days if it clears up, or if you need to do a follow up visit at the ER.
I would suggest you getting into a ';hip bath'; in your bathtub. Fill the tub with the hottest water that you can stand and put 2 - 3 cups of Sea Salt (not hard salt like Morton's or anything like that, it has to be Sea Salt) in the hot tub. Soak for about 20 minutes, if it starts to get cold, add some more hot water. This will increase the blood flow as well as draw out any poisons or toxins in the body. Unfortunately, pain killers will also slow down the healing process in your body. If you can avoid them, try not to take them. Take aspirin (if you can tolerate it), and get in the tub 3 - 4 times a day. The swelling needs to be reduced for the pain to go away, so I'm afraid that you will need some kind of cool compress to reduce it. You can take refrigerated tofu, mash it up (about 1/4 - 1/2 of a package) then place it in cheescloth and lay it on the swollen area. Make a couple of compresses so that you can return one to the refrigerator and replace it with another cold one. Tofu is less shocking to the system, doesn't hurt when applied and holds it's temperature longer than ice. It is much less dramatic and harsh.
I hope this helps and I wish you lots of luck with your leg. If it hasn't gotten better in a couple of days, or you don't notice a difference, I would contact the ER and go back. Diet usually has a great deal to do with the inability for the body to heal itself. Large amounts of fats, sugars, hard salt and meat and dairy products really take their toll on our bodies. I entered my source for this type of treatment below. Should you be interested, macrobiotics helped me lose weight, gain health and change a lot of things that I had been experiencing for some time. Good luck!
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