I have had diareah now for 6 weeks and i have been to the doctor and they are currently doing tests. anyway the doctor has got me on tablets to control it until they find out the test results, but they aren't doing much good.
I was just wondering if anyone knows of anything i can do to stop the chafing on my bum when i go the loo, as the skin around that area is getting really quite painful and red.
Thanks.Hi everyone, embarrassing problem and need a bit of advice?
Buy a nappy rash cream - it will really help. Its what its designed for, and I often recommend it for this purpose.
Try bepanthen or drapolene - both are very good.
Wies are ok, but the creams are really soothing, much better than a wipe.
xxHi everyone, embarrassing problem and need a bit of advice?
You could try baby wipes not toilet paper, or some toilet paper with aloe vera in it.
Failing that you could get someone to apply some sort of skin healing cream to the affected area like E45, Sudocreme or something similar for rashes/minor skin irritations and nappy rash.
Balmex or Desitin--what they use for infants to avoid diaper rash. The cream puts a barrier on the sore skin.
Hope you feel better soon.
Avoid dairy--as it often makes diarrhea worse.
Try vaseline =]
cut down on the fibre and bran
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Problem, advice please?
I am a male in my early 30s. I have been having a problem keeping a erection while having sex with my girlfriend. I can get hard and stay hard until a couple minutes of after started having sex with her. It's really embarrasing. I love this woman, she is 7 months pregnant with my child. I just feel as if I am disappointing her, as I can't satisfy her. I can't lose her. What is wrong with me?Problem, advice please?
Go to a doctor to see if it's physical. If not it's probably only in your head (about 85% of erection difficulties are caused by anxiety.). Be more relaxed and stop worrying so much. Don't drive yourself crazy.Problem, advice please?
First. Take a big breath. Honey the bigger she gets the less she is going to wanna have sex anyway. It becomes tricky and uncomfortable. Trust me on this. I am the biggest take me now person but while preggers in the last stages it was more to make him happy than me. If she is complaining about this you can always use toys (be easy to start and work your way up make sure you do not hurt her) you can also do oral sex. My wonderful man uses every thing he can to make me happy. If I am outta service so to speak I do the same for him. Just relax have fun. Do every thing you can in every other way to show her you love her.
MAYBE ITS THE FACT THAT SHE IS 7 MONTHS PREGNANT.
MAYBE YOU DO GET REALLY AROUSED AND HOT FOR HER BUT WHEN IT COMES TO PENETRATION ALL YOU CAN THINK OF IS HURTING HER OR THE BABY,AND YOUR ERECTION GOES DOWN CAUSE YOUR THINKING THAT.
BUT IF THAT'S WHAT GOING ON, DON'T WORRY IT WONT HURT HER OR THE BABY.
AND IF I'M WRONG AND THAT'S IS NOT THE PROBLEM, THEN GO SEE A DR.
More often than not, problems like this are in your head.
Perhaps you worry too much about your ability to satisify her? If you have any anxiety about sex with her, it will effect your performance. The more open you are about your fears or concerns with her, the better off you will both be.
Talk about it with her and ask for her help and understanding and you will be off to a better sex life.
It could be physical or mental. You could go see a doctor. You may be thinking indirectly about hurting the baby somehow also.
Could be physical, could be psychological. Either way, I would start with your physician. Could even be stress related. Living with a woman who's 7-months pregnant can be stress-inducing.
besides maybe physical could be a mental thing she's pregnan t so you can get the job done and it's working fine you see the results maybe you feel akward because of the conditions shes in or maybe the baby inside
use Viagra
maybe your afraid you are going to hurt the baby? if so.. you can't hurt the baby.. relax.
Could be physical-see a DR. If not, the DR will tell you what to do next.
I'm not a doctor, but ill give this my best shot. from what i understand a lot of sexual problems are more tied to mental than to physical ailments. Take a session with a good psychologyist and be open and honest. A professional should be able to understand and help to remedy the problem as well as keep things confidential. Good luck bro, hang in there
Check your family history for diabetes, have your blood pressure checked and last but most important to remember
you may subconciously feel ashamed thinking that somehow
you are harming your unborn child.
u shouldn't be having sex, before marrige.
u better see a doctor before its too late
has this problem just started in the last 7 months? Maybe subconsciouly you are afraid to hurt the baby. You may not realize it but the subconscious affects everything more than a lot of people realize
Just try to relax
and if you need to go to dr they have meds and stuff for that
common problem see a doc....millions of men have this.
viarga dude.
If she is 7 months pregnant, you could be suffering from a psychological disorder where you fear harming the baby by intercourse. You could also just have anxiety about becoming a father that is showing up in this way.
It is virtually impossible to harm the fetus in the uterus. The fluid it floats in, the membranes which contain it, the womb itself, the abdominal wall and the bony pelvis all serve to protect the fetus from injury.
If you feel that you aren't satisfying her during intercourse, direct stimulation with your hand or orally will do the trick. Relax, and don't stress out about it, as stress is one of the leading causes of erectile disfunction.
If you are really concerned about it, or it continues after the baby is born, then see your doctor about it. There are some health factors that can also cause it.
There's nothing exactly wrong. It does not appear to be a physical problem. The only way to solve it is to get to the root of the problem. Go for therapy and find out why this is happening. It can be many things, fear of something else that get transferred symbolically to the sexual intercourse. Therapy is the best solution. Besides, since you will need sometime to figure that out, talk to her and explain the situation. If she really loves you she will help you to get through it.
This isn't a problem to be answered on Yahoo Answers. You really do need to see a Dr. There are many reasons why something like this could be happening to you %26amp; I'm not going to list them here - it would only get you wondering %26amp; worrying even more. It's more than likely going to be something that is treatable, so put your mind at ease on that score. If you're feeling embarassed, remember that thousands upon thousands of men seek help for such problems, it's just that you never hear of it coz they're always too embarassed to tell people (and there's nothing wrong with being embarassed, believe me). Drs are professional people who will treat you with courtesy %26amp; respect. Do what you need to do - go see a Dr!
If it is nothing physical, it may be mental-because she is pregnant alot of men have trouble 'keeping it up' during their partners pregnancy in subconsciously thinking they would be hurting the baby--if your doctor can not help you physically try just talking to him/her for emotional support--talking with girlfriend about things like this will help to. She will understand. Just don't be embarrassed, it does happen to alot of men-even if they don't admit it!! Good Luck!!
sometimes extreme anxiety or fear may have this effect. perhaps your stress level is high, or maybe u r afraid u may hurt the baby? something u need to explore within u. do it without thinking she is pregnant and see if the results change.good luck
she is pregnant
she is tied
give the woman a break
Men and their sex
omg
There is most likely nothing wrong with you. Sex during pregnancy can be difficult and tricky at times. The sensations aren't like they are when the woman isn't pregnant and that could be making this difficult.
Some men also have trouble maintaining an erection during intercourse with a pregnant woman for psychological reasons. Mainly they are turned off by having intercourse while their child is inside of the woman.
But the more troubling aspect of your question is that you sound as though she is close to leaving you if your sexual performance falters. I would think, especially at 7 months, she would be more focused on the needs of the baby and not her sexual fullfillment.
This is just a stab in the dark, but I think that you both might benefit from some serious discussions about the strength of your relationship and then wait until after the baby is born to resume your sexual activities. I would bet you will be back to normal once that happens.makeup skin
Go to a doctor to see if it's physical. If not it's probably only in your head (about 85% of erection difficulties are caused by anxiety.). Be more relaxed and stop worrying so much. Don't drive yourself crazy.Problem, advice please?
First. Take a big breath. Honey the bigger she gets the less she is going to wanna have sex anyway. It becomes tricky and uncomfortable. Trust me on this. I am the biggest take me now person but while preggers in the last stages it was more to make him happy than me. If she is complaining about this you can always use toys (be easy to start and work your way up make sure you do not hurt her) you can also do oral sex. My wonderful man uses every thing he can to make me happy. If I am outta service so to speak I do the same for him. Just relax have fun. Do every thing you can in every other way to show her you love her.
MAYBE ITS THE FACT THAT SHE IS 7 MONTHS PREGNANT.
MAYBE YOU DO GET REALLY AROUSED AND HOT FOR HER BUT WHEN IT COMES TO PENETRATION ALL YOU CAN THINK OF IS HURTING HER OR THE BABY,AND YOUR ERECTION GOES DOWN CAUSE YOUR THINKING THAT.
BUT IF THAT'S WHAT GOING ON, DON'T WORRY IT WONT HURT HER OR THE BABY.
AND IF I'M WRONG AND THAT'S IS NOT THE PROBLEM, THEN GO SEE A DR.
More often than not, problems like this are in your head.
Perhaps you worry too much about your ability to satisify her? If you have any anxiety about sex with her, it will effect your performance. The more open you are about your fears or concerns with her, the better off you will both be.
Talk about it with her and ask for her help and understanding and you will be off to a better sex life.
It could be physical or mental. You could go see a doctor. You may be thinking indirectly about hurting the baby somehow also.
Could be physical, could be psychological. Either way, I would start with your physician. Could even be stress related. Living with a woman who's 7-months pregnant can be stress-inducing.
besides maybe physical could be a mental thing she's pregnan t so you can get the job done and it's working fine you see the results maybe you feel akward because of the conditions shes in or maybe the baby inside
use Viagra
maybe your afraid you are going to hurt the baby? if so.. you can't hurt the baby.. relax.
Could be physical-see a DR. If not, the DR will tell you what to do next.
I'm not a doctor, but ill give this my best shot. from what i understand a lot of sexual problems are more tied to mental than to physical ailments. Take a session with a good psychologyist and be open and honest. A professional should be able to understand and help to remedy the problem as well as keep things confidential. Good luck bro, hang in there
Check your family history for diabetes, have your blood pressure checked and last but most important to remember
you may subconciously feel ashamed thinking that somehow
you are harming your unborn child.
u shouldn't be having sex, before marrige.
u better see a doctor before its too late
has this problem just started in the last 7 months? Maybe subconsciouly you are afraid to hurt the baby. You may not realize it but the subconscious affects everything more than a lot of people realize
Just try to relax
and if you need to go to dr they have meds and stuff for that
common problem see a doc....millions of men have this.
viarga dude.
If she is 7 months pregnant, you could be suffering from a psychological disorder where you fear harming the baby by intercourse. You could also just have anxiety about becoming a father that is showing up in this way.
It is virtually impossible to harm the fetus in the uterus. The fluid it floats in, the membranes which contain it, the womb itself, the abdominal wall and the bony pelvis all serve to protect the fetus from injury.
If you feel that you aren't satisfying her during intercourse, direct stimulation with your hand or orally will do the trick. Relax, and don't stress out about it, as stress is one of the leading causes of erectile disfunction.
If you are really concerned about it, or it continues after the baby is born, then see your doctor about it. There are some health factors that can also cause it.
There's nothing exactly wrong. It does not appear to be a physical problem. The only way to solve it is to get to the root of the problem. Go for therapy and find out why this is happening. It can be many things, fear of something else that get transferred symbolically to the sexual intercourse. Therapy is the best solution. Besides, since you will need sometime to figure that out, talk to her and explain the situation. If she really loves you she will help you to get through it.
This isn't a problem to be answered on Yahoo Answers. You really do need to see a Dr. There are many reasons why something like this could be happening to you %26amp; I'm not going to list them here - it would only get you wondering %26amp; worrying even more. It's more than likely going to be something that is treatable, so put your mind at ease on that score. If you're feeling embarassed, remember that thousands upon thousands of men seek help for such problems, it's just that you never hear of it coz they're always too embarassed to tell people (and there's nothing wrong with being embarassed, believe me). Drs are professional people who will treat you with courtesy %26amp; respect. Do what you need to do - go see a Dr!
If it is nothing physical, it may be mental-because she is pregnant alot of men have trouble 'keeping it up' during their partners pregnancy in subconsciously thinking they would be hurting the baby--if your doctor can not help you physically try just talking to him/her for emotional support--talking with girlfriend about things like this will help to. She will understand. Just don't be embarrassed, it does happen to alot of men-even if they don't admit it!! Good Luck!!
sometimes extreme anxiety or fear may have this effect. perhaps your stress level is high, or maybe u r afraid u may hurt the baby? something u need to explore within u. do it without thinking she is pregnant and see if the results change.good luck
she is pregnant
she is tied
give the woman a break
Men and their sex
omg
There is most likely nothing wrong with you. Sex during pregnancy can be difficult and tricky at times. The sensations aren't like they are when the woman isn't pregnant and that could be making this difficult.
Some men also have trouble maintaining an erection during intercourse with a pregnant woman for psychological reasons. Mainly they are turned off by having intercourse while their child is inside of the woman.
But the more troubling aspect of your question is that you sound as though she is close to leaving you if your sexual performance falters. I would think, especially at 7 months, she would be more focused on the needs of the baby and not her sexual fullfillment.
This is just a stab in the dark, but I think that you both might benefit from some serious discussions about the strength of your relationship and then wait until after the baby is born to resume your sexual activities. I would bet you will be back to normal once that happens.
Audi car seat problem, advice/help please!
The passenger seat on my 1998 Audi A4 will not slide forward/back, I was wondering if there was something I could do to try to fix it with some tools and stuff. Help is appreciated, thanks.Audi car seat problem, advice/help please!
a new seat motor? Check the fuses. Get rid of the car? Everything on that car is eventually going to break.
a new seat motor? Check the fuses. Get rid of the car? Everything on that car is eventually going to break.
';Fungus Gnat'; Problem/NEED Someones advice pretty please?
I have read about SEVERAL things-Natural and Chemical that might work BUT am wondering if anyone has personally tried anything that works for good.,eventually at least?! I have already lost a plant and the other one is following in it's foot-steps etc SO appreciate anyone's Advice asap :( Thanks 2 anyone who may answer :(';Fungus Gnat'; Problem/NEED Someones advice pretty please?
Spectracide bug-stop will murder them and their young (spider mites, mealy bugs, aphids also) and won't hurt your plants. 1/4'; of sand on top of potting soil will prevent young from hatching, adults don't live long. Be watching for spider mites, they usually follow gnats in my house for some reason.
If you think your plants are in danger of dying, take cuttings to root in water or soil - depends on the plant which method they prefer.';Fungus Gnat'; Problem/NEED Someones advice pretty please?
Let your soil dry out between waterings. Then the fungus gnats cant survive. The soil should be dry two or three inches down before watering.
Spectracide bug-stop will murder them and their young (spider mites, mealy bugs, aphids also) and won't hurt your plants. 1/4'; of sand on top of potting soil will prevent young from hatching, adults don't live long. Be watching for spider mites, they usually follow gnats in my house for some reason.
If you think your plants are in danger of dying, take cuttings to root in water or soil - depends on the plant which method they prefer.';Fungus Gnat'; Problem/NEED Someones advice pretty please?
Let your soil dry out between waterings. Then the fungus gnats cant survive. The soil should be dry two or three inches down before watering.
I can't talk to girls my own age but no problem with older girls...advice?
I'm in highschool and constantly go out with friends and can't talk to girls my own age! When I'm at starbucks for love of god i could easily talk to the girl behind me and get her number no problem and shes probably end up being 5 years older but when it comes to school I can't talk to almost any of the girls I'm attracted to.I don't know why and its driving me nuts!?!?!? Please someone help me out here...I can't talk to girls my own age but no problem with older girls...advice?
confidence is key
confidence is key
I have a problem, and I need advice?
I am a freshman.
And I'm shy at times . I'm shy when I'm in a big group of people . I usually hangout with a group of 15 people, and since I'm shy . I don't feel like I belong, I always feel like I'm tagging along and left out.
But when I'm one on one with people, I tend to keep a good conversation.
I just wanna know how to come out of my shell because my year is getting really depressing and I'm getting jealous of the loud popular girls.I have a problem, and I need advice?
My advice is make a really good friend like one of the ones you have good conversations with and when it comes to the loud popular girls you can always say your point and if your good friend is a true friend they will back you up. This means you will always have atleast one person backing you up and if you make a good point i'm sure others will join in. Just whatever you do be yourself. Good luck!! Hope for the best!!I have a problem, and I need advice?
You need to learn to be more confident with yourself, and look approachable. if your head is down and you seem bored people won't want to talk to you. always smile and look dominant. be more of a leader rather than a follower. don't let people walk all over you or it will take a toll on you and turn you into someone you won't want to be...i bet you're an amazing girl, you don't need to be one of those loud popular girls. They're annoying and too into themselves. just be yourself...just amp it up girl!
don't worry. what you're going through now is what other people are going through.
Try a smaller group or just talking to a small section of it. don't compare yourself to others.
try chatting with new people every day. they'll see that you're nice and you'll become a little more well known.
i don't like saying ';popular'; because it makes me think of shallow people who just look cool.
Awwww.........
You are who you are. Be proud of it!
I bet you are a great student and a wonderful person. Be who you are. The ones that are meant to come to you will.
You will find your way. I know it!
There's nothing wrong in being shy
And I'm shy at times . I'm shy when I'm in a big group of people . I usually hangout with a group of 15 people, and since I'm shy . I don't feel like I belong, I always feel like I'm tagging along and left out.
But when I'm one on one with people, I tend to keep a good conversation.
I just wanna know how to come out of my shell because my year is getting really depressing and I'm getting jealous of the loud popular girls.I have a problem, and I need advice?
My advice is make a really good friend like one of the ones you have good conversations with and when it comes to the loud popular girls you can always say your point and if your good friend is a true friend they will back you up. This means you will always have atleast one person backing you up and if you make a good point i'm sure others will join in. Just whatever you do be yourself. Good luck!! Hope for the best!!I have a problem, and I need advice?
You need to learn to be more confident with yourself, and look approachable. if your head is down and you seem bored people won't want to talk to you. always smile and look dominant. be more of a leader rather than a follower. don't let people walk all over you or it will take a toll on you and turn you into someone you won't want to be...i bet you're an amazing girl, you don't need to be one of those loud popular girls. They're annoying and too into themselves. just be yourself...just amp it up girl!
don't worry. what you're going through now is what other people are going through.
Try a smaller group or just talking to a small section of it. don't compare yourself to others.
try chatting with new people every day. they'll see that you're nice and you'll become a little more well known.
i don't like saying ';popular'; because it makes me think of shallow people who just look cool.
Awwww.........
You are who you are. Be proud of it!
I bet you are a great student and a wonderful person. Be who you are. The ones that are meant to come to you will.
You will find your way. I know it!
There's nothing wrong in being shy
Typical problem but i dont want typical advice?
I want a more physical relationship with my boyfriend... not like sex though.... i think about it all the time. But when i am actually with him i get very nervous... What should I do?Typical problem but i dont want typical advice?
I guess it all depends on how long you have been with him and how old you are. If its not a long time then its pretty normal to be nervous around him. Once you guys get comfortable with making out it should get normal. When your in bed or day dreaming about the things you would like to do with him you can try them when your both ready and comfortable with each other. Remember to always be playful!!
I guess the whole point of this response is to wait until your not nervous anymore then you can move to the next step of the relationship! :D
I hope things go well!Typical problem but i dont want typical advice?
Explain what you just said about physical but not sex and all that on a piece of paper, when you next go to a resteraunt tape it to the inside of his menu when he's not looking, he'll open it, read it, and understand completely,or put it somewhere similar. Just be careful though, if still in school, do not put in loker or anywhere like that.
when you're with him, just like make a move instead of just being nervous about it and imagining it. if you want it enough, you'll do something about it. just kiss him, take his hand when you want to, hug him, cuddle with him, etc etc etc.
don't be nervous, he's your boyfriend he will love you anyway. but remember, don't let the physical attraction/stuff take over the emotional part of the relationship.
good luck
Not like sex... so you want to smack him around or just a hickey?
You are really losing me when you ask for atypical advice too - boy do some strange things come to mind and it is a job to keep from typing them for answer deletion purposes only. :)
tell him you want to go farther but not as far as sex. this might make you less nervous so you know he wont be expecting you to make that step
make little movements
grab his junk and just mess around, be playful
he will think its fun and you can get some good out of it
Start slow. Hold hands. Sit with him at lunch. Give him a kiss goodbye on his cheek.
What do you mean if you don't mean sex ?
Wait until you both grow up, maybe?
yeah well you just need to get more experience thats all
I guess it all depends on how long you have been with him and how old you are. If its not a long time then its pretty normal to be nervous around him. Once you guys get comfortable with making out it should get normal. When your in bed or day dreaming about the things you would like to do with him you can try them when your both ready and comfortable with each other. Remember to always be playful!!
I guess the whole point of this response is to wait until your not nervous anymore then you can move to the next step of the relationship! :D
I hope things go well!Typical problem but i dont want typical advice?
Explain what you just said about physical but not sex and all that on a piece of paper, when you next go to a resteraunt tape it to the inside of his menu when he's not looking, he'll open it, read it, and understand completely,or put it somewhere similar. Just be careful though, if still in school, do not put in loker or anywhere like that.
when you're with him, just like make a move instead of just being nervous about it and imagining it. if you want it enough, you'll do something about it. just kiss him, take his hand when you want to, hug him, cuddle with him, etc etc etc.
don't be nervous, he's your boyfriend he will love you anyway. but remember, don't let the physical attraction/stuff take over the emotional part of the relationship.
good luck
Not like sex... so you want to smack him around or just a hickey?
You are really losing me when you ask for atypical advice too - boy do some strange things come to mind and it is a job to keep from typing them for answer deletion purposes only. :)
tell him you want to go farther but not as far as sex. this might make you less nervous so you know he wont be expecting you to make that step
make little movements
grab his junk and just mess around, be playful
he will think its fun and you can get some good out of it
Start slow. Hold hands. Sit with him at lunch. Give him a kiss goodbye on his cheek.
What do you mean if you don't mean sex ?
Wait until you both grow up, maybe?
yeah well you just need to get more experience thats all
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